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BONDAGE TRIGGERS

Erotic bondage is not simply just a physical state of being. It is also a state of mind. When we allow our conscious minds to dictate what behaviours should be the “norm”, we effectively allow our conscious mind to become set in a form of psychological bondage; a place where we are not free to shed our inhibitions and enjoy the parts of our personalities which we long to explore.

Bondage triggers focus on enabling the subconscious to be free of the daily shackles which bound us and enjoy the freedom to lose the sense which would otherwise hinder the total experience of being free to enjoy erotic bondage of the mind and body.

By removing your sense of taste, sight, thought, feel and even self; you can be taken into a highly arousing journey of giving up control to another. You will enjoy the pleasure of being bound in tight latex, as it moulds to every curve and crevice of your body and helps you to create sexually exciting scenarios in your own mind.

Using the power of your own imagination; you will be helped and encouraged to reach into those deep desires your conscious mind forbids you to explore and allow yourself to become completely embroiled in a world where being bound and taken by a Superior is the most arousing experience you could ever wish to have.

This is more than just imagination. This is a place where imagination and reality become one!

WARNING: THIS FILE WILL CAUSE YOU TO DEEPLY RELAX AND MAY INDUCE SLEEP. DO NOT LISTEN WHILST DRIVING OR OPERATING MACHINERY.

Be Like Chastity Sub

Poor Chastity Sub.

In just over a month's time; he will have been in chastity for a whole year. No time off for good behaviour. No reprieve. 100% locked up with zero opportunity to have his much-needed sexual release.

In that year; I have teased him relentlessly. He's had to repeatedly enjoy his love doll "Vincent"; by sucking on Vincent's cock and taking Vincent's cock up his ass. How humiliating to know that a blow up doll gets more pleasure them him! 

He's had to squirm in humiliation as I've had him create numerous videos to show how pathetic he is. Twerking; Slut Date and of course an extra special video for his "boyfriend", Sammy. 

When he's not stuffing his ass or his mouth with rubber cocks; he's teasing himself relentlessly. Sometimes with gay or shemale porn (he's not allowed to watch straight porn any more), sometimes with his own imagination. But always with three forms of vibration - a vibrating butt plug, a vibrating cock ring, and a vibrating wand.

Yes it's enough to drive anybody crazy with frustration. He's admitted that he's gone close to cumming several times throughout his chastity. But he knows what will happen if he does. If he gets over-excited; he has to do the WHOLE YEAR over again. That's almost 2 years in chastity. If he isn't climbing the walls now; he will be after 2 years of being locked.

Yet Chastity Sub has never once complained about being locked. Yes he's extremely frustrated and constantly on edge. The need to cum consumes his entire life. It's all he thinks about and My relentless teasing does little to ease his frustration. But not once has he whined about it. Not once has he begged for his release. 

It's because he knows better. He knows that any begging will be ignored. He knows that I get great pleasure from keeping him locked and frustrated. He knows that My rules are to be obeyed. My desires are to be attended to and My commands are not open for negotiation.

Chastity Sub truly is a credit to Me. He is the most obedient, devoted and well-behaved slave I have ever encountered in My 16 years in the scene. He is meek, passive, and completely docile. I taunt and I embarrass him on a daily basis. I constantly wave his desired orgasm in front of his face, like a carrot. I enjoy giving him the false hope that tomorrow I'll let him cum. Yet when I change My mind; he never complains. He just accepts that it is My will to keep him locked for as long as I desire.

This is exactly how a true submissive should behave. Never thinking of themselves. Never thinking of their own desires. Always thinking of Mistress.

He will often ask if there is anything he can do to please and serve Me, in order to make My life more wonderful. It could be something as simple as promoting My website, promoting My clips, inviting embarrassing questions about himself and his sex life. Nothing is too much trouble for him. All he cares about is ensuring he keeps his Mistress happy.

Slaves like Chastity Sub are a rare breed. He is loyal to the last and will always put My wishes and desires first. He is indeed the perfect example of a true submissive; and an example boys should aspire to be - obedient, loyal, honest, selfless and completely devoted. It is a wonderful relationship and for that reason; Chastity Sub always has a special place in My heart. 

But will he get that orgasm before the year is out? Only time will tell....

HARD LIMITS, and why you should respect them.

