Sunday Services with the Sister of No Mercy.

Lots of fun was had in today's kink fest. In case you missed it; I dressed up in My kinky Nurse uniform as you can see above. It's amazing how slipping into a uniform brings out the sadistic Bitch in Me. Well I say brings it out. I'm a Sadistic Bitch pretty much all of the time; but today I was perhaps more sadistic that usual.

This afternoon, I have been performing thorough rectal examinations and prostate milking, ball resilience with the aid of some pretty harsh genital torture, and multiple sperm sample collection via jerk off instruction. Of course, said collections haven't been retained by Myself. My boys have dutifully been swallowing the lot, as is expected. Well except for the dirty cum whore I spoke to this afternoon, who likes to swallow the cum of complete strangers. He normally asks male escorts to save him their used condoms. But I decided he needed a constant supply of spunk. Tonight; he's off to his local dogging site to do a "collection." That will keep him in spunk supply for the rest of the week.

Tomorrow, the Sister of No Mercy will be taking confessional from 12.30pm. All sinners are welcome. Others will be tolerated. You will be crawling into My Church to confess your filthy deeds of the week. You'll be squirming in shame as I ask you various humiliating questions about your misdeeds. I may even instruct you give a demonstration of your dirty, deviant behaviour.

Repentance by punishment will follow after you have squirmed to My satisfaction. Expect the punishment to fit the crime. Wanton wankers will have their cocks tortured within an inch of it's life. Sissy sluts can expect to be thoroughly drilled and used. Perverts can expect to be fully degraded and humiliated as they spontaneously burst into flames of shame. My sadistic and creative imagination will be going into over-drive. Scared? You should be.

So get those bookings in, sluts! Sundays are normally very popular among the dirty bitches out there. Send your booking in NOW to avoid disappointment

CONTACT MISTRESS CRISTAL 

Tease Marathon For Panty Boy.

Now back in chastity until next March, Panty Boy was giving the task of a 3 hour 10 minute tease marathon - as voted for by the twitter public. Of course he wasn't allowed to cum. But here's how he got on....

i’m delighted to be back serving Mistress Cristal after a pause that has seemed to go on for ever. So, in the glow of happiness of being back serving i asked Mistress to run a Twitter poll for me. Of course i left everything else up to Mistress. She asked me to get a new magic wand vibrator and some other toys which i ordered from Lovehoney and got delivered the next day by special delivery – i was keen to get started. So i tweeted Mistress pictures of the toys and She set the balls (so to speak) in motion. The result? A 3 hour and 10 minute teasing session with the magic wand. As soon as the result was in Mistress sent me a DM:

Well i nearly sh!t myself! Mistress has such a commanding tone even by DM that it just demands immediate response. But this time i could not do as She commanded as i was looking after the kids (school holidays). A quick DM back explaining that i would obey if i could and Mistress gave me a stay of execution (that’s what it felt like) until after they’d gone to bed.

Well i did a bit better than that and managed to off-load the kids to the in-laws for the night. After staying at the in-laws for a drink (sparkling water Mistress – sticking to the diet) and a chat for the polite amount of time it was back home to tidy up and get then get ready for the main event so to speak.

Now performing these tasks IS a task. They often take quite a bit of time (this one ticks that box) can require getting into some ‘unusual’ positions (not so much, but being in one position for quite a while can be hard on the knees, back, arms etc) and require dexterity because you have to document your performance of said tasks by taking photos and video (another box tick). Because this videoing etc is difficult whilst performing the tasks i had decided to try a different method of filming this one.  i set up a new HD webcam on my laptop and used that to take both video and photos. A couple of test videos and photos were successfully captured so it was off with all my clothes, on with my slave collar and down to business.

Well the Lovehoney magic wand performed miracles. i had thought my cage was pretty much a suit of armour but the vibrations from the wand penetrated it with no problems – provided you got the pressure, speed and angle right. Which i did – on frequent occasions. But care was also required; my cock was doing its best to escape its bonds and this cage has a nice, big pee-hole at the end. So my cock was frequently bulging out of that said pee-hole. One tip if any one of you masochists reading this is considering doing this to yourself: do NOT catch the exposed end of your cock with the wand! It’s like a pinch/electric shock right on the end of your cock. And i did it a few times; once i even had to stop and check for blood as i was sure i’d cut the tip off! Don’t do that even if you are a masochist.

