Saturday, 28 February 2015

Pain-Slut hits new heights of suffering....

Pain slut #1 paid Me a visit to My DirectCam room yesterday and oh what fun we had! You may remember that I blogged about him a couple of weeks ago. Pain slut LOVES heavy CBT and very much enjoys having his pain limits pushed. Last time I blogged about him; we had reached 10 on the pain scale. As promised; I have increased the pain scale to between 1 and 20 - and yesterday we reached 15 - this pleases Me.

Pain slut was under instruction to bring chopped chillies to the session. He had previously emailed Me to ask if he was to gather any more equipment to add to his torturous repertoire and I felt chillies was a natural progression. Of course as time goes by; there will be more things added - he's getting a shopping list next week..

So after making him strike his floppy cock with the back of a wooden spoon until he was hard; I had him take one of the chillies and rub the juice all over his balls. I could physically see them changing colour as the skin began to burn - paint a white line in front of them and you would have a "stop" sign - albeit a rather unorthodox one.

Next came the ball-stretcher. I love it when he uses this because it makes his scrotum nice and taut. A perfect canvass for some painful torture. So spanking his balls with the back of the wooden spoon brought the colour even further out of his already highly colourful balls. While they were as pretty as a picture, there was something missing. Sore is good; but aching is better.

Next came the parachute and the heaviest of weights. Now speaking of heavy; pain slut is not what you would call "trim". He needs some exercise. In our sessions, I like to make sure he takes some exercise and lifts his "weights". No, I'm not talking the weights you have at the gym. I'm talking fishing rod weights - attached to the parachute. These tug heavily on his balls as he does his exercises - 20 squats, 10 star jumps, 20 lunges, jogging on the spot for 1 minute. You can imagine the effect as those weights swing around nicely. He worked up a sweat and so did his balls - adding to the already apparent soreness.

Once I permitted him to remove the weights and parachute, I felt it was time for his balls to endure some prolonged suffering. So out came the bulldog clips - attaching and nipping on his balls. He had to sit with them like this while I had him rub more chopped chillies along the shaft of his cock. Whilst we waited for the juice to take effect; he was rubbing the end of his cock with coarse sand paper before running his pin-wheel around his pee hole - a lovely form of torture on the most sensitive part of his cock - and this is when we reached pain rating of 15 - a great improvement on last time.

Throughout all of this; pain slut's little cock was drooling. Yes this slave really does get off on pain - he lives for it! So, I decided it was time he was allowed to masturbate. Well it was the least I could do. Pain slut had suffered well - and suffering has it's rewards...Well not entirely. Of course I'm going to had a little sadistic twist to his pleasure.

So, as a final torture I had him scoop up a handful of the chopped chillies and squish them into his hands; spreading the juice all over his palms. Then came the masturbation. With one hand he was rubbing his cock furiously whilst the other was rubbing on his already very painful balls. As the chilli juice penetrated his cock he shot his load - and boy was it intense! I don't think I've ever seen him cum so hard before!

I always like to wait a minute after he's come down from his orgasm. In the throws of pleasure; the pain is a nice sensation. Once you've got a pain slut de-spunked, that's when the reality of the pain kicks in and you're faced with "oh shit! Damn, that hurts Mistress!" Yes of course it does - that's why I made him do it!

He left the session both satisfied, pained and exhausted. His feedback was testament to how much he'd suffered; "that was probably the most intense session of my life!" No pain slut. that was NOT it - but believe Me; you'll know when it is! 

Friday, 27 February 2015

Your FIRST and ONLY chance...make it count!

During times I'm actively recruiting slaves; you cannot imagine how much "chaff" there is among the few bits of wheat. Well, the Dommes among you probably can, but for the benefit of those who are none the wiser; I get an awful lot of very poorly written applications. These applications get the attention of the "delete" button, along with My attention for the writer.

When you first contact Me, it is your FIRST and ONLY chance to create a good impression. There are no second chances. If you fail at the first hurdle, you fail full stop; and My attention is removed - permanently.