When it comes to the world of fetish and kink; what one person may find exciting and arousing; another person may well find it to be offensive and even disgusting. Every taste is different and not every slave will enjoy a particular fetish.

Not that there is anything wrong with a particular fetish, as long as it is legal of course, but if a person absolutely does not enjoy and does not want to explore a particular subject; then these are what we call hard limits.

Limits are not exclusive to the more taboo or extreme fetishes. They can apply to absolutely anything. While one person may find himself turned on by being forced to cross-dress; another might find it a definite turn off and will not want to explore it at all. That is their choice. Whether or not you agree with their choice is irrelevant. If they do not want to explore a particular subject; then you must ALWAYS respect this.

I Myself have certain limits. I will not discuss illegal subjects, anything with the "yuck" factor, wrestling and and age play. And I expect these limits to be respected, just as I will respect the limits of My slaves. To ignore their right to say "no" to a particular subject; is to ignore the fact that they have not given consent. When you move into an area of non-consent; you have crossed the line from being a responsible Dominatrix and into the area of being a bully and committing sexual or physical assault.

The fact is; when it comes to dominating My slaves; I understand that while they must have a certain amount of respect from the off; the ultimate respect is earned. It is earned through ensuring they enjoy the experience of serving Me. It is earned through ensuring that they always feel safe and secure. It is earned when I respect their right to protect their identity. It is earned when I respect that they do not want any marks on their body. In short; it is earned through remembering that they are a human being, with a vanilla life away from the kink scene.

And this is a two-way street. While I will always respect the limits of My submissive; I in turn, will expect them to respect My limits as well. Limits are not open for negotiation. You can't turn to a slave who isn't into water sports and say "oh can I piss on you a bit?" If they don't like it; then they don't like it. It's as simple as that.

But there are some guys out there who seem to think they can ignore My limits. Recently; I had somebody wanting to explore wrestling. Now wrestling is by no means offensive. But I don't enjoy it. I have never seen any degree of excitement from wrestling. Therefore; I don't explore it. And this I informed said client. However; he had the audacity to say "I'm paying you. You should do want I want you to do." WRONG! You are paying for the honour of speaking to Me. You are NOT paying for Me to forget My no go areas and do what you want. I'm not going to force you to explore a subject you're not comfortable with. Therefore; you won't do the same to Me. And if you decide to throw a "mantrum" when I remind you of the importance of respecting hard limits; you're GONE! Such behaviour is completely unacceptable in a setting of safe, sane, consensual play.

And that leads Me to the next point I want to make. SAFE, SANE & CONSENSUAL. You will hear these words often in the fetish & BDSM scene and they are extremely important.
As a Dominatrix; I have a great deal of responsibility towards My submissives. Not only am I ensuring they enjoy their experience; I am also ensuring they have a safe experience. If they have a desire to explore something which is particularly risky to their health; then I have the right to say "no". I'm not doing this to be a party pooper. I'm not doing this to be difficult. I'm doing this to protect their health. I'm doing this to ensure they are not physically or emotionally harmed during the session. I am protecting them. It is a big responsibility and I take it very seriously.

This is the very essence of hard limits and why it is always important to respect them. For example; if a submissive wants to explore poppers intoxication and has a history of heart or lung problems; then I'm going to refuse. Why? Because it can have a seriously adverse effect on their blood pressure. Recently; one of My regular submissives became dizzy during a session. He's an elderly gentleman, which means I have to be even more cautious. I immediately halted the session, giving him strict instructions to visit his doctor for a blood pressure check. He did this and came back to tell Me his doctor had told him he wasn't drinking enough water. He was dehydrated. So the next session; he had plenty of water available to ensure he was well hydrated.

In a nettle torture session; I will ask screening questions to check for the possibility of allergic reactions to stinging nettles. Anaphylaxis is associated with insect stings. It is also associated with nettle stings. If the submissive is allergic to insect stings; then they are likely allergic to nettle stings. So we don't explore nettle torture as a result. For those who have never had an allergic reaction to nettle stings; I still ensure necessary precautions are adhered to. They are instructed to stay hydrated and to take antihistamines for seven days. They are told to immediately go to casualty should any symptoms of anaphylaxis be present. Why? Because anaphylaxis can kill if not treated quickly.

BDSM & fetish should be fun. It should be enjoyable for both parties. Both parties should feel safe. Both parties should feel emotionally comfortable during the session. The moment it stops being fun and safe; then you are not doing each other justice in ensuring you respect their limits. And when you don't respect their limits; how can you possible expect them to respect you?

