Custom Email Assignments.

Not quite plucked up the nerve to serve Me on cam yet? Well never fear; there are still ways to serve Me and explore your kinky side at the same time!

I offer custom email assignments for boys who would prefer to serve Me in a less "obtrusive" manner. These assignments are tailor-made kinky tasks, custom designed with your kinks and fetishes in mind. Perhaps you have a fetish you're dying to explore? Perhaps you've never really ventured into the world of BDSM, and are now ready to "dip your toe"?

Email Assignments are the perfect way to ease yourself into the world of BDSM & fetish. Assignments can be designed for a novice to more advanced for the more experienced kink monsters among you.

Each assignment comprises a set of kinky tasks for you to complete by a set deadline. As you complete each task, you are expected to take photographs of your humiliation. Perhaps I will share your humiliation with the world and post your photographs of My website? How embarrassing to know the world is watching your shame!

At the end of the assignment; your final task is to do a diary of each task you have completed. Your diary will detail the task, and your experience as you carried it out. Be sure to include as much detail as possible - My fans really want to know how much you squirmed in shame!

Conditions for email assignments are straight forward. You MUST be aged 21 or over. You MUST have at least a basic knowledge of BDSM. And most importantly; you MUST be 100% clear about your kinks and also those kinks you're absolutely NOT into.

Ready to take the plunge? Then get in touch by email and tell Me how you propose to entertain Me with such task!

mistresscristal@mail.com 

The dreaded "wasabi treatment".....

Ah, the moment chastity sub had long since been dreading. It was time to move his suffering up a few notches. Enter the "wasabi treatment"!

"When Mistress Cristal instructed me to purchase wasabi paste to be used in the next session I was to have with Mistress it immediately filled me with a feeling of deep anticipation and dread. Mistress has ordered me to use hot English mustard and hot Tabasco before on Her cock and balls and nipples and I have experienced and suffered the heat they generate. However wasabi has a reputation of being very hot to touch on skin so the knowledge that I would be experiencing this gave a deep feeling of dread and anticipation. I know that I am fully owned by Mistress Cristal and that I have no choice in what is done to me or my body as it is Mistresses to do with as she desires. I also know that any thought I have on anything is of no concern to Mistress as what is important is what Mistress desires or chooses.

When I went into the supermarket I was full of anticipation and when I picked up the wasabi all I could think of was how hot it would feel on me when used. It was 2 weeks after purchasing the paste that I had a session with Mistress. In those 2 weeks I was always conscious that the paste was there waiting to be used and was in dread of the feeling of it. All that time knowing I had no choice in how it was used as it was all Mistress Cristals choice. I could see the wasabi every day reminding me of what I was due to experience.

On the day of the session I had everything prepared and ready for Mistress Cristal to use in any way she chose. I was in complete trepidation and dread and fear of what was to come and excited in the knowledge that as I am the property of Mistress Cristal that I had to fully submit with no choice or concern of my thoughts.

The session was over an hour of suffering cock, ball and nipple torture for Mistresses amusement and pleasure. Throughout all the suffering I knew there was more to experience and I was in dread that it was going to be worse than I have ever experienced before. When Mistress instructed me to spread a generous amount of the wasabi paste onto a plate I was in complete dread and trepidation in fear it was going to be the worst heat I have ever been made to experience for Mistresses pleasure and amusement.

When Mistress Cristal instructed me to paint the wasabi paste with an artist paint brush generously over Her balls I knew I had no choice but to obey. Before hand the balls had already been made sore and very tender from the session. During the session I had them spanked hard with a wooden spoon before having 2 industrial clamps applied biting in hard and painfully. With the clamps attached I had been forced to do a minutes marching, a minutes jogging on the spot, 20 squats, 20 lunges with the left leg and 20 lunges with the right leg, can can for a minute and a minutes pogo jumping. Throughout all this the pain of the clamps bouncing around tugging hard on the skin of my balls was very hard and got worse with each second. After this I had a pin wheel run deep around the skin next to were the clamps were biting in which was a strong pain going right through me making me shake hard. After this the balls had been further softened by having hot wax dripped on them which as it hit areas were the clamps had bitten in and where the pins had dug in deep really stung hard. Once the wax was hardened every spot of it was removed by whipping hard with a leather belt. Before the paste was even applied my balls were really tender and sore. The heat from the wasabi as the brush touched my balls was like the flame from the candle being applied directly to them. The heat got worse and worse as my balls were fully coated in a thick layer of wasabi paste. They felt like they were on a hot plate with the heat gradually getting hotter and hotter bringing more tears to my eyes all the time.

I was then instructed to paint the paste onto my nipples. During the session they had also been made sore and tender by having clover clamps applied with 16 ounces of weights added to hang off them tugging them down hard before doing the exercises as above. As the exercising had intensified the swinging of the weights on the clamps had gotten worse making the clamps bite harder and tug sharper on my nipples. As the weights bounced up there was a moment of release of tension of the clamps on the nipples immediately followed by gravity forcing the weights back down increasing the pain of the biting of the clamps more and more. Do to the sweating from the exercise, pain and humidity the clamps slipped from the nipples which made them tug down hard on the nipples causing more pain than when they were put on. When I was allowed to remove the industrial clamps from my balls I had to place them on my nipples and as they were already so sore and tender from the weighted clover clamps the pain was tremendous. After Mistress gave me permission to remove the clamps the pin wheel was run over the nipples deep which was incredibly sharp and painful. As my nipples were already so tender and in pain I was in dread of the heat from the wasabi paste. As it was painted on thickly the heat also felt like a naked flame on them getting hotter and hotter and made me shake and sweat a lot more.

The heat from the wasabi paste coated on my balls and nipples was far worse than I had suffered from hot mustard and hot Tabasco and seemed to keep getting hotter and hotter with each second bringing more sweat and tears to my eyes. I had no choice but to endure it for as long as Mistress decided for her pleasure and amusement. My pain and suffering and discomfort was of no concern to Mistress as it is Her pleasure that is the principal goal.