  • DO ensure that your first contact email is respectful. "Hey" is NOT respectful. 
  • DO ensure you address Mistress in the correct manner in your first email. "Babe" or "baby" is not correct.
  • DO ensure your first email is well-written. Proof-read it for spelling and grammatical errors. Lack of proof reading = lack of attention to detail = lack of attention from Mistress.
  • DO keep it short and to the point. I don't want to spend time reading biblical-length emails.
  • DON'T make demands. "Dominate me!" "control me!" sentences turn Me OFF!
  • DON'T talk about subjects which are beyond My limits - do your research first BEFORE you contact Me.
  • DO talk about what you can offer Mistress - but BE HONEST. I want to know your strengths AND your limitations.
  • DON'T promise the world if you know you can't deliver. I will find out that you can't deliver what you have promised - and you will be dismissed from My attention - permanently.
  • DON'T expect Mistress to propose to you what She wants. The onus is on YOU to do your research first. My expectations are well documented throughout My website.
  • DON'T attach any explicit pictures with your first email - they will be deleted without even being opened - as will your email.
  • DON'T harass Mistress with multiple requests for My decision - IF I feel you are worthy of My attention; I will advise you in due course.
  • DON'T ask questions like; "do I need to make tribute?" This should be plainly obvious.
  • DO include details of your kinks as well as your limits - open and honest applications are more appealing.
  • DO consider making a tribute when sending your email. This is not obligatory, but it is a good way of creating a good first impression! It shows a genuine willingness to serve. Of course, if your email isn't up to scratch - your tribute can and will be sent back......
  • DON'T include skype, twitter or other social media account details in your first email. If I want these details, I will demand them if I feel you have what it takes to serve Me.
  • DO let your intelligence shine through in your email. I like slaves who are intelligent, eloquent and articulate. If your knuckles skim the floor, and it shows - I will be ignoring you.
  • DON'T beg in your first email. Those who beg in the first contact sicken Me. I ignore them and their pathetic attempts to gain My favour.
Follow these very simple guidelines and you will have a good chance of making the grade. Of course; the final decision rests with Me. But as you can see; there are ways and means to influence the decision I make.

Wednesday, 25 February 2015


From 23 March, and in accordance with blogger's new policy updates, I will no longer be posting explicit pictures on My blog. This does not mean explicit pictures of Myself - you know full well that I don't get naked. But explicit pictures of My slaves will now appear on My tumblr blog. This means any pictures sent via email assignments will be posted there. 

You can find My tumblr blog at the link below:

You will find lots of dirty, kinky, naughty posts about how My slaves are getting along; as well as any important updates I want you to know about. 

Of course I expect you to follow Me on tumblr - and if you know what's good for you; you'll do just that. If your posts interest Me, I may reblog long as you don't bore Me of course.

Email Slaves Required.

Mistress currently has 3 vacancies for slaves who wish to serve Me via EMAIL.

You will be expected to carry out weekly email assignments (each assignment lasting approximately 5 days) and provide a written essay about the assignment along with photographic evidence. These photos (subject to your agreement) maybe posted on My tumblr blog as recognition of your servitude.

Each assignment will be bespoke to your particular kinks and fetishes. Your limits of course will be respected. If you fail to please Me in your assignment, you can expect to be punished in the next one. If you go above and beyond to please Me, you may be rewarded in the next one. That is how it works - serving well has it's rewards - provided you earn them of course!

To be considered for Email Servitude, you MUST be aged 21 or over. You must NOT be owned or under the consideration of another Domme. You must understand that serving Me in this manner is not about you. It is about Me and providing weekly entertainment to keep Me happy. Therefore; you will expected to be selfless, compliant, honest and open about what you can DO for Mistress.

Interested parties must have a good command of the English language. Your assignment essays are expected to be well written - and you WILL be penalised for any spelling or grammatical errors!

Do you have what it takes to serve Me in this manner?

Then you should apply in the first instance to:

Monday, 23 February 2015


This is why I'm Superior, and you're not.....