SUNDAY SERVICES AT THE SADISTIC CHURCH OF MISTRESS CRISTAL

Have you been a bad, bad boy? Been having impure thoughts? Can't leave your pathetic little worm alone? Then you need to get to your knees and crawl into My Church.

There are no hymns to be sung; but I will find ways to make you hit those high notes. The collection plate collects balls; not money. And kneeling is NOT optional.

My feet are your altar, My strap on is your communion bread and your tears will be the communion wine. The wine will be spilt.

There is no prayer which will ease your suffering. The only God in My church is Me. You'd better believe I will strike down in great vengeance for your sins. I am God and Satan combined. When you enter My Church; you enter the deepest pits of Hell. Confession is the only way you can ever hope to atone for your sins and penance is the only way to receive absolution.

It is through severe retribution that you will be once again returned to the path of complete obedience & submission. For I am God and you must fear Me.

Sinful Sunday services are available EVERY Sunday 12.30pm until 4.30pm. Attendance is via Skype; with webcam and audio. To book; click on the link below:

SINFUL SUNDAY SKYPE SESSION

FRESH MEAT REQUIRED....

I am currently accepting applications from boys who have a need to become My fully submissive, obedient and subservient online slut.

You will be aged 21 or over and have a basic understanding of BDSM as well as understand the importance of safe, sane consensual play. You will be able to commit to at least one Skype session or one email assignment per week, in order to commence and progress your training.

You will understand and respect the dynamics of a Domme/sub professional relationship and to that end; will place My desires & wishes at the top of your list of priorities. You will understand that your needs, opinions and views are not important, nor are they relevant to forming a long-term professional relationship with Mistress. You will also have made sure you are thoroughly informed on the services Mistress offers; and what She expects from a lowly submissive like yourself.

If you are aged 25 or under; you will understand the need to provide proof of your age in the form of government issued photo ID. Passport, driving license and national ID card are accepted. You will understand that without this documentation; your application to serve will not be taken further.

In return; you can expect to be trained by a highly skilled and experienced Online Dominatrix, in the art of BDSM, submissive and Fetish Exploration. You can expect your fetishes to be explored deeply and completely, under the guidance of Mistress, as your training progresses to help you to learn more about your submissive nature and your desire to surrender all control to a powerful Dominatrix.  Mistress will open the door to your kinky side; and guide you every step of the way as you take yourself on a physical, emotional and spiritual journey into the world of kink and fetish.

You may be rewarded as you progress; depending upon your level of competence as a slave. Such rewards will be at My discretion and will be given should I feel you are deserving of them. You will of course be punished; should your work fall below the high standards I expect of you. I am also at liberty to dismiss you at any time; should I feel you lack what it takes to become My online submissive.

Your training may lead to long-term servitude and Ownership if, and only if, you prove yourself to be a dedicated, hard-working, thoughtful, loyal and obedient slave. Ownership comes with many perks and is a status many slaves aspire to achieve. However; only the elite submissive will ever be granted this honour, after he has proven himself to be worthy.

Those wishing to apply for online training may do so by clicking the link below and filling out the form. You should include as much detail as possible. One sentence emails are not only bad manners; they are also completely inappropriate and will be ignored. Ensure your application is well written and free from any spelling errors. The effort you put in to apply; demonstrates the effort you will put in to serving - you will be judged on your first approach. You will not get a second chance to create a good first impression.

APPLY TO SERVE

While Mistress is away....

When I'm not online, you're still working hard to please Me. The devil makes work for idle hands. So it is My intention to ensure your hands are NEVER idle. If they're idle then there's a danger they will be used for activities of which you are not entitled to. And we can't have that, can we? It is your duty to always ensure you are busy, beavering away, to keep your Mistress happy.

Minions are never too tired to serve, or have other things more important than ensuring their Mistress is satisfied. Minions go above and beyond to stay in Mistress; good books. Minions are always prepared to show Mistress why they should continue to receive My attention. Minions know that their number one priority is satisfying the needs and desire of Mistress and nothing else.

You will do this today by following the simple steps as outlined below:

1. Choose an assignment theme from the list as illustrated above.
2. Email the address above to request said assignment.
3. Answer My questions in a timely and honest manner.
4. Follow any instructions I send to you.