Anyway, the Lovehoney magic wand was holding up like a trooper. Over 3 hours of use is a long time and it did get warm – but no more than that. It did make quite a noise though especially when pressed hard onto the cage – i  was glad i’d got rid of the kids as sometimes the vibe sounded like the battle of Britain memorial flight going overhead! And i wasn’t exactly being noiseless either – i live in a semi and bet the neighbours were wondering what on earth i was up to! Hopefully they’ll have the decency to never ask…

But i digress. i was really struggling, the wand was bringing me to the edge and, as i checked, i’d been going for precisely – 1 hour!!

On second thoughts maybe starting at about 10:45 pm wasn’t such a good idea. i had the choice of Friday night or getting up early (5ish) Saturday morning as both these would be kid-free times. i’d chosen Friday night as i didn’t trust myself not to oversleep on Saturday morning. i still stand by that decision but at about midnight i was beginning to flag. And i really needed a pee. So, after a quick pee break i continued this was torture – literally. For that is what it was. i was tired, my cock was crying out for a time-out and my brain was getting distinctly foggy. Add to that i had dried up on the pre-cum front. i don’t know whether it was the constant arousal, the duration of the teasing, the lateness of the hour or my general tiredness but my cock was trying it’s best but no amount of vibration was producing any more pre-cum. To keep myself going for the last half hour or so i had to resort to watching some online porn as well.

i woke automatically at about 7:30 and got up to go to the bathroom. It was then that i really discovered how much my cock had waved the white flag of surrender the night before. It was trying to disappear! Never had i seen it look so small, there was loads of room to spare in my cage! i had to take a picture of my shame and then i went back to bed for another hour and a half - i was just too brain-scrambled to stay up. When i woke at about 9 my cock had recovered a bit so i took a picture for comparison to the earlier one got up and proceeded about my daily routine – albeit slowly. And if i bump into the neighbours i’ll keep a low profile.

i hope Mistress Cristal, that You are satisfied with how i have completed this task. i have the glass stewing and await Your instructions on that 

As a final act of humiliation; Panty Boy was instructed to pour his pre-cum into a cocktail glass and add a straw and umbrella to give it an extra exotic feel. This was his Friday-night tipple last week - and he slurped every last drop - before noticing the taste clinging to his tongue and the back of his throat...a lasting reminder of his place of course! 

Panty Boy's Appointment With The Tens Machine..

So now that Panty Boy is back in service after a long hiatus, the first thing to do was punish him. You see; Panty Boy forgot the golden rule. EVERY masturbatory emission must be eaten - whether emission was while he was conscious or not. Wet dreams are no excuse...neither is mopping up said emission with a tissue.

So his punishment for this lapse in obedience was a 2 hour appointment with the TENS machine...increasing the current level every ten minutes. The results were spectacular!

"i admitted it to Mistress: i’ve been bad. i’ve cum and not eaten my mess. That it was a wet dream and i sleepily cleaned myself in the middle of the night is not the point. i’ve not done as my Owner, Mistress Cristal, has trained me over many months. So i must be punished and to add extra spice to the punishment Mistress Cristal let me choose it.

i didn’t have to think for long – it had to be a suitable punishment for the crime, something that would entertain Mistress and something that i would not like. And my range of weapons of punishment has become quite small so, after a short while it became obvious. The tens machine on my balls. i put this to Mistress and She came back with the details. Tens on balls for 2 hours, starting on level 1 and increasing by 1 every 10 minutes.

You’re probably better at maths than me and know that that means ending on level 12. i like to think i knew it too but i was panicking so had to work it out. That’s right, i’d have to go to level 12 and endure it for ten minutes.

A quick background – my tens machine has 30 levels and i’ve used it on my balls at Mistress’s command  before. It is set to a shock pattern that hurts and i’ve used it twice on my balls at Her command - once on level 6 and once on level 8.

This punishment was making me panic, i could feel my heart racing and my cheeks flushing. Level 12 *gulp*.