TheCristalDomme: why?
teddyn: because i am a naughty boy
TheCristalDomme: and how do you feel Mistress should punish you?
teddyn: anyway mistress chooses....i have a banana if you can think of anything to do with that mistrss
TheCristalDomme: anyway I choose....hmmmm
TheCristalDomme: So if I told you I wanted you to wank with sandpaper - you'd do it would you?
teddyn: your the boss mistress
TheCristalDomme: Yes I am
TheCristalDomme: I don't need to be told that. I am fully aware of it.
teddyn: ha ha....i may make an exception to that unless it is the smooth stuff
teddyn leaves the room
teddyn enters the room
TheCristalDomme: so in other worse, I can't punish you in "any way I choose" - as per your earlier statement.
pompey100 enters the room
teddyn: no mistress i guess not.
pompey100: hello miss
TheCristalDomme: Which means you are attempting to dictate the way I should punish you, does it not?
TheCristalDomme: good afternoon pompey, and how are you?
teddyn: yess mistress i am sorry
pompey100: good thanks yourself miss
TheCristalDomme: you don't have what it takes to keep my attention teddy - goodbye

Sunday, 22 February 2015

Fake Submissives - What they say and what they really mean....

Unfortunately, being an Online Dominatrix means I encounter many boys who prefer to fake their way through being submissive. In fact it would be fair to say this is an annoyance of many Dommes in My position. The other common factor however; is that We ALL know how to spot them simply from their pathetic attempts to gain Our attention....

When he says: Mistress I've been naughty.
What he means: I've no clue about BDSM, it's just spanking and shit isn't it?

When he says: Mistress, will you tell me how to wank?
What he means: I don't know anything about BDSM - I just want to have a wank.

When he says: I will do anything you want Mistress!
What he means: Well actually I won't. I just want to cum.

When he says: I have no limits.
What he means: Well apart from the limits I can't be bothered to tell you about.

When he says: I want to please you, Mistress.
What he means: I want to lick your pussy Mistress - you owe me that.

When he says: What do you do in private chat Mistress?
What he means: Do you get your muffin out and play with yourself?

When he says: Will you tell me what to do, Mistress?
What he means: Will you tell me to wank Mistress? I've done nothing to earn, it but I want a wank.

When he says: I've got a dildo in my ass Mistress.
What he means: I want you to turn my cam on in free so I can show you, and not pay.

When he says: How can I please You Mistress?
What he means: I haven't a clue what I'm supposed to do here. I have no idea how to serve a Domme, but I'll get a wank out of it, right?

When he says: What would Mistress like me to do?
What he means: Actually, it's more about what I'd like to do - fuck what Mistress wants.

When he says: I only have 10 credits Mistress.
What he means: I'm a cheap-skate. I can't be bothered to top up. But I want to cum before my credits run out.

When he says: Will you be my Mistress?
What he means: Will you provide me with free wank material whenever I want?

When he says: I want to be owned.
What he means: I don't know what BDSM is - or what being "owned" means. I just want somebody to wank to.

When he says: I want you to ruin me!
What he means: I want free attention and I'm going to pay you fuck all!

When he says: Will you blackmail me, Mistress?
What he means: I'm not actually going to give you my personal information. Neither am I going to tribute you. I just want to get my rocks off.

Purification By Pain - My Church of Sadistic Purification.

Back in Medieval times; criminals and heathens were often tortured for their crimes. This torture; carried out before the ultimate punishment of death; was designed to "purify" the soul ready for the afterlife. By receiving pain; the tortured would be able to make peace with their guilt to become well...pure.

I too am a believer of this; granted perhaps not the same means, but nonetheless, I share the same school of thought that pain is good for the soul - and it is very good in encouraging subs to acknowledge their crimes, realise their guilt and ultimately learn how to be a good, obedient and selfless submissive; rather than a disgusting, selfish and deviant little slug.

This is why I designed Sunday Confessional. It is an opportunity for the wicked to crawl before Me, to confess all, to beg for purification by pain, to suffer and become free from sin. Forget a simple; "I'm sorry Mistress. It won't happen again." Those are only words. ACTIONS speak louder than words. I want to make sure if definitely doesn't happen again - by any means necessary.

Some of My methods are what you would call "ironic." For example; if you have been wanking too much - prepare to wank while it HURTS. If you've been a dirty little pervert, ogling at women while you play with yourself; be prepared to be humiliated and pegged. And if you have been less than respectful; be prepared to suffer every form of torture I have up My sleeve, until respectful behaviour is imprinted on your brain.

These are but a small introduction of the kind of methods I use. In reality; the list is endless. I am sadistic by nature. So whatever disgusting behaviour you've been getting up to; I guarantee a method of torture which will reflect that behaviour. And don't assume you will be purified physically either. Psychological punishments are also very effective - and longer lasting....