Minions will also ensure they abide by the following terms and conditions when completing tasks for Mistress.

• You will ensure said assignment is completed in its entirety by the deadline I set for you.
• You will ensure you send photographic evidence & diary of you completing the assignment.
• You will ensure your diary is well written and free from any spelling or grammatical errors.
• You will ensure you acknowledge receipt of your assignment within 24 hours of receipt.
• You will pay any late fines for assignments not completed by the deadline set.
• You will acknowledge that assignments more than seven days late will lead to your INSTANT DISMISSAL from My training.

I'm sure even you can follow these simple instructions. Are you ready to please Me? You may now begin.

IMPORTANT DATE FOR YOUR DIARY.

An important date is coming up. Get ready to mark your calendars! Watch the clip above and get busy. Emails to:

mistresscristal@mail.com

I strongly suggest you don't ignore and disappointment Mistress...

Sunday Services with the Sister of No Mercy.

Lots of fun was had in today's kink fest. In case you missed it; I dressed up in My kinky Nurse uniform as you can see above. It's amazing how slipping into a uniform brings out the sadistic Bitch in Me. Well I say brings it out. I'm a Sadistic Bitch pretty much all of the time; but today I was perhaps more sadistic that usual.

This afternoon, I have been performing thorough rectal examinations and prostate milking, ball resilience with the aid of some pretty harsh genital torture, and multiple sperm sample collection via jerk off instruction. Of course, said collections haven't been retained by Myself. My boys have dutifully been swallowing the lot, as is expected. Well except for the dirty cum whore I spoke to this afternoon, who likes to swallow the cum of complete strangers. He normally asks male escorts to save him their used condoms. But I decided he needed a constant supply of spunk. Tonight; he's off to his local dogging site to do a "collection." That will keep him in spunk supply for the rest of the week.

Tomorrow, the Sister of No Mercy will be taking confessional from 12.30pm. All sinners are welcome. Others will be tolerated. You will be crawling into My Church to confess your filthy deeds of the week. You'll be squirming in shame as I ask you various humiliating questions about your misdeeds. I may even instruct you give a demonstration of your dirty, deviant behaviour.

Repentance by punishment will follow after you have squirmed to My satisfaction. Expect the punishment to fit the crime. Wanton wankers will have their cocks tortured within an inch of it's life. Sissy sluts can expect to be thoroughly drilled and used. Perverts can expect to be fully degraded and humiliated as they spontaneously burst into flames of shame. My sadistic and creative imagination will be going into over-drive. Scared? You should be.

So get those bookings in, sluts! Sundays are normally very popular among the dirty bitches out there. Send your booking in NOW to avoid disappointment

CONTACT MISTRESS CRISTAL 

Weekend Wanking.

I'm sure you boys will be very pleased to know that I will be live and available on webcam ALL weekend this weekend, from 12.30pm until 5pm, DAILY!

You will be able to interact with Me on both AdultWork & NiteFlirt as well as enjoy Skype Shows with Me to serve and explore your darkest desires and fetishes.

I will be putting you through your paces to ensure you serve Me to the best of your ability. Punishments WILL ensue for those who fail to please Me. You MAY be given relief at the end of your session; provided I am happy with how you have performed for My amusement. Be aware that eating your mess after relief is NOT optional!

I will be offering a variety of kinky shows designed to get you salivating for more and I dressing up in My kinkiest outfits. I may even break out the Nurse Uniform on Saturday, for some kinky medical play. Those who are interested in Medical Play can expect to receive a thorough examination inside and out, as well as suffering the humiliation of being put into a variety of exposing positions and made to carry out degrading acts to ensure you receive a thorough health check.

Sunday will see Me opening up Confessional for sinners who need to be absolved of their dirty, deviant behaviour. I will listen and watch you squirm while you spare no detail about your dirty, immoral deeds before accepting a suitable punishment in order to repent. The punishment will be of My choosing and will always reflect your crimes. So whatever your misdeeds; I'll leave the punishment up to your imagination...

And Monday will be dedicated to all things concerning masturbation. Don't kid yourself, however that this will allow you to wank your little worm at your leisure. I expect to be entertained, remember and I will do that by finding humiliating and/or painful ways for you to masturbate. Masturbation games will also be on the menu, as will jerk off instruction for boys who want to get the most from their wank. Of course whether or not you get to cum depends on a variety of factors; if I feel you deserve it and if I feel you should remain in your own frustrated juices. The decision of course will always be Mine.