Well nothing to do but get on with it and better to get it done sooner rather than later so i started that night - once i’d got the kids to bed *blushes*. Yes i had the kids in the house so this was risky and i’d have to be careful and as quiet as possible. Oh dear.

i stripped naked, kneeled and put my collar on. i put the tens pads on my balls and connected the machine. It does 30 minute programs and then you have to restart it. A safety precaution i presume, lol. So the first 30 minutes comprised levels 1, 2 & 3 and were light work. A light prickling even at level 3, i even managed to get some housework  done*more blushing*. Next, reset the machine for the next 30 minute program for levels 4, 5 & 6.Levels 4 and 5 were quite mild just a mild tingling sensation through to level 6 which was getting more serious - some mild shocks that caused a few winces and squirms.

Now for the next 30 minutes. Now we are getting into serious territory. Levels 7, 8 & 9 are not to be trifled with. i know what you’re thinking: “but it goes up to level 30. What a wimp at only level 7/8/9!”. Well if you though that then i invite you to try it, my friend, just pop in to your friendly Lloyds Pharmacy for exactly the same model as i have. Anyway back to my punishment and i’ll just tell you about level 9. Well when that kicked in i cried out in pain! As soon as i’d done that i listened for movement. Had the kids heard? No sign of movement so that was a relief – at least until the next shock in the balls. Ten minutes of level 9 had me panting and gripping the bed, anything i could do to try to ride the pain until the ten minutes are over.

And so to the final 30 minutes. i’m not ashamed to say that these final 30 minutes and 3 levels scared the shit out of me. Level 9 had been bad enough but level 10 hit me like an express train – straight in the tenders. It’s when you reach these higher levels that you begin to appreciate the sheer sadism of this punishment. You have ten minutes of pain to get through, endure, experience – however you want to look at it. But as your time begins to come to an end the fear of the next level begins to add to the pain and discomfort. Because as the ten minutes ends you’re not going to be ending the pain. You’re ramping it up to the next level. For 10 more whole minutes.

So let’s skip to the business end – level 12. i was trying to video with my phone as level 11 came to an end to show me clicking the tens up to level 12. That in itself is difficult enough without level 11 kicking you in the nuts every few seconds. i really was beginning to feel close to screaming. As the timer ticked over from 11 to 10 minutes with a shaking hand i somehow managed to change the level to 12. It was bad. Worse than i had expected and i wheeze and puffed like a lady in labour. i was on my hands and knees at the start of level 12 so i could video the process. And then i changed position to lying/sitting on the bed. This was much worse. i think the pads must have made better contact or something – even though i did keep reapplying them if they came loose (i don’t think they’re really designed to go on balls). Whatever the reason this position on level 12 was a killer. I can’t really describe it in words  - you’ll have to watch the video. You’ll laugh. But please don’t be too unkind in your mirth, we all make mistakes and i think i’ve paid the price and hope that Mistress Cristal thinks so too.

So, dear Mistress Cristal, i humbly apologize for my mistake and hope that You are satisfied with how i have completed this task. i think i have learned from my error and will always strive to do better.

Your slave,"

Chastity Sentence For Panty Boy.

This is to certify that:

PANTY BOY

Is hereby sentenced to the following length of time in chastity:

224 DAYS.

DATE OF PAROLE CONSIDERATION:

17 NOVEMBER 2016

DATE OF PROPOSED RELEASE UPON COMPLETION OF SENTENCE:

7 MARCH 2017

The dreaded "wasabi treatment".....

Ah, the moment chastity sub had long since been dreading. It was time to move his suffering up a few notches. Enter the "wasabi treatment"!

"When Mistress Cristal instructed me to purchase wasabi paste to be used in the next session I was to have with Mistress it immediately filled me with a feeling of deep anticipation and dread. Mistress has ordered me to use hot English mustard and hot Tabasco before on Her cock and balls and nipples and I have experienced and suffered the heat they generate. However wasabi has a reputation of being very hot to touch on skin so the knowledge that I would be experiencing this gave a deep feeling of dread and anticipation. I know that I am fully owned by Mistress Cristal and that I have no choice in what is done to me or my body as it is Mistresses to do with as she desires. I also know that any thought I have on anything is of no concern to Mistress as what is important is what Mistress desires or chooses.