My Church of Sadistic Purification is open EVERY Sunday as part of Sunday Confessional. Confession begins at 1.30pm and lasts until 5pm - three and a half hours of delicious torture and entertainment. It pleases Me to see you suffer as you learn the error of your ways. I can think of no better way to spend a Sunday.

And while it's true that of course you will fall to you knees; forget about praying for forgiveness. I may be a Goddess and a Femdom - but no amount of prayer will save you. Purification is the ONLY way to make you behave...

Saturday, 21 February 2015

Locked Up For Lent!

After an unfortunate mishap; slave k had to be temporary "free" from chastity for a few days. You see that's what happens when you have your cage too tight - it can chafe. Mind you, it didn't help that during his locked up period, I had him watch porn for an hour each day....What can I say? My cruel streak must come out to play and frequently.

But, I'm pleased to announce he's now fully healed and back to being caged. For how long? I haven't decided yet....although I have to say that keeping him locked until Easter is VERY tempting....

Friday, 20 February 2015

Why Sensory Deprivation is the ULTIMATE Mind-Fuck.

Sensory Deprivation is the deliberate removal of stimuli of one or more of the sense, be it, touch, taste, sight, or sound. It can produce interesting results, like a feeling of repression, or even anxiety. It can also heighten the senses which are not removed, particularly if this is coupled with extreme bondage. But ultimately; if used correctly; it can change your whole perception of things...

Now here's a little scenario for those who have been curious about sensory deprivation. There are only two people in the room; you and I. The only item of clothing available to you is a Sensory Deprivation suit. You're locked into it. Your arms and legs are bound. A gag is placed in your mouth. Your eyes are blindfolded. Headphones playing continuous music are placed on your ears. You're waiting to see what Mistress will do next...waiting..almost holding your breath in anticipation...but it doesn't come. Instead; you are left - completely helpless - in the darkness; the music drowning out the possible clues you can get from any other noise.

You have no concept of time. The only thing you can do is guess when the minutes and hours are ticking by. But as time passes; panic overwhelms you and a sickening thought enters your head and begins to play like a record stuck on repeat..."what if Mistress doesn't come back?"

And what if She doesn't come back? Who will come to your rescue? Who will even KNOW where you are? You try to scream, but only a pathetic gurgle escapes from your gagged mouth. Suddenly the darkness in which you find yourself becomes almost suffocating. You're trying to calm yourself with deep breaths, as much as your bounds will allow. You crave some form of reassurance that you won't be left along like this forever. Surely Mistress wouldn't do that....would She?

Your anxiety climbs higher and a cold-sweat breaks out on your back. You've no idea of how long you have been locked up for. Minutes? Hours? The music in your ears that was at first soothing, now becomes an irritation. You long for the things you have once taken for granted - the sound of life, birds, people, the wind, traffic. Those things are now but a memory as the continuous drone of the music penetrates your brain.

And then there's the dark. The darkness has become almost painful. You're so desperate to see the light of day or any kind of light. As the darkness starts imprint itself on your brain; your anxiety rises further. Unwelcome thoughts fill your head; thoughts of being cut off from the world forever. But this is just a game, surely? In the position you find yourself; can you truly be sure of that?

But wait...what is this? You can't see, you can't hear..but you can sense something standing in front of you. Something is close to just know it! You start feel a sense of relief wash through your body...could it be that you're about to receive your freedom once more? Your heartbeat increases in anticipation that any moment now; the blindfold will be removed and you'll be able to see the light you desperately crave. Your body is starting to relax as you wait; the suspense becoming unbearable until...damn! No! How is this possible?! That presence you felt is gone! You try to cry out in despair only to emit yet another pathetic gurgle. Right now, you feel such a sense of injustice. It takes all you have not to burst into tears. You were so sure this was it - you were about to be released, and yet it was cruelly taken away from you.

The longer you're deprived; the more you begin to accept your fate. You realise that you have no choice but to remain here until She decides it's time for your release. You understand that you are at Her complete mercy. Your life is in Her hands. Your mind is full of conflicting emotions. You're angry - how dare Mistress do this to you?! You're scared - you want to fall to your knees and beg for your release. You promise that you will never again disobey or annoy your Mistress. Internally, you're bargaining for your freedom. You feel a sense of gratitude - Mistress holds the key to your freedom and you must do what it takes to gain it. All these emotions continue to bump up against one another until finally...nothing. Your mind is a complete blank. Your thoughts have switched off completely. You've been broken.