I then had the vibrating butt plug inserted and put on its most intense setting. There was some pleasure felt from the vibrations but this was overwhelmed by the heat.

During the 2 weeks I had the wasabi I had been instructed by Mistress to undertake 2 hours tease and denial every day collecting my pre cum in a brandy glass with an extra 5 hour tease and denial the day before the session. Mistress made me take the full content of the glass into my mouth and keep it there until She said otherwise. It felt humiliating having a mouth full of pre cum being made to taste it for as long as Mistress wanted.

Mistress then gave me permission to wank but only by wrapping coarse sandpaper around Her cock and using that. It was a strange mixture of pain and discomfort from the heat burning my balls and nipples and the sandpaper rubbing my already tortured and tender cock mixed with pleasure from wanking after being on edge for 2 weeks solid and from the vibrating butt plug and shame and humiliation from having a mouthful of pre cum and tasting it all the time. After some hard begging Mistress was very kind to allow me to cum in the glass. I felt great pleasure from cumming which was immediately replaced with a reminder of how hot the wasabi was burning. Mistress then allowed me to swallow all the pre cum and then drink the full content of the glass followed by the humiliation of having to scoop every last part of the cum out with my fingers and lick them clean and swallow it all like I was hungry and thirsty for every last drop of cum like a cum hungry slut.

After the session I also had the humiliation of Mistress informing the whole world of my suffering and showing them pictures of my hot wasabi covered balls and nipples.

It was a relief to have permission after this from Mistress to remove the hot wasabi and apply cucumber to help cool my balls and nipples. It was the hottest they have ever been and the heat lasted for hours . Mistress also filled me with further dread by saying this appeared to be her weapon of choice now knowing how hot it actually is. I know as Mistress Cristal pet and property what is most important is Her pleasure and there is no concern for my thoughts on anything or my suffering in achieving this."

And since then; chastity sub has acquired another "instrument of torture"....keep your eyes peeled for what THAT might be....

An intense torture session with Chastity Sub.

Generally speaking; Chastity Sub reports to Me every Friday afternoon for some harsh CBT and nipple torture so he can show Me how much he enjoys suffering for My amusement. This week however, he reported for his weekly suffering a day early and that feeling is rather like getting an early birthday present - it's a nice surprise and you can't wait to open it!

Now Chastity Sub can take A LOT of torture. He is a very resilient slave who enjoys having his pain threshold pushed over and over again. I certainly don't go easy on him. And I especially don't go easy on him if he appears before Me with a flaccid cock. He knows how I feel about that. He also knows that his cock belongs to Me and because it belongs to Me; it will always stand to attention. If I see it shrinking; it is forced to stand to attention by any painful means necessary. So I like to ensure it behaves itself in this manner by commanding him to repeatedly slap it hard with the back of a wooden spoon. This treatment is just limited to his cock either. The helmet and indeed his balls all get the same harsh treatment to ensure they remember who they belong to.

I also like to start off our sessions rather tame and work up in intensity to drive him into a frenzy. Throughout the session; I will ask him to give Me a pain rating which at the moment can be anywhere between 1 and 300. Obviously; the higher the rating, the more pain he is experiencing. He started off with a rating of 8 - which is simply not good enough for My standards. So to ensure the rating started on a solid incline; I had him attach two of these bad boys to his ball bag...

These clamps are not for the faint-hearted. They are heavy and they pinch - a lot. They bite into the skin nicely and have been known to pierce the skin on a few of our sessions. Those are the sessions when I have him rub vinegar or even salt into the wounds..literally.

But today I decided to increase the intensity of these clamps by having him also attach 16 bulldog clips to his balls. A further 4 bulldog clips were attached to his foreskin and string was threaded through. And to ensure his cock remembered it's place; he was instructed to tug on the string to stretch his foreskin (and make the clips bite in harder) while he whipped the shaft of his cock hard with a folded up leather belt. Half-way through his 2 minutes of whipping; he was already beginning to shake in agony and I was left in no doubt that the pain rating would continue to climb.

Once the whipping was complete; I allowed him to remove the bulldog clips from around his foreskin before having him adopt "Position 2"; for some much-needed exercise:

His weekly exercise regime does vary but this week it included the following:

Marching briskly on the spot - 1 minute.

Jogging on the spot - 1 minute.

15 lunges - right leg

15 lunges - left leg

20 squats.

And perhaps the most cruel of all..

Pogo jumping - 1 minute

Easy you may think? Well not really. For one thing; Chastity Sub is not the fittest of slaves and secondly; aerobic exercise whilst wearing heavy and biting clamps on his balls is NOT easy. This was especially evident when he was doing his pogo jumping - an exercise he dreads. His balls were bouncing all over the place but being weighed down by the clamps. He was in excruciating agony as was evident from the screams he was clearly emitting.

Once I was satisfied he'd had a full work-out; it was back to Position 1 for some further torture and at this point I had him remove two bulldog clips from his balls and place them on his nipples. As you can see; all that exercise worked up quite a sweat - although I do suspect that the pain had something to do with it as well.

Unfortunately for Chastity Sub; he wasn't quite paying attention when I issued that last command and attempted to remove the large clamps from his balls. Tut, tut! I expect My boys to get it right the first time. So on to Position 3 was he for a sound spanking with the back of a wooden spoon. 

Those white marks will be turning purple as the hours tick by - a nice lasting reminder for him pay attention in the future.