To book a Skype session for any of these days; you should contact Me via the link below. Remember to be as detailed as possible when talking about your kinks and interests. I neither need or want single sentence emails. The more detail you include; the greater the chance of My replying.

CONTACT MISTRESS CRISTAL 

A weekend of delicious torture!

It would seem that this weekend; you boys have been desperate to test your pain limits. I've had numerous bookings from boys who desire cbt and anal stretching.

First up was a new slave from the US. He decided to celebrate the over-sized Oompa Loompah's inauguration by seeing how much he could stretch his ass (his own; not the Oopma Loompah's. We already know his ass is stretched because he's always talking out of it...)

What started off as a gentle introduction to anal stretching turned into practically shoving a drain pipe up there. That boy could take a lot! He had 3 different types of anal toy - a medium rubber butt plug, a large glass butt plug and a HUGE butt plug which had prongs. It was easily the size of a large fist.

I started him off by using his fingers until he could it all four of them inside. He was already super turned on and that other hand of his kept straying to his maggot. "Leave it alone, slave!" I snapped. "Before you stroke that maggot; I wanna see your ass gaping!" He quickly learned that helping himself was not going to go in his favour. 

Next was the medium sized butt plug, which I had him insert and then use his rectal muscles to push it out. This plug was not at all forgiving and it took a lot of straining. But he pushed and pushed until it plopped out on the floor. After some furious fucking with that plug; he as was more than ready for something bigger.

In went the glass plug and that really did look exquisite. I could see his ass gaping around the glass and as I had him pull it half way out; the thick, bulbous part stretched his ass to the limit! I had a lot of fun having him repeatedly pull it out only to shove it back in again.

Finally; came the last and biggest plug. This one was a monster! Lots of lube was required and after to some serious pushing; it was soon deep up his ass. While it filled him; I gave him permission to masturbate, which he did with delight, cumming hard as he pushed that mammoth plug out and caused his ass to gape as wide as the Mersey tunnel. I have no doubt that he will be back for more.

Next up was a pain sub, who was desperate to have his pain threshold pushed. With a kink for CBT; I had him slapping his cock and balls until they were so red; you could paint a white line in front of them and use them as a stop sign! He wasn't suffering enough for My liking so I had him coat his cock and balls in candle wax, before making him use a leather belt to whip off all the dried wax. The whole ordeal took him a good 10 minutes to complete and he was writhing around in agony. Every few strokes; he would stop and cradle his sore balls before begging for mercy. "I can still see wax on those balls, slave!" I barked at him. "Continue until ALL of it is gone!" I would not give him mercy. I don't do mercy. Instead; he had to continue until he was a blubbering, sobbing mess with balls the size of watermelons. He'll be walking like John Wayne for the rest of the week. Good luck trying to explain that, boy! 

The Bitch Is Coming Back!

After taking some much-needed time out to deal with some rather pressing personal issues; I am pleased to inform you that I will indeed be back on cam this coming Thursday from 12.30pm. This means that you will not only be able to serve Me via AdultWork, but also via pre-booked Skype session.

Whether you are an experienced or novice submissive; provided you have read ALL of My website and are aged 21 or over; you will be welcome to approach for a session. Sessions will be available 12.30pm until 4.30pm Thursday, Friday, Sunday & Monday. Because while My personal issues don't need urgent attention, but still need attention, I will be offering reduced hours until further notice. You should keep checking back on My website for regular updates.

My cam session sale continues until the end of January, which means you can take advantage of My £1 per min rate. From 1st Feb, the rate will go back to normal at £1.20 per min, so hurry if you don't want to miss out on this saving!

Remember; I am happy to explore most fetishes as long as they are a) legal b) not dangerous and c) don't have the "yuck" factor. Limits are always respected and you will always respect Mine. Cam sessions with Me include cam to cam and audio. Special requests will be considered as long as I have 24 hours notice. 

Sessions are booked & paid for in advance with a minimum booking length of 10 minutes. Payment is via Amazon.co.uk Gift Card or Delivery Code voucher ONLY. I do not take Paypal - so there is no point in asking for this payment method.