As time passes, you finally acknowledge the fact that you've been broken. Your body and your mind are no longer yours. They belong to the one who holds you captive. You no longer think for yourself - you think for Mistress. She is at the forefront of your thoughts. You realise that from this point onwards, it is Mistress who is important. You are just a by-product.

Finally, you feel movement...the blindfold which has kept you in the dark for an indeterminate period of time is being loosened. Slowly it is being removed. It is agonisingly slow and as a tiny glimmer of light penetrates your eyeballs; your mind is filled with renewed respect for the One who now truly owns you. Mistress.

The moment your gag is released, you drink in the cold air on your tongue - parched to feel it. The headphones are removed from your head - and you resist the impulse to sob with joy at hearing normal, natural sounds.

And finally, the bonds which have shackled you are released. Your body is free and you move your aching limbs to get the soreness and stiffness out of them. You drop to your knees - and kiss the feet of your Owner as the tears of gratitude fall from your eyes. You feel nothing but awe for the One who has kept you locked away for so long. You have weathered the storm, and now you know you have come fully compliant. The mind-fuck Mistress has enjoyed has had the desired effect. You now know your place in life...

The TRUTH about Serving Me.

The first task is to gain My attention - I say "gain" because it is not given freely. It's given to those whom I feel deserve it. The second and perhaps the hardest task is to KEEP My attention. It can be taken away as quickly as it is given. Make no mistake; if you bore Me, disrespect Me or simply don't have your priorities in the right order; you WILL LOSE MY ATTENTION.

If you think serving Me is about "having a wank" and being allowed to cum; you're in for some heavy disappointment. The truth is that your pleasure and satisfaction isn't even on the agenda. It is given as a reward to those who have pleased Me. And if you're not prepared to EARN your reward then I suggest you move along because My attention is not for you.

For those who are lucky enough to keep My attention; you will find that serving has it's rewards and not in the obvious sense. Your senses will be opened as new kinky experiences await you. You will enjoy being moulded into a subservient little pet; only eager to obey and deliver. Your dark desires will be awakened as being your journey into BDSM paradise and new forms of sexual titillation.


  1. If you simply seek to get your rocks off to a woman who will pander to your whims; I am not the Mistress for you.
  2. If you are used to getting your own way and regularly make demands; I am not the Mistress for you.
  3. If you have no idea of how to RESPECT AUTHORITY; I am not the Mistress for you.
  4. If your priorities are YOUR priorities; I am not the Mistress for you.
  5. If you think Mistress "owes" you anything in return for your servitude; I am not the Mistress for you.
  6. If you think Mistress will be at your beck and call whenever the mood takes you, I am not the Mistress for you.
  7. If you think you can serve Me on a "whim"; I am not the Mistress for you.
  8. If your sentences start with the words "I want", I am not the Mistress for you.
  9. If you lack eloquence and a basic command of the English language; I am not the Mistress for you.
  10. If you take My attention for granted; I am not the Mistress for you.

Temporary Change to Camming Days.

Because February until mid-March is a pretty slow time of year, I will be making some changes to My camming days.

Until further notice; I will NOT be available on Wednesdays, except for instant messenger/directim bookings. (DirectIM is via

Instead, My camming days will be Monday, Friday, Saturday & Sunday from 12pm until 5pm, (sometimes earlier if the mood takes Me.)

I expect to resume camming on Wednesdays again mid to late March.

To book a cam session (carried out via Skype), you should email Me at:

Monday, 16 February 2015

A Message For The "FinDommes"....

In the last week or so; Twitter has been full of what I can only describe as silly little girls who want to play at being Mistress. I say "play" because in reality they don't have a clue about what being a Dominatrix entails and they certainly don't have a clue about what being a Financial Dominatrix entails.

I'm talking about these 18/19 year old "wannabes" who think because they have a wishlist, a paypal account and a webcam; that automatically allows them to claim the title of "Findomme". It doesn't. And this post is dedicated to you "wannabe" Dommes - those who think they are the bee knees when it comes to Financial Domination, when really you're just an embarrassment.