Once I was satisfied he had learned his lesson; it was back into Position 1 for some hot wax treatment. His task was to drizzle hot wax all over his shaft and helmet and wait for it to set. This is a method which features more often than not in our sessions simply because it's very intense - particularly in the removal. I don't allow him the luxury of simply picking the wax off. I have him whip the wax off with the leather belt. This can take anywhere from 80 to 200 strokes - depending on how hard he's whipping and it wouldn't be the first time he's ended up with a very bruised and swollen cock as a result. There's no danger of him wanking it after such a session - that cock is too sore for him to manage it.

And after the cock had suffered the wax treatment; it was time for those balls to follow suit. Of course it's far more painful to remove the clips and clamps from his balls than it is to put them on. He always removes the larger clamps rather gingerly and I do enjoy the sight of him shaking in agony as he does so. It's usually at this point the screams get louder and the neighbours start to wonder if somebody is being murdered....

After the clamps have been removed and he's screamed the house down; it's time for the hot wax to be drizzled on to his balls. They're already very sore and the hot wax feels like a thousand bees stinging his ball bag all at once. I like to prolong this treatment so that firstly; I can make sure all of his balls are covered - particularly the "hard to whip" areas and secondly to prolong his agony. What kind of sadist would I be if I didn't? And today while we again waited for the wax to set; I had him pick up his pin wheel and run it all over his cock, including the helmet as he squirmed and shook at the pins digging in nicely. After 2 minutes I had him stop with the pin wheel. It was time to remove the wax.

Watching him whip off all that wax was very satisfying. He was squirming all over the place and would have more than likely gladly ripped off his balls to save himself from the agony. In the past; he's tried to stop before all the wax is removed and has quickly learned the hard way that attempting to fool Mistress is definitely not a good idea. So these days; he ensures he removes every last speck, no matter how painful the process might be.

Another round with the pin wheel followed the wax removal; as he dug the pins into the rather angry looking indentations left by the large clamps. To give you a clue as to how that feels; imagine the worst paper cut you've ever had and then dipping it into a cup of vinegar. Brings tears to your eyes doesn't it? Yes the pin wheel always does for Chastity Sub - particularly when used AFTER the clamps.

Finally to ensure the agony of his "great balls of fire" was prolonged; I instructed him to paint them with hot English mustard. He'll rinse that off when I feel like it. I omitted to tell him a time when he could rinse it off...just to keep him dangling and squirming in pain...

He thinks the English Mustard is the worst. How very much mistaken he is! Next week it's time for the wasabi treatment.

Did Chastity Sub earn his orgasm today? Yes he did. But not without some humiliation. He's been teasing himself for 2 hours every day for the last week. He has ensured he has collected his pre-cum in a brandy glass and reserved it for our session. Usually; I will make him drink it after he's cum in it. But today I decided to make things that bit more shameful for him. Instead, I had him take his mouthful of pre-cum and hold it there while he masturbated into a glass using a piece of coarse sandpaper. Pleasure and pain is the name of the game! After begging for his release; he came very hard and it was only then that I allowed him to swallow his mouthful. Of course there was another mouthful for him to swallow - the mess he'd just made in the glass. He took every last drop like an obedient pet. And what was his pain rating at the end of the session? A whopping 250! Next time; I will ensure he reaches 300 but for now; slave has pleased his Mistress well.

What makes a true submissive?

As I've mentioned before; the reason I only have a handful of owned submissives under My wing is because I take QUALITY over quantity. I have very high expectations and I expect My slaves to strive hard to meet them. Sadly; only a small percentage will last that distance and that small percentage are among the elite - those of whom are able to prove themselves worthy of My precious attention.

Anybody can type out an email and approach a Dominatrix with the intention of serving Her. But it's the thought and effort which goes into that email and indeed beyond; which makes a HUGE difference between gaining Her attention and finding themselves being ignored. "Surely it's just a case of doing as you're told" is a common misconception among many "would be" submissives. In truth it is far more complex than that. Obeying orders is just one small part of the whole dynamic of a D/s relationship and true servitude comes from within.

So what does make a good slave?

Let's talk about submission as a starting point. The fact is; submission is either given or it isn't. And when it is given; it's given in its entirety. No Dominatrix I know of will take on somebody who is only "a little bit" submissive. You either are or you aren't. And if you fall into the unsure category; then perhaps you're not ready to take the plunge into a D/s relationship until you have established what you really are.

By definition; to "submit" is to surrender all free will and give up control to another. And that control is absolute and extends far beyond the physical sense. The "controlled" should expect to have every single aspect of his life controlled for him - his thought patterns; his priorities, his day to day life; sometimes even his diet, his relationships, his wants and his needs and sometimes even his finances. And it is for this very reason why submission cannot be given at only half-measures. And on both sides of the coin; it is not to be undertaken by those who are only mildly curious. Just as giving up control comes with a certain amount of responsibility; taking control comes with a huge amount of responsibility.

As a Dominatrix; I am totally responsible for My slaves and not just their obedience. I am responsible for their physical, mental and emotional well-being. It is so very important not to lose sight of the fact that they are also human beings, Taking control of a slave is not as simple as say training a new puppy. Human beings by nature are far more complex than that and their psyche is often very very fragile. Respect and trust are the most important aspects of a D/s relationship. The submissive respects and trusts in you to keep them safe from any real harm. And you must respect their boundaries and weaknesses. You must also trust in them to be honest.

A true submissive will always put the needs of his Superiors above his own. Indeed; they understand that their needs are not important. That's not to say that they are robots who will willingly obey every command you give. Submission is more than that. It is a state of mind and will come easily to those who are genuinely submissive.

So from the word go; in that first point of contact with a Dominatrix; and before you even start taping out that application email; you need to ask yourself one very important question. "Why should I be considered?" To put things into perspective; I receive countless applications on a weekly basis. 90% of those applications are ignored. Why? Because they lack standards, care, effort and above all; selflessness. So think about the applications that fail to make the grade and consider why yours should stand out from the rest. What are you going to do to encourage said Dominatrix to actually READ your email? And how do you intend to illicit a positive response from Her? As a hint; "wrITing lYke Dis" is rude and unhelpful and will find itself in the bin....Don't rely on the spell-check either. There is no substitute for proof-reading to ensure good spelling and grammar.