The session is confirmed once I have received your session fee. It is strongly advised that you book early to avoid disappointment. My cam days often fill up very quickly! 

Want to book? The you may contact Me via the link below:

CONTACT MISTRESS CRISTAL 

CHRISTMAS AVAILABILITY

My availability for webcam over the Christmas period is likely to be sporadic. But where I am unable to cam, I will indeed be available for instant messenger and one way cam. The times outlined below are subject to change, depending on which days I'm either out partying or entertaining visitors. Any changes will be posted on My twitter timeline. You should follow Me and turn on My notifications in order to stay tuned for updates:

https://twitter.com/MistressCristal

CHRISTMAS AVAILABILITY

THURSDAY 22 DECEMBER - 12.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

FRIDAY 23 DECEMBER - 12.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

SATURDAY 24 DECEMBER - NOT AVAILABLE

SUNDAY 25 DECEMBER - NOT AVAILABLE

MONDAY 26 DECEMBER - NOT AVAILABLE

TUESDAY 27 DECEMBER - 12.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

WEDNESDAY 28 DECEMBER - 12.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

THURSDAY 29 DECEMBER -.12.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

FRIDAY 30 DECEMBER - 12.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

SATURDAY 31 DECEMBER - NOT AVAILABLE

SUNDAY 1 JANUARY - NOT AVAILABLE

NORMAL CAMMING DAYS AND HOURS WILL RESULT FROM MONDAY 2 JANUARY 

Wishing all My fellow Dommes, pets and kink monsters a very Merry Christmas & a Happy New Year!

xxxx

Chastity Sub Fucks His Figgy Pudding.

"It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas!..."

And that's why Chastity Sub was permitted the first of his Festive fucks!

In this weekend's task, he was given instructions to fuck the Christmas pudding. That's right dear readers - he doesn't get to fuck anything in the human sense - unless it's a bull with a nice big dick. Instead; he has to fuck inanimate objects - the Christmas pudding being object of his desires.

And I even allowed him to remove his cage for this task. How generous of Me! Well not that generous. He's still not allowed to cum until 31 December.

Now fucking the Christmas pudding is one thing, but you know Me. I like to see My pet squirm in shame as much as possible. And so I put his daily 5 hour teasing sessions to good use. He's dutifully collected all his pre-cum from these teasing sessions and was instructed to pour it over the pudding AFTER he had fucked it.

Does it look appetising? Absolutely not! And that's exactly why I made him eat the lot once he'd finished his "prepping". So we have a the finished product of Christmas Pudding Au Jus - which Chastity Sub happily tucked into...

I'm pretty sure that taste will be lingering for a while! 

Chastity Sentence for Panty Boy

This is to certify that:

Panty Boy

Will remain in chastity until:

15 February 2017

By order of the public vote.

Panty Boy will see out the ENTIRETY of his sentence. Days can and will be added for poor behaviour. Panty Boy is prohibited from engaging in any sexual behaviour until the sentence is completed. 

COMING SOON - SLUT FOR USE!

My owned pet, Chastity Sub LOVES to be degraded and humiliated. So much so that he will soon be available for YOUR pleasure. He will appear on webcam via Skype conference booking and do exactly as you tell him. He is always willing to please and obey and you will find that he will be the perfect little chastised slut for you to enjoy.

This is a brand new service which is coming soon - allowing Chastity Sub to be pimped out online to you lucky boys for My enjoyment. I will be present at each session to ensure he behaves himself. And if he doesn't please you; I guarantee he will be punished accordingly!

Want to know more? Visit the link below!

SLUT FOR USE

Locked up for Christmas!

By public vote; chastity sub is now back in his cage and will remain locked up for the rest of the year. No, his little willy won't be seeing Christmas. But it will see in the New Year...unless I change My mind of course.

The people of twitter voted that he must remain locked for a period of 42 days. Couple that with 5 hours of tease and denial on a DAILY basis; this is going to make for one extremely frustrated boy. Oh, how I wish I was a fly on the wall at his house!

Dommes: Do your subs a favour - TALK TO THEM!

Yesterday; I took a very interesting call from a sub who had dabbled in real-time Domination in the past; but was having a real struggle finding the right Domme for him.

This particular sub is very introvert and was having a hard time in the scene. He'd served several Dommes before but had found that they had in the past made assumptions about his particular tastes. This led to various experiences being less than pleasant for him and has in turn; left him very disillusioned about the scene.