When I went into the supermarket I was full of anticipation and when I picked up the wasabi all I could think of was how hot it would feel on me when used. It was 2 weeks after purchasing the paste that I had a session with Mistress. In those 2 weeks I was always conscious that the paste was there waiting to be used and was in dread of the feeling of it. All that time knowing I had no choice in how it was used as it was all Mistress Cristals choice. I could see the wasabi every day reminding me of what I was due to experience.

On the day of the session I had everything prepared and ready for Mistress Cristal to use in any way she chose. I was in complete trepidation and dread and fear of what was to come and excited in the knowledge that as I am the property of Mistress Cristal that I had to fully submit with no choice or concern of my thoughts.

The session was over an hour of suffering cock, ball and nipple torture for Mistresses amusement and pleasure. Throughout all the suffering I knew there was more to experience and I was in dread that it was going to be worse than I have ever experienced before. When Mistress instructed me to spread a generous amount of the wasabi paste onto a plate I was in complete dread and trepidation in fear it was going to be the worst heat I have ever been made to experience for Mistresses pleasure and amusement.

When Mistress Cristal instructed me to paint the wasabi paste with an artist paint brush generously over Her balls I knew I had no choice but to obey. Before hand the balls had already been made sore and very tender from the session. During the session I had them spanked hard with a wooden spoon before having 2 industrial clamps applied biting in hard and painfully. With the clamps attached I had been forced to do a minutes marching, a minutes jogging on the spot, 20 squats, 20 lunges with the left leg and 20 lunges with the right leg, can can for a minute and a minutes pogo jumping. Throughout all this the pain of the clamps bouncing around tugging hard on the skin of my balls was very hard and got worse with each second. After this I had a pin wheel run deep around the skin next to were the clamps were biting in which was a strong pain going right through me making me shake hard. After this the balls had been further softened by having hot wax dripped on them which as it hit areas were the clamps had bitten in and where the pins had dug in deep really stung hard. Once the wax was hardened every spot of it was removed by whipping hard with a leather belt. Before the paste was even applied my balls were really tender and sore. The heat from the wasabi as the brush touched my balls was like the flame from the candle being applied directly to them. The heat got worse and worse as my balls were fully coated in a thick layer of wasabi paste. They felt like they were on a hot plate with the heat gradually getting hotter and hotter bringing more tears to my eyes all the time.

I was then instructed to paint the paste onto my nipples. During the session they had also been made sore and tender by having clover clamps applied with 16 ounces of weights added to hang off them tugging them down hard before doing the exercises as above. As the exercising had intensified the swinging of the weights on the clamps had gotten worse making the clamps bite harder and tug sharper on my nipples. As the weights bounced up there was a moment of release of tension of the clamps on the nipples immediately followed by gravity forcing the weights back down increasing the pain of the biting of the clamps more and more. Do to the sweating from the exercise, pain and humidity the clamps slipped from the nipples which made them tug down hard on the nipples causing more pain than when they were put on. When I was allowed to remove the industrial clamps from my balls I had to place them on my nipples and as they were already so sore and tender from the weighted clover clamps the pain was tremendous. After Mistress gave me permission to remove the clamps the pin wheel was run over the nipples deep which was incredibly sharp and painful. As my nipples were already so tender and in pain I was in dread of the heat from the wasabi paste. As it was painted on thickly the heat also felt like a naked flame on them getting hotter and hotter and made me shake and sweat a lot more.

The heat from the wasabi paste coated on my balls and nipples was far worse than I had suffered from hot mustard and hot Tabasco and seemed to keep getting hotter and hotter with each second bringing more sweat and tears to my eyes. I had no choice but to endure it for as long as Mistress decided for her pleasure and amusement. My pain and suffering and discomfort was of no concern to Mistress as it is Her pleasure that is the principal goal.

I then had the vibrating butt plug inserted and put on its most intense setting. There was some pleasure felt from the vibrations but this was overwhelmed by the heat.

During the 2 weeks I had the wasabi I had been instructed by Mistress to undertake 2 hours tease and denial every day collecting my pre cum in a brandy glass with an extra 5 hour tease and denial the day before the session. Mistress made me take the full content of the glass into my mouth and keep it there until She said otherwise. It felt humiliating having a mouth full of pre cum being made to taste it for as long as Mistress wanted.