Then comes the actual journey of servitude. Ask yourself this; "do you care more about what you get out of it or what your Mistress gets out of it?" Now this might seem an easy question to answer at first. But look at it again and consider another fact. If Mistress chooses to deny you any pleasure for an indeterminate period of time; will you consider yourself lucky or hard done to? If it's the latter; then servitude is not for you. If you understand that your frustration entertains Her and puts a smile on Her face; then your head is starting to get in the right place. And don't think you can fake your way through this process either. A good Dominatrix can spot that a mile off and it will quickly put a rather abrupt end to your journey.

Are you prepared to do whatever Mistress demands of you? If your answer starts with "yes but only if..." don't even continue that sentence. In fact; don't even continue reading. A true submissive realises that his servitude is not open for negotiation. He doesn't do what Mistress commands because he wants to. He does it because his Mistress is making him. That's not to say that Mistress will totally ignore your limits. These limits or "no go" areas are agreed upon before servitude begins. It is also mutual and...here's that important word again..RESPECTED. Mistress doesn't breach your limits on the understanding that you don't breach Hers. Respect is a two-way street.

And finally; is your selflessness "outside the box"? Are you intuitive in how you can further please your Mistress? Have you paid enough attention to Her to understand how best to please Her? Now this is something which separates the wheat from the chaff. A true submissive has the initiative to go above and beyond not because he wants something out of it; but because he receives real pleasure from the knowledge he has pleased his Mistress. And he comes up with more creative and SELFLESS ways to do this. Everything he does is with his Mistress in mind. And because it's with Mistress is mind; he always seeks Her permission before he does it. Making assumptions is the worst thing a sub and in fact a Domme can do. NEVER ASSUME. Just like every submissive is different; so is every Dominatrix. And we Dommes are VERY unpredictable. We make it our mission to be unpredictable - that's how we keep you chomping at the bit to continue pleasing us. The steps are simple - think, ask and act accordingly. And accept when Mistress says "no". Boys who whine and complain are not submissive. They're needy and they're selfish. I personally don't give the time of day to needy boys. I prefer boys who respect the word "no" as My final answer. Neither should a submissive expect Mistress to back up Her decision with a reason. The answer is simply; "because She has said so."

AVAILABILITY WEEK COMMENCING 4 JANUARY.

Now that Christmas and New Year are out of the way; it's time for Mistress to get back to normal. And I know you've been waiting for this. As much as I do enjoy a break - I also like to get back into My routine as quickly as possible.

So camming hours for this coming week are as follows:

SUNDAY 3 JANUARY 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

MONDAY 4 JANUARY - 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

TUESDAY 5 JANUARY - NOT AVAILABLE.

WEDNESDAY 6 JANUARY - NOT AVAILABLE

THURSDAY 7 JANUARY - 1PM UNTIL 5PM (TBC)

FRIDAY 8 JANUARY - 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

SATURDAY 9 JANUARY - 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

Webcam bookings are priced at £1 per minute. Minimum booking length for a webcam session is 10 minutes. Tribute is payable via Amazon.co.uk Gift Card in advance.

To book; simply email Me at the address below:

mistresscristal@mail.com

Cam Days Week Commencing 25th May.

This week will see a change to My usual cam schedule because PS has a birthday on Sunday - so I will be spending all day "playing" with him and giving him My exclusive attention. You boys will just have to imagine all the things I'm going to do to him...and in turn; have him do to Me...

So, I will be available on cam, between 12.30pm and 5pm on the following days:

Wednesday 27 May.

Thursday 28 May.

Friday 29 May.

Saturday 30 May.

On Thursday, I will be doing a couple of hours in the evening from 6pm until 8pm.

Sessions are conducted via Skype and are booked in advance. Tribute is via Amazon UK Gift Card only. If you wish to book; simply email Me at the address below:

mistresscristal@mail.com

Education for idiots.

There are some days when you're on cam and it's just great. Busy, busy busy - lots of good, well-mannered boys eager to serve. And they serve well; knowing exactly what is expected of them. You finish your cam sessions for the day feeling happy and satisfied, and looking forward to the next day.

And some days you get on cam and you're plagued by idiots. I'm not just talking the odd one or two. I'm talking one after another. They're in the droves, like a plague of locusts all flocking to My cam room with the most ridiculous of "suggestions" in how they may best serve Me:

"Miss, will you measure my huge dick?"
"Mistress, will you fuck yourself while I wank?"
"Give me a free preview Miss, then I'll take you private."
"Yo bitch, you're gonna be my slave."

And the list goes on...each one more stupid than the last. I spend the whole time with My finger hovering over the "kick" button.

Then they're at it on twitter....

"Miss, follow me please..."
"Will you pls follow?"
"I wanna be your friend!"

I don't need your friendship...I have friends..and I didn't find them by begging strangers on twitter.

So here's a few "pointers" to hopefully slap the idiot out of you.

1. I don't follow back unless you are a) owned by Me or b) have made a tribute...period.
2. I'm not interested in your dick. I don't care about it...it is not important to Me.
3. There is a reason why I advertise Myself as "Dominant" ...I'm NEVER submissive.
4. There are no "free previews" or "try before you buy". My attention is not for free. If you want it - pay for it.
5. "Hey" is not the way to greet Mistress. "Hey" is for horses.
6. Neither is "bby, honey, sexy, sweetie, bb, babe, or gorgeous."
7. Free preview is not for explicit chat. I will tell you this ONCE and ONCE only - then you're gone; never to return.
8. Serving Me is about My needs. Only when you have pleased Me will I consider your needs.
9. I wear what I like on webcam. I'm not about to change into something else because it's what you want. What you want isn't important.
10. I'm not here to make you cum. I may consider allowing you to cum IF you please Me. Don't assume you'll always be allowed relief. Your relief depends on how well you serve Me.
11. "I'll do anything you want" is FUCKING BORING. If that's how you think you can serve then you're not worthy of My attention. Those who say they will "do whatever I want" are kicked out of My cam room, never to return.
12. I don't do text speak. If you're too lazy to properly string a sentence together, then you're too lazy to serve Me.
13. My AdultWork profile is there for you to READ; not just look at the pictures.
14. No I don't meet...and anyone who asks this clearly hasn't done their research...the result of which will be them being blocked.