The fact that you display your lack of knowledge about the fetish speaks volumes. Time and time again I see the same old tweets; the "fuck you pay me" tweets, the "fucking pay me you faggot loser". You know nothing about these subs you are tweeting to. You don't even know if they enjoy being verbally abused. Yet off you go with the nasty mouth and expect it all on a plate. It doesn't work like that. They tribute you because they adore you, worship you even. You give them a reason to worship you. In fact, if they do worship and adore you, they'll send tributes without you even asking.

There there's the "I spoil back" brigade." Financial Fetish is NOT about giving a financial sub something in return. If you're expecting money in return for sending him pics of your clout; you're just being a whore. Granted - that will make some men feel a throbbing in their dicks - but forget about them "serving" you long-term. They'll look at said pictures, whack one out and that's it. They'll then move on to the next silly girl who is promising naked pics for tributes. And the fact that they only give tributes in return for some wank material suggests they aren't submissive at all - they're thinking only about their own needs, not yours. But then you silly instadommes aren't intelligent enough to realise this...

And now for the real barrel-scraping lot. Yes, you know who are you. You are the "Dommes" who I've seen actually BEGGING subs. I've seen you send unsolicited tweets to men; BEGGING them to send you tributes. NO, NO NO! Since when does a Dominant beg a submissive? A Domme does not come across as desperate. She comes across as aloof. She makes it known that she does not NEED tributes. In fact, the very fact that she accepts a tribute from a sub is enough. She is in a small way acknowledging the existence of the sub. But she doesn't need to. I have in fact sent back tributes - telling slave that I have no use for him with a "Like yourself; your money is not wanted" email. Never have I begged a slave for a tribute. They either give it or they don't. If they do give it, they get My acknowledgement - and that is all they get. Sending a tribute does not give them any right to other things. It just means that just for a moment, they have received My attention - which is taken away as quickly as it is given.

I don't write this to be bitchy; although there is an element of Me making it clear to you that your behaviour is not welcome in the world of BDSM - something else you clearly know little about. I write this because it is the genuine subs who suffer. I have seen way too many who have been conned - by a cute 19 year old "Findomme" who turns out to be a hairy-arsed bloke. And in turn, it's the Genuine Dommes who also suffer - the Women who have learned their art, who have perfected it, who know it inside and out and have practised it for many years. These women have the RIGHT to call themselves Dommes - they've earned it! But they have their entire art tarnished by subs who have been burned by a fake. Some unenlightened subs tar us with the same brush - because their first experience was not a pleasant one. What gives you the right to do that?

And of course when I ask you silly girls this question; I get a tweet full of abuse "bitch, you're fat an ugly, mind your own business." Yeah...real mature. No Genuine Domme I know of (and I know many) speaks like that. They certainly don't resort to play-ground insults because if they do; they risk their reputation and dignity. But then you don't know about that one either do you? The school of carrying yourself in a dignified manner - that went out of the window when you sent your first gynae pic to a "finsub".

Oh, and the HUGE give away on your profile is the fact that you take Paypal. Yeah...good luck with that one. Will you be so high and mighty when you lose ALL of money due to your Paypal account being limited? Paypal don't allow adult transactions - and Genuine Dommes know this - that's why they don't use it. Unlike you; they've done their research.

And to the silly girl who claims she has $33k in her Paypal account - keep dreaming! No way would PayPal allow that - you would have to have a business account - with a business entity number...but I guess when you thought the world of "Financial Domination" was easy money; you didn't think about that...or that many of the subs you're insulting can smell your bullshit before you do.

In short; go back to playing with your dolls until you grow up - and leave the REAL Financial Domination to the experts! 

Sunday, 15 February 2015

10 Is The Magic Number...

Painslut is a regular submissive on AdultWork who is very heavily in to cock and ball torture (CBT), as well as the odd bit of nipple torture. He comes to see Me on webcam on average about once a week, sometimes more. And each time he visits; he never fails to entertain.

With regular slaves who enjoy CBT; I like to see how far I can push their pain threshold. Granted there are some out there who claim they can take a lot, but when it comes down to it; their eyes are watering after light slapping. In fact, I find this to be the case more often than not. It is rare to find a slave who really does live for CBT - but painslut is that slave.