Mistress then gave me permission to wank but only by wrapping coarse sandpaper around Her cock and using that. It was a strange mixture of pain and discomfort from the heat burning my balls and nipples and the sandpaper rubbing my already tortured and tender cock mixed with pleasure from wanking after being on edge for 2 weeks solid and from the vibrating butt plug and shame and humiliation from having a mouthful of pre cum and tasting it all the time. After some hard begging Mistress was very kind to allow me to cum in the glass. I felt great pleasure from cumming which was immediately replaced with a reminder of how hot the wasabi was burning. Mistress then allowed me to swallow all the pre cum and then drink the full content of the glass followed by the humiliation of having to scoop every last part of the cum out with my fingers and lick them clean and swallow it all like I was hungry and thirsty for every last drop of cum like a cum hungry slut.

After the session I also had the humiliation of Mistress informing the whole world of my suffering and showing them pictures of my hot wasabi covered balls and nipples.

It was a relief to have permission after this from Mistress to remove the hot wasabi and apply cucumber to help cool my balls and nipples. It was the hottest they have ever been and the heat lasted for hours . Mistress also filled me with further dread by saying this appeared to be her weapon of choice now knowing how hot it actually is. I know as Mistress Cristal pet and property what is most important is Her pleasure and there is no concern for my thoughts on anything or my suffering in achieving this."

And since then; chastity sub has acquired another "instrument of torture"....keep your eyes peeled for what THAT might be....

An intense torture session with Chastity Sub.

Generally speaking; Chastity Sub reports to Me every Friday afternoon for some harsh CBT and nipple torture so he can show Me how much he enjoys suffering for My amusement. This week however, he reported for his weekly suffering a day early and that feeling is rather like getting an early birthday present - it's a nice surprise and you can't wait to open it!

Now Chastity Sub can take A LOT of torture. He is a very resilient slave who enjoys having his pain threshold pushed over and over again. I certainly don't go easy on him. And I especially don't go easy on him if he appears before Me with a flaccid cock. He knows how I feel about that. He also knows that his cock belongs to Me and because it belongs to Me; it will always stand to attention. If I see it shrinking; it is forced to stand to attention by any painful means necessary. So I like to ensure it behaves itself in this manner by commanding him to repeatedly slap it hard with the back of a wooden spoon. This treatment is just limited to his cock either. The helmet and indeed his balls all get the same harsh treatment to ensure they remember who they belong to.

I also like to start off our sessions rather tame and work up in intensity to drive him into a frenzy. Throughout the session; I will ask him to give Me a pain rating which at the moment can be anywhere between 1 and 300. Obviously; the higher the rating, the more pain he is experiencing. He started off with a rating of 8 - which is simply not good enough for My standards. So to ensure the rating started on a solid incline; I had him attach two of these bad boys to his ball bag...

These clamps are not for the faint-hearted. They are heavy and they pinch - a lot. They bite into the skin nicely and have been known to pierce the skin on a few of our sessions. Those are the sessions when I have him rub vinegar or even salt into the wounds..literally.

But today I decided to increase the intensity of these clamps by having him also attach 16 bulldog clips to his balls. A further 4 bulldog clips were attached to his foreskin and string was threaded through. And to ensure his cock remembered it's place; he was instructed to tug on the string to stretch his foreskin (and make the clips bite in harder) while he whipped the shaft of his cock hard with a folded up leather belt. Half-way through his 2 minutes of whipping; he was already beginning to shake in agony and I was left in no doubt that the pain rating would continue to climb.

Once the whipping was complete; I allowed him to remove the bulldog clips from around his foreskin before having him adopt "Position 2"; for some much-needed exercise:

His weekly exercise regime does vary but this week it included the following:

Marching briskly on the spot - 1 minute.

Jogging on the spot - 1 minute.

15 lunges - right leg

15 lunges - left leg

20 squats.

And perhaps the most cruel of all..

Pogo jumping - 1 minute

Easy you may think? Well not really. For one thing; Chastity Sub is not the fittest of slaves and secondly; aerobic exercise whilst wearing heavy and biting clamps on his balls is NOT easy. This was especially evident when he was doing his pogo jumping - an exercise he dreads. His balls were bouncing all over the place but being weighed down by the clamps. He was in excruciating agony as was evident from the screams he was clearly emitting.