Finally here's the answer to the most annoying question:

"Mistress, do you get naked?"

Time to start the journey.....

Because your life has no meaning without Me....

Because you yearn to throw yourself at My feet.....

Because you know you have no choice but to obey....

You will crawl, you will kneel and you will serve.

Skype bookings available today until 4.30pm....your journey into complete submission begins here.....

mistresscristal@mail.com

The House Rules.

Read, learn and obey them at all times..

There is a lot more to Domination than whips and chains....

Controlling a submissive is not always about whips and chains. It is a very common misconception that serving a Dominatrix involves physical suffering and pain. On the contrary. In actual fact; domination is 90% psychological and 10 % physical.

My subs enjoy the fact that each session has a lasting effect and it has nothing to do with pain and marking. Many of My slaves prefer not to have marks, for obvious reasons. Sessions are a well kept secret between Domme and sub; which is why trust is a very important issue in this field. When you are serving a Dominatrix; you are putting your complete trust in Her and the fact that you do have a life outside of your kinks.

I digress. The lasting effect My subs enjoy is the way I make them feel. Whilst they fear Me and My unpredictable nature; they also feel safe with Me. They feel a sense of freedom in being able to express their kinky side without fear of their privacy being breached. I suppose in a sense I am like a kinky "Agony Aunt", except I've no interest in hearing about how their wife fucked the babysitter and now she's pregnant (unless it's a cuckold session of course!). I'm more interested in what makes them tick.

More often that not; they don't necessarily have to tell Me what makes them tick. With the very basic amount of information; I can start working My way into their psyche and start paying attention to "triggers". It is these triggers which alert Me to what they crave and need. The more triggers I pick upon, the more layers I peel away until I finally reach their kinky core - and it's then that I've entered their mind - in every sense.

It's kind of hard to explain what the triggers are. It could be a reference to something, or even a sound they make. It could even be an almost imperceptible flash in their eyes. But whatever it is; the moment I see it, that's when I know I've got them. It's like fishing in a way. You cast out your line with a nice juicy worm. The fish sees the worm and are instantly drawn to it. And then they take a bite - that's the moment you reel them in. But of course you have to take care. Reel them in too slowly and they'll lose interest. But do it too quickly and you'll lose your grip on them. How quickly or slowly you reel them in takes practice - and depends on the fish.

No, I'm not talking about angling here. What I'm talking about right now; are the unique differences between each sub. It is very foolish to assume every submissive is the same; just as it's equally foolish to assume you know what each sub wants before you've cast out that juicy worm. Patience and probing - that's the key.

But once you've caught them; that's when the real fun begins. It's then that you start the spell. The physical domination is just a small part of it. You've walked into their mind and now it's time to start taking full control of it. And this is the bit I love. What can I say? I adore psychology - and I adore working with psychology.

I like to use a sub's triggers to gain control of him. If I receive a trigger which tells Me he needs chastity - then that's the route I'll go down. I'll talk about how he deserves to be locked away - and how he will never know how long I intend to keep him caged for. Days, weeks, months...perhaps forever. The threat of being in chastity on a permanent basis is a very big turn on for somebody with a chastity fetish. It's the ultimate form of control - Mistress has taken complete control of sub's sexual freedom - the sexual freedom they once took for granted.

Or maybe they want to be cuckolded. Another psychological fetish. No, it's not about seeing the wife get fucked by a big black guy - that is only part of the fetish. It's about sub being completely emasculated. Take away that machismo and what has he got left? Nothing. It's at that point he's completely powerless. It is at that point he has a void - and so he needs to fill that void. How does he fill it? Well that's through several ways. The first is to obey the one who now controls him. He obeys because he realises that without his male pride, he has nothing to identify his gender in an emotional sense. All he can do is sit back and watch his wife enjoy being pleasured by another man. And he does this because it's a window to what he once had, but will never have again. He takes pleasure from being cruelly reminded of what only a real man can have.

Couple that with queening and chastity and you have very powerful control over that sub. You are reminding him of his place. Yes, he may lick his wife, but only to clean up what another man has left. You're showing him that he only serves a purpose - a means to an end - and a disposable means at that. Once he's done his cleaning duty; he's forgotten about. His role is tiny and is over very quickly.

The chastity part reminds him that it's not about him or his pleasure. He quickly learns his new role - to give pleasure - but not ever to expect pleasure himself. You are using psychology to objectify your sub. He's not a person any more. He's a tool; and he's there to do a job for another. But never to serve himself. This is the every essence of Female Supremacy.

It's is these feelings My subs enjoy and remember the most. It's not about how good the orgasm was (don't forget - orgasm isn't guaranteed in My sessions.) neither is it about how painful the torture was. It's about the roller-coaster of emotions they go through at every stage of the session. I've known slaves break down and cry at the end of a session - because the emotions they felt were so powerful. All those different feelings whizzing around and bumping in to each other have to go somewhere - and the dam bursts - the out-pouring begins. This is why many of My subs will agree that a session is a great stress reliever. IF they are allowed to cum; they release a lot more than ejaculate!