Over the last 12 months he has been serving Me, he has been subjected to pegs, weights, sandpaper, pin-wheels, deep heat, raw chillies, tabasco sauce, and candle wax. On occasion, blood has been drawn as a result of the torture - and still he comes back for more. He enjoys suffering as much as I enjoy seeing him suffer and it is this dynamic in our D/s relationship which makes our sessions highly entertaining.

Today; it was time to push his pain threshold harder. Instead of using pegs, I decided it was time to use bulldog clips. Pegs nip and he often tells Me that the pegs are nipping badly. But with bulldog clips, it was a whole different story. This time they didn't just nip - they bit - hard.

Now during any form of torture session, be it cock and ball, anal or nipple, I like to use what I call the pain scale. This is something used in the medical profession - but it can also be used BDSM. I ask My slaves to give Me a pain rating between 1 and 10; 1 being hardly any pain, 10 being the worst pain they've ever experienced in their lives.

When I began training painslut - his pain rating would peak between 8 and a half and 9. Today, we reached 10. Let Me tell you; that made for a very happy Mistress.

But how did we reach that magic number? Slowly - as with any form of torture. Slow torture is the best - it's more prolonged and often provides much better results. So as well as the initial pain of attaching the bulldog clips first to his foreskin and then to his scrotum; he was made to thread string through them. Once that was done; I made him tug hard on both lengths of string, thus stretching and pulling hard on his foreskin and scrotum at the same time. I could see from the grimace on his face; he was definitely feeling this. This was by far the most intense form of torture he had ever experienced, and it was this that led him to give Me that pain rating.

Now here's the thing. Mistress is never satisfied and I expect My slaves to try even harder with each session. So while we have reached 10, there is still room for improvement. And this is especially since painslut admitted he enjoys having his threshold pushed. Today he even begged Me to make him suffer even harder in the future. Of course I'm going to say "yes." Painslut is a work in progress and the more pain he can handle the more he will please Mistress. The goal posts of the pain scale will be increased - and the magic 20 will be reached. Will Mistress be satisfied then? Perhaps....

Saturday, 14 February 2015

Happy Spankintines Day!

It's Spankintines Day! No red hearts for you naughty little maggots. Oh no! All you're going to get are red bottoms! Line up, drop your pants and get ready - for those cheeks are about to glow!

Spankintines Day beings from 2pm via AdultWork and Skype. 

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Friday, 13 February 2015

Locked up...but for how long?

Poor slave k finds himself locked up - his first ever venture into chastity. And he's already feeling the pinch.....

Of course I had to exploit the fact that he's locked away - and in period of intense frustration. Having him use to a very powerful vibrator to play with his ass and making him sit and watch one hour of porn each day leaves for a very tight cage indeed - so much so that he's suffered some chafing. 

But then that isn't My problem. He needs to learn to control his erections - and I think his cage will have the desired effect. How long will I keep him locked up for? As long as I want - and who knows how long that will be....

Monday, 9 February 2015


Sadly, "The Beast" has gone into retirement. Yes. he's fucked his last boy-sphincter. But don't worry. My  new "beast" arrived today...

So who's first to open wide?

Sunday, 8 February 2015

Slave Positions Available.

Do you have what it takes to serve Me? Can you go above and beyond in order to please? Do you care not about yourself, but of the needs of Mistress?

Mistress is currently seeking slaves for online servitude via email and webcam.

You should be aware that I am very choosy when it comes to selecting applicants. Few will make the grade. It takes a slave who has a special "something" to gain My interest. Could that somebody be you?

I seek boys who are aged 21 or over and not owned or under consider. You will be able to commit to at least 1 cam session/email assignment per week. You will be prepared to pander to My whims, forgetting your own. You will have an an open mind - eager to learn and explore new kinks and fetishes, as well as broadening the ones you currently relish.

You will be eloquent in your application to ensure you create the correct first impression. Your initial application will be well written; focusing on what you can offer rather than what you seek. You will understand that whilst serving Me has it's rewards; those rewards should not be expected. Nor will they be given freely.

Above all; you will understand that serving Me is about Mistress. You are but a source of entertainment - not a need. I don't need you - but you will need Me - in every portal of your life.

Ready to take the first step into My kinky, sadistic world? Then email your application to:

Friday, 6 February 2015


Yes boys, it's Fetish Friday - a day for all things Fetish! And being the Fetish Freak I am; I will be more than happy to explore your dirty little fetishes with you!