One such example was when he explained to a Domme he enjoyed spitting. And so this Domme indulged him - but what she did was spit in his mouth. He didn't enjoy that and in fact found himself in the bathroom after the session, emptying his guts of not only the Domme's spit but everything he'd had for lunch. Said Domme was less than impressed that he'd "had the nerve to throw up in her bathroom."

Was the sub to blame? Absolutely not! It was down to the Domme to learn the boundaries when it came to this particular fetish. He felt fearful of saying "but I don't like to have my mouth spat in" because he was concerned the Domme in question would not want to see him. So instead; he put his trust in her that she would dig deeper and work out that spitting in his mouth was a no-go area.

Second came a session where he'd experienced electrics. And this particular Domme had used electrics in the chest area. While she had indeed asked him if he had any heart problems; he blindly went ahead with the session. It was only afterwards that he learned how dangerous it is to use electrics anywhere near the heart - heart problems or not. Did he tell said Domme about her error? No - he didn't want to offend her.

This has left him in quite a pickle. He  now is interested in seeing a Domme who specialises in mummification, sensory deprivation and dollification. On her questionnaire, she asks; "do you suffer from claustrophobia?" For sub, short answer is "yes" long answer is "yes but only a little." Yet he's concerned again - if he tells said Domme he does suffer from mild claustrophobia, he worries that she won't want to see him. But then if he lies and says he doesn't; then he risks putting them BOTH in a difficult situation.

Needless to say; both of these previous experiences have given his confidence a severe knock-back and now left him fearful of where to take his fetish further. He's still learning about his fetishes. And this is true for many subs who haven't had that much experiences. While they might have an idea of what turns them on; it is highly likely there will be things they've never even thought about which appeal to them. And it's down to a Domme to work that out.

The lesson here is that all the responsibility doesn't fall to the sub. Dommes have to be held to account for responsibility as well. You should NEVER assume what a sub wants. And even if you have discussed his fetishes with him; you should never assume on how far the sub is comfortable in going. And you should NEVER practice unsafe methods. SAFE, SANE CONSENSUAL PLAY - EVERY TIME. To the Domme who did use electrics near sub's heart - you should be ashamed of yourself for failing in basic safety methods.

BDSM and Fetish is not an exact science. Like no two Dommes are the same. neither are no two subs the same. And to that end; Dommes need to be both more approachable and more flexible in their interaction with new subs. Remember; these clients are putting their trust in you - 100%. It is YOUR responsibility to see that they don't come to any harm, be it physically or psychologically and that they get something positive from the session. A bad session will definitely leave more than bad taste in the mouth of a submissive. It may be a business to you, but it should still be fun for both parties. If it's not fun, it's not going to be good.

It also reflects on you as a Domme. Have you dug deep to work out what your sub wants? Have you discussed comfort zones? Have you gotten to know your subs in a preliminary informal chat? Do you think of your sub or do you think of how much money said sub is going to pay you? If it's the latter; then you're in the wrong business.

Of course the multitude of "insta dommes" creeping on to the scene doesn't help. Sadly; many subs fall victim to these scam artists. They pay their money in the hope they will get a positive experience, only to be let down when they realise this "Domme" knows nothing about the scene and knows even less about said sub. Is it any wonder Financial Domination gets such a bad rap when few really know what it entails?

I don't take any sub at face value. It is important to remember that although in laymen's terms; a session with a Domme is a business transaction, it does indeed go much further. You are starting a professional relationship. And like any relationship, communication and trust is absolutely paramount. How can you engage in any form of relationship if you don't communicate with each other? It's not as simple as getting a sub to tell you what he's into and then taking his money. You have to take off your Domme hat momentarily and put yourself in the shoes of the sub. It's called empathy. Any Domme who refuses to open her mind and think about things from her sub's point of view is doing the scene a great disservice.

But from a sub's point of view; while you should be able to have clear communication with a Domme, in order to establish that D/s relationship, that doesn't mean you have the right to waste her time. Keep communication non-hardcore. DON'T ask for "examples" or "free tasters." Free-loading is not going to convince a Domme that you are the right sub for her. And I believe that is another problem within the scene. It is also the main reason why Dommes feel less inclined to keep the lines of communication open. Time-wasters have taken the piss and Dommes aren't prepared to fall victim to it again.