I enjoy that fact that I can experience this with them. Seeing that sense of relief on their face at the end of the session is just as enjoyable as the actual sessions itself. Which is why I said I am like a kinky Agony Aunt. My subs are unburdening themselves - through their fantasies, their desires, their memories and their experiences. They are making sense of what they are feeling. And I'm sharing that journey with them. It is that which makes being a Dominatrix extra special!

Kik & Skype Chat Rules.

There are some boys out there who are attempting to add Me on Kik or Skype without first making tribute. Well let Me tell you; you really are wasting your time - that is YOUR time, not Mine. 

You see; as I have reminded you numb-skulls over and over again; My attention is NOT for free. If you want it - you pay for it. No pay = NO PLAY. End of. Attempting to add Me without making tribute will result in you being instantly blocked. I am not negotiating on this. And I am not making any exceptions.

Those who have a genuine desire to serve; are only too pleased to pay a small tribute for the honour of gaining access to My private Kik and Skype IDs. They know what they must do to be granted access into My online world. And they don't sit there; making excuse after excuse as to why they should have free attention. They simply do as they are told - and tribute. And this is the way I do things. If you don't like it then don't approach. 

If you feel that you cannot afford to tribute in order to chat with Me via these methods; then it is plainly obvious that you cannot afford to serve Me. I don't owe you anything and there is no "try before you buy". The message is simple; PAY UP OR PISS OFF. I'm not going to sugar coat it. 

Oh and for those who dare to ask; "what do I get in return"; you are invited to shove your tribute up your arse and keep it there. I'm not interested in chatting to those who don't have their priorities in the right order. I'm NUMBER ONE on your list of priorities - you aren't on the list. And I will only consider your needs once you have pleased Me. That's right - PLEASE ME. That is what serving is all about - ME. If you fail to understand that - then you have no business contacting Me.

Free-Loaders - How to spot them - and how to exterminate them!

Today I want to talk about free-loaders. You will have probably heard Me use this term very often. And for those of you who don't understand what a free-loaders is; you're about to receive some education.

A free-loader who is somebody who seeks your attention or a cam show, but has no intention of paying for it. They've probably exhausted every free-porn site on the net and now want a taste of a live show...but expect it for free. They haven't had to pay for their porn before, so why should they pay for it now, live or not?

Let’s face it – free-loaders are scum. They are leeches who plague Dommes and camgirls because in their warped imagination; they feel we OWE it to them to give them free attention. We are just a stranger on a webcam and because of that they feel they shouldn’t have to pay for our time. Hell, we only exist so they can get their rocks off, right? Without them, we wouldn’t even be on cam…WRONG!

The fact is, we don’t need the attention of free-loaders.  And it seriously is messed up thinking that they expect us to help them “cum” or live out their sexual fantasies for nothing. It’s not going to happen.  They are simply stealing our time and our attention and taking advantage at the same time.

Seriously, would you go into a restaurant; have a slap-up 4 course meal, and say “yeah, I feel satisfied now, but don’t bother sending me the bill. I’m having this for nothing!”? No of course you wouldn’t. And would you take your car into the garage, have it serviced and then say “yeah this is on the house – you need to service my car. I don’t need you!” Nope, that wouldn’t happen either.

The restaurant and the garage amount to the same – they are providing a service. So are we. And because we are providing a service; we expect to be PAID for it. It’s not about demanding you give us money because you owe us. It’s about the fact that we are giving you one on one attention, taking time out of our day to speak to you, performing on webcam for you, as SERVICE – not out of the goodness of our hearts. Yeah, some of us may be as sweet as sugar – but we’re not stupid and you’re not a charity case.

Day in, day out I encounter freeloaders – mostly on AdultWork  Direct Cam. Yes, I could choose not to use the free preview option – but in all honesty, if it wasn't for the freeloaders – it would be a nifty little marketing tool. Sometimes I’ll offer free preview throughout my entire shift, sometimes I’ll offer it for a limited time – just to whet their appetite.  But I won’t EVER give them a full cam show for free.

The thing is; most free-loaders are subtle about it. But not so subtle that I don’t know what they’re up to. The ones who hang around in free preview asking endless questions..yeah, they’re stealing your attention away from those who are happy to pay for your time. The ones who claim they will go private if you stand up, show your feet,  or any other part of your body – yeah right, I’ve heard THAT one before. Try before you buy – not in My cam room.

And then there are those who are blatant – and yes I have had a few of these. I had one recently, who gave the game away by asking; “what do you do in free?” Now this speaks volumes. Translated it means  “I’m a free-loader. I’m not going to pay – but you’re going to give me what I want in free preview..”  No, I’m not. And with that, like every other free-loader – he was kicked out. And even though it’s a six week block via Adultwork, I shall remember him – and keep kicking him out until he gets the message and stops trying.

Free-loaders find themselves in for a big disappointment when they try it on with Me. I don’t give anything away. No teasing flashes of feet, no Skype address, no kik usernames, no explicit chat – NOTHING until they have paid. If they send gifts, they don’t get ANYTHING until gift is received (yes, free-loaders like to cancel gifts as well). In fact, if they’re unknown to Me, they tribute via gift certificate until they have proven themselves trustworthy. No tribute – no attention. This is also why I only take Amazon GC as tribute. I don’t take Paypal, not just because Paypal  doesn’t allow it but because payments can be reversed or cancelled.

I also apply the same approach with emails. I have a 3 email rule – they will get a response to 3 emails and no more. After that; they are expected to tribute. No tribute means no more emails to them. This applies to both My personal email address and the AdultWork/NiteFlirt email system. Just think about it – while you’re sending emails to them; they’re stealing your time and attention and probably getting a free wank in the process.