Skype sessions will be available from 2pm until 5pm today. Sessions are priced at £1.30 per minute which includes cam to cam audio. Tribute to be made via E Gift Card.

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Wednesday, 4 February 2015

The Great Mega Brothel Debate.

On Monday evening; I watched the repeat of The Mega Brothel on 4 seven. In fact, some of you may have noticed My tweet on the last break of the programme.

Now I have to say that I thought the programme makers presented the argument for and against legalising prostitution very well. I didn't consider any part of the arguments to be biased towards any favour at all. In fact, I believe it to be a worthwhile insight into the whole debate surrounding the question of whether or not we should legalise prostitution.

It is well know that prostitution is the oldest trade in the world. Indeed, in biblical times; prostitution was common in ancient Israel, despite being strictly forbidden in Jewish law. Genesis 38 in The Bible depicts prostitution; The prostitute plies her tried at the site of a highway, whilst covering her face.

Prostitution will always be around, whether legalised or not. Sex sells - be it online or real-time. 

I was very interested to see the workings of the Paradise Mega Brothel in Germany. I did not consider the ladies there to be exploited. Yes, I understood that they had to pay 127 euros every day to work, live and eat there. But that's hardly exploitation. In fact; they are paying a relatively small fee for a safe haven in which to work. There are no pimps there to ply drugs on them, no dangers of violence. Instead, they are working in a safe, clean environment - which of course they are expected to pay rent for. 

I understood that there were girls there who came into the trade from very hard backgrounds - history of abuse at the hands of men. Some were there to escape violent pimps who had trafficked them into prostitution. That was clear. But the owner of the Mega Brothel made sure that no trafficked girls were working there. He talked about how he deleted emails from girls in Romania - where trafficking is rife. I found him to be very responsible in ensuring the safety of the women working there.

But one thing I did draw from the whole program is that it's not prostitution itself which appears to be the problem. Yes; some out there will not agree with the thought of women (and men!) selling their bodies. They don't want it in their back yards. But let's face it; it's always going to be there - whether legal or not. The real problem surrounding prostitution are the pimps.

You could argue that the owner of the Mega Brothel is a pimp - and yes in a sense he is. But this is where he differs to other pimps out there. He is not forcing these girls to work for him. He is not taking huge sums of money from them and having them work until they're exhausted beyond belief. Some girls do work 12 hour days - at their choice. He does not make them work those hours. He mentioned that if they're savvy - they can make a lot of money, but at no point does he make them work - rather he gives them the facts and they make their own decisions. He's not beating them to shit if they aren't working. He's not forcing drugs on them, to keep them working for their next fix. In fact; as far as I could see; he was looking after the girls very well.

Illegal pimps are different - and it is these who traffic the girls into prostitution. Pimps, drugs and prostitution go hand in hand. They have so many methods of ensuring girls work for them for a pittance taking about 90% (or even 100% in the case of sex trafficking) whilst they get rich. That is exploitation. They push drugs on to girls - get them hooked - then make them work in order to get their next fix. They pretend to be their "boyfriend" - lull vulnerable girls in, making them feel special - then forcing them to work because "darling, we need money - you have to earn it!" Or they sell vulnerable girls a dream - "you'll be set up for life - come to this country and work for me!" But when the girls get there - it's not the dream they were sold. Instead; it's a life of sexual-slavery. The girls' family members are safe as long as the girls are selling their bodies. 

These are the REAL issues surrounding prostitution - the real exploitation of women who have not gone into the trade willingly. It is this which needs to be addressed - not whether or not prostitution is immoral. 

In My view; legalising prostitution is a step in the right direction. But it's not enough. More needs to be done. Education is the key in this issue. Educating vulnerable girls that not everybody is who they say they are. Not everybody is the hero who will rescue them out of a bad situation; and if promises sound too good to be true - they probably are. It's about letting these women see what is really going on and allowing them to make informed choices. Providing help for women who have had difficult childhoods, and above all, if they want to leave the profession; providing them with safe ways to do this. 

I think once we take the stigma and the pimps out of prostitution, we are half-way there. Forcing it into the under-world will only help the pimps - it won't help the women. THAT is the real issue.

Sunday, 1 February 2015


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