My subs don't instantly get to jump into a session. Indeed; I expect them to prove themselves first. This is not just to work out if they're going to waste My time or not, but also to see their interaction with Me and indeed My other subs. I find I learn an awful lot more from just observing them. Remember; some subs will actually be quite nervous about saying what they really want, for fear of being judged. They may also be like the sub I spoke to yesterday - very, very shy. They are only human beings at the end of the day. And that's why I observe and learn about them. When both sides have grown comfortable; then it's time to start having a session, but only once I've made sure I know what sub is and isn't comfortable with. 

My advice to any new sub or indeed Domme coming on the scene is this. Learn. Learn about yourself, your sub, your scene, and your practises. Don't instantly wake up and say; "right I'm going to be a Domme!", build a website and expect the subs to come flocking. Work out what you expect from your sub and what your sub can expect from you. BE HUMAN! It's a two-way street. If you're only prepared to go one way - then you're doomed to fail and in turn, you will fail every single sub who finally plucks up the courage to approach you. 

Halloween Brings out the "slut" in My boys!

Well both of My boys got into the Halloween spirit - with orders to decorate their cocks in honour of the occasion....

Here's Chastity Sub's efforts:

And here we have the efforts of My considered slave - Cristal's Slut:

He did forget; so he will be anally punished in his next session. His resulting "ring of fire" should keep his memory sharp.

And Chastity Sub finally got the first of his annual fucking! Meet Big Daddy Pumpkin - Chastity Sub's new fuck buddy - and here's the dirty slut enjoying his new fuck buddy!

This is the first wet hole he's had for a long time - so as you can see; he's definitely making the most of it! Next permitted fuck will be the Christmas Turkey - I guarantee you won't want to miss that! 

Chasity Sub's Shameful Secret....

When an owned pet starts to open up more; it's very interesting the kind of things they let slip - or willingly offer because they know they have no say in the matter. Like Chasity Sub who has recently admitted that he likes the idea of enforced bi. Of course; I not one to bypass on the opportunity fully exploit his dirty little secret, especially when it means I can make him squirm in humiliation to My heart's content. So here we have a picture of Chastity Sub in all his slutty glory....

As you can see; he's tied up and spread open ready to be used by any willing bulls. He loves a nice big cock up his boy cunt and I'm sure you'd like to take full advantage of his lovely, soft, wet, hot mouth.

Chastity Sub has had a sample of what it's like to be a cock-holster when he was in My group cam room the other day. Group means that any other boys can enter the room and watch the proceedings. Except the proceedings were Chastity Sub begging for cock to satisfy. So when one bull entered My cam room; Chastity Sub was made to beg him for permission to suck his cock. That's when I sat back, and enjoyed Chastity Sub giving said bull a blow by blow (pun intended) account of how he'd suck that mighty cock. Adding to his humiliation was the fact that the bull insisted on asking Chastity Sub lots of embarrassing questions; and even suggesting new ways to humiliate him - like some nasty ass to mouth action and of course being spit-roasted by Myself and bull. All the time this was happening, Chastity Sub was squirming in shame while his little maggot dick throbbed in excitement. 

He still hasn't cum, despite his constant state of arousal and humiliation. It is almost a month since his balls were last emptied, and still the taunting continues. Every time he enters My group room; I like to send out a nice little tweet to alert other boys to come and join in. The more who want to humiliate and abuse him, the better! There's no such thing as too much cock where Chastity Sub is concerned. 

It is in this way that Chastity Sub can be "virtually pimped". He has the willing holes and the boys who "virtually fuck" him; have the cash to pay me for using him. It's a win-win situation - for Me. 

I'm already looking at ways Chastity Sub can appear on webcam during a group session; and then he can have a nice audience while he shows off his slutty ways. And because he has no choice but to please Me; you'll be able to give him any command you like. It doesn't matter how depraved it is. He will do it. The threat of being back in long-term chastity is a suitable reminder of what happens when he doesn't obey.

So while I research this VERY viable option for exploiting and humiliating Chastity Sub some more; do feel free to follow him on twitter and ask him lots of embarrassing questions. His twitter handle is:

@Chastity_Sub1

He will answer each and every question with 100% honesty - no matter how shameful it is. And he will squirm and even post pictures with My permission. Just be sure to keep praising him for being a "dirty fucking whore" regularly and he'll do his very best to please!