The trick is to be vigilant. Don’t give it away – give an inch and they will take a yard.  And trust your gut. If you instincts tell you “okay, this guy is after a freebie” get rid of them. Don’t allow them to steal your attention away from those who are paying for you time. If they claim they have “sent tribute” double check. If they tip in Direct Cam – verify they have tipped before doing a show. Yes, that is a popular scam as well – fake tips. If they attempt to chat with you on Skype – remind them at once that they must pay tribute. Then don’t engage in any further conversation with them until they have made that tribute If they don’t  tribute; get rid of them – those who are genuine will be only too happy to tribute. Those who come up with excuse after excuse, or try the old “delay tactics” have no intention of paying. Yes, I’m referring to those who attempt to chat after you have told them to make a tribute – they aren’t going to pay – so you aren’t going to talk to them.

Oh and those on twitter who ask you to follow them – they’re free-loaders. (And more often than not; are the twitter "egg".)  A genuine sub knows that to be granted the honour of a follow; he has to tribute. Same goes for those who send you a DM when you have specifically told them to email you – they ignore your demand and continue to message you. Yeah – ignore them – they don’t want to tribute either.

Be smart; be up front and tell them straight – you want it, you pay for it. And STICK to it. Don’t be swayed by promises, offers or even threats (yes, I’ve been threatened with bad feedback by a free-loader! Like him, his threat meant nothing.)  It’s YOUR cam room or cam business at the end of the day. And it’s YOUR rules.  If they can’t follow them, then they have no business approaching you.

Erotic Hypnosis - Surrender to My voice!

I want you to fall deeper and deeper under My spell as you experience the incredible impact of My hypnotic control. Listen to the sound of My voice... as you feel yourself being pulled further into My world, lulling you into a deep hypnotic trance until your mind surrenders to Me completely.

With each word I say; you will find yourself becoming weaker and weaker until it is impossible to resist..... You will drift away, surrendering all that you are; giving yourself to Me, in a true need to serve and obey.... You were made to serve.... You were made to obey....You made to please Me.... You were made for this.

Each and every word I say will give you meaning; and you will understand that you need to act upon those words... You will see that I am helping you to understand what you were made to do...and you will be powerless to resist the urge to do what you were made to do...to serve...to obey..to please...

Let yourself go...relax...hear My words....listen to My voice...let My voice take you....deeper and deeper....into a state of hypnotic bliss....becoming weak...becoming compliant.....becoming obedient....becoming what you were made to be....totally submissive to Me.

Erotic Hypnosis is available via MP3. To see the MP3's I currently have available, visit the link below:

www.thecristaldomme.com/p/erotic-femdom-hypnosis.html

SLAVE VIDEO TASKS.

One thing I LOVE to do is to see slaves humiliate and degrade themselves in front of a camera for My entertainment. I know full well that there are some of you attention-starved sluts who come over all of a quiver at the thought of recording a special movie clip for Me - and the thought of Me watching it at My leisure, whilst laughing at your ridiculous antics; probably has your pathetic little maggots drooling. 

Of course, those who REALLY entertain Me may enjoy having their clip added to My website (subject to prior agreement) for all to see. Public humiliation will also add to your delicious degradation!

However, I understand that some out there are concerned about their privacy. This being the case; you may obscure your face in the clips as needed, if you would prefer to be anonymous.

Video tasks are priced at £10 each - for a clip of no longer than 5 mins. You will be given instructions of exactly WHAT I expect you to do in the clip and when I expect you to submit the tasks to Me. Again, penalties are in force for those who are late.

To receive a video task simply tribute £10 by Amazon.co.uk Online Gift Card to:

mistresscristal@mail.com

Once tribute is sent, you should email Me to receive said task.

About Slave Tasks.

Slave tasks gives you the opportunity to serve Me when I am not online. You see; just because I'm taking a day of rest it doesn't mean you should. My days off don't extend to you. While I'm enjoying a day of relaxation; you should still be working hard to keep Me happy and entertained. That is; after all what you exist for.

So that's why I prepare tasks to keep you busy - the devil finds work for idle hands. And you know how Mistress feels about disobedience.

You will receive a set of 9 tasks to complete by a certain date. These tasks will be catered to your particular kinks and fetish. As you complete each tasks, you will write a report and include photographs with your report; ready to send to Me by a set date. If you fail to meet the deadline; there will be fines for lateness - so it's in your best interest to get your priorities in order. ME FIRST!

If your task report interests Me; I will post your account on My website along with any photographs you send (subject to your agreement). That's right - public recognition of your hard work to keep Mistress happy.

However, if you displease Me; I will ensure that your next set of tasks reflect this - be prepared to suffer by any means necessary!

What to know more? The email Me at the address below:

mistresscristal@mail.com

Masturbation Monday.

I know that if it were up to you; a lot of you pathetic worms would be jerking your maggots off 24/7. Let's face it - a good percentage of you simply can't leave your twig and berries alone. Morning, noon and night, there you are; pumping your fists until you just about rip your cocks off. Chance would be a fine thing for the latter...

Luckily for you; there is a day dedicated to all the wankers out there - Masturbation Monday.

Masturbation Monday means exactly what it says on the tin. You are ALLOWED to masturbate. But there are conditions. What's that? You thought you'd be able to masturbate at your leisure? Oh you poor deluded fools! Of course not! Self-pleasure comes at a price - whether you like it or not!

You will ONLY be allowed to masturbate if you follow My instructions. That's right - I will be telling you exactly HOW I want you to jerk that little maggot. And you will not deviate away from those instructions. It's My way or no way.

Furthermore; IF I decide to allow you release; you will be licking up EVERY SINGLE DROP of your mess. It's your mess at the end of the day. And I'm not about to see it wasted. What comes out, goes back in.

Oh and you'll be learning how to jerk off PROPERLY as well. Masturbation is far more than simply pumping your fist. Of course the compulsive wankers will know that. But for the unenlightened; there are many ways to spank the monkey. And masturbation doesn't just involve your cock! Yes really! Your cock is just the tip of the ice-berg. 

For example; the male g-spot. "Oh only women have a g-spot, right?" WRONG! Men have one too - in fact they have several. Be a good boy and do exactly what I say, and perhaps I will help you to find yours.

Oh and it is possible to cum WITHOUT touching your dirty little dick at all...I have ways and means to ensure that happens....IF I feel you're deserving of it.

A few items required for your Masturbation Monday session:

Lube

Webcam

Dildo/beads/vibrator/plug (vibrator required for milking - and I'm not talking cows...)

Empty plate or glass.

You have those items? Of course you do! Then take your hand off your dick long enough to book your Skype session. Email Me at the address below and then abstain. You only touch WHEN I say so!

mistresscristal@mail.com

Service Interrupted...

Unfortunately, it would seem Virgin Media have chosen a MONDAY to do "essential maintenance work" on their broadband service. Oh how thoughtful of them! Thank you for letting us all know that you will be doing this....oh wait you didn't - I just found out with My intermittent broadband service.

Anyway, this means that sadly, I will be unable to offer cam today. I will be available via AdultWork Phone Chat instead. I will also be offering Instant Messenger/Text Chat bookings via Skype later this evening.

Calls to My AdultWork line are priced at 80p per minute. For details, simply visit My AdultWork profile via the link:

www.adultwork.com/TheCristalDomme

Virgin Media state the "maintenance work" should be completed after 3pm - so I'll be on DirectIm then - all being well.

Apologies folks! Totally beyond My control.

Chat with Mistress Cristal.

Fancy having a chat with Mistress Cristal?

Most days I am online and will often engage in instant messenger/text chats with My servants.

Not only do I use Skype for webcam bookings; but it also available for those who wish to have a text chat with Me. This is very useful for newbies who are getting their feet wet and aren't quite ready to take the next step into showing their face on webcam. It is also useful for those who's personal circumstances make it difficult for them to have webcam or voice chat sessions

Throughout these chats you can tell Mistress a little about your fetishes, kinks and experiences as well learning more about Mistress. Learning is good - it means that throughout your servitude you will get it right every time. Remember; it is VERY important to always strive hard to please Mistress.

The only way to enjoy a chat with Me in this way and have Me on your contact list is to pay a small tribute of £10 via online Gift Card from Amazon.co.uk 

This is the ONLY way to receive My chat ID. I don't do freebies and I only entertain those who are serious about serving Me. There are no alternative methods to chat with Me.

I do this because My time is precious and is not there to be taken for granted or monopolised by those who think they can receive a limitless amount of attention for free. As a Professional Dominatrix; I don't give out My time or attention freely and I'm certainly not here to serve your needs. My time is about ME and you here to serve ME. 

You should also be aware that I don't entertain free-loaders; attention seekers and fake submissives.  My time is ONLY for those who are serious and honest about their intentions to serve. Those with the sole intention of stealing My time and using Me, should not approach - you will be disappointed. I am not about to divert My time and energy from My true servants to your selfish whims.

How to receive access to My private Skype ID:

Simply send a tribute of £10 to mistresscristal@mail.com from Amazon.co.uk. You can purchase gift cards via the link below:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B006AUF6X0/gcrnsts?ie=UTF8&qid=1428864784&ref_=sr_1_1&s=gift-cards&sr=1-1

Once you have sent tribute for My Skype ID you should send Me an email to:

mistresscristal@mail.com

Isn't that easy? Just 3 minutes of work to show you have a genuine desire to serve Me. It couldn't be any more simple! If however you have a multitude of excuses as to why you feel you cannot afford just £10 to prove you wish to serve, then you're not serious. And I have no interest in those who are not serious. But if you genuinely do wish to serve then £10 is a small price to pay for the honour of My attention.

Deadly Nightshade & Deadly Mistress....

The Deadly Nightshade is also known as "Atropa Belladonna" and is one of the most toxic plants found in the Eastern Hemisphere.

The name "atropa" is derived from the Greek Goddess Atropos - one of the three Greek fates or destinies who would determine the course of a man's life by weaving threads that would symbolize his birth, the events in his life and finally his death. 

The name "belladonna" is Italian; meaning "beautiful lady".

It is both beautiful and deadly. The berries look particularly attractive and are sweet in taste - tempting but toxic. Consumption of two to five berries by adults is probably lethal. The most toxic part of the plant is the root, but eating a single leave of Atropa Belladonna can be fatal to an adult.

No dear readers; this is not a biology lesson. This is what is known as "symbolism". You see; like the Deadly Nightshade I too am toxic. And like the Deadly Nightshade I am beautiful. I am a Goddess and a "belladonna" and just as tempting as those sweet, but deadly berries.

The difference is; you DON'T get taste. ALL parts of Me are toxic - particularly My imagination. My eyes are hypnotic which means I will pull you in and easily lead you to give up complete control. And once you're under My spell; there is no escape. You will transfixed by the commands leaving My beautiful lips and will be compelled to obey. 

While My toxicity is not fatal; it certainly isn't something to be taken lightly. I have the power. ALL of the power. Don't be so sure that you can guess My next move. Like Atropa Belladonna; My toxicity has unpredictable effects. I can pull you in, captivate you, render you completely helpless then leave you to stew in your own frustrating juices. Or maybe I'll give you what you crave? Just don't forget; I call the shots - and you are a slave to My desires - not your own. 

Like Atropos; I will also weave the threads of your destiny. And while I'm weaving those threads, you will continue to fall deeper and deeper under My spell. Like the fish to the juicy worm, you'll be hooked ready for Me to reel you in. You will then know there is only one destiny for you - to OBEY. And why will you obey? Because you will learn to fear the extent of My toxicity....

Hooked already? Then prove to Me that you are worthy of My attention. Apply now and tell Me WHAT you can do to please and amuse. But take care in your application; My toxicity doesn't have an antidote....

mistresscristal@mail.com

Grand National Saturday - "and they're off...."

It's not horses you sissy sluts will be riding this Grand National Saturday...