Once I was satisfied he'd had a full work-out; it was back to Position 1 for some further torture and at this point I had him remove two bulldog clips from his balls and place them on his nipples. As you can see; all that exercise worked up quite a sweat - although I do suspect that the pain had something to do with it as well.

Unfortunately for Chastity Sub; he wasn't quite paying attention when I issued that last command and attempted to remove the large clamps from his balls. Tut, tut! I expect My boys to get it right the first time. So on to Position 3 was he for a sound spanking with the back of a wooden spoon. 

Those white marks will be turning purple as the hours tick by - a nice lasting reminder for him pay attention in the future.

Once I was satisfied he had learned his lesson; it was back into Position 1 for some hot wax treatment. His task was to drizzle hot wax all over his shaft and helmet and wait for it to set. This is a method which features more often than not in our sessions simply because it's very intense - particularly in the removal. I don't allow him the luxury of simply picking the wax off. I have him whip the wax off with the leather belt. This can take anywhere from 80 to 200 strokes - depending on how hard he's whipping and it wouldn't be the first time he's ended up with a very bruised and swollen cock as a result. There's no danger of him wanking it after such a session - that cock is too sore for him to manage it.

And after the cock had suffered the wax treatment; it was time for those balls to follow suit. Of course it's far more painful to remove the clips and clamps from his balls than it is to put them on. He always removes the larger clamps rather gingerly and I do enjoy the sight of him shaking in agony as he does so. It's usually at this point the screams get louder and the neighbours start to wonder if somebody is being murdered....

After the clamps have been removed and he's screamed the house down; it's time for the hot wax to be drizzled on to his balls. They're already very sore and the hot wax feels like a thousand bees stinging his ball bag all at once. I like to prolong this treatment so that firstly; I can make sure all of his balls are covered - particularly the "hard to whip" areas and secondly to prolong his agony. What kind of sadist would I be if I didn't? And today while we again waited for the wax to set; I had him pick up his pin wheel and run it all over his cock, including the helmet as he squirmed and shook at the pins digging in nicely. After 2 minutes I had him stop with the pin wheel. It was time to remove the wax.

Watching him whip off all that wax was very satisfying. He was squirming all over the place and would have more than likely gladly ripped off his balls to save himself from the agony. In the past; he's tried to stop before all the wax is removed and has quickly learned the hard way that attempting to fool Mistress is definitely not a good idea. So these days; he ensures he removes every last speck, no matter how painful the process might be.

Another round with the pin wheel followed the wax removal; as he dug the pins into the rather angry looking indentations left by the large clamps. To give you a clue as to how that feels; imagine the worst paper cut you've ever had and then dipping it into a cup of vinegar. Brings tears to your eyes doesn't it? Yes the pin wheel always does for Chastity Sub - particularly when used AFTER the clamps.

Finally to ensure the agony of his "great balls of fire" was prolonged; I instructed him to paint them with hot English mustard. He'll rinse that off when I feel like it. I omitted to tell him a time when he could rinse it off...just to keep him dangling and squirming in pain...

He thinks the English Mustard is the worst. How very much mistaken he is! Next week it's time for the wasabi treatment.

Did Chastity Sub earn his orgasm today? Yes he did. But not without some humiliation. He's been teasing himself for 2 hours every day for the last week. He has ensured he has collected his pre-cum in a brandy glass and reserved it for our session. Usually; I will make him drink it after he's cum in it. But today I decided to make things that bit more shameful for him. Instead, I had him take his mouthful of pre-cum and hold it there while he masturbated into a glass using a piece of coarse sandpaper. Pleasure and pain is the name of the game! After begging for his release; he came very hard and it was only then that I allowed him to swallow his mouthful. Of course there was another mouthful for him to swallow - the mess he'd just made in the glass. He took every last drop like an obedient pet. And what was his pain rating at the end of the session? A whopping 250! Next time; I will ensure he reaches 300 but for now; slave has pleased his Mistress well.

What makes a true submissive?

As I've mentioned before; the reason I only have a handful of owned submissives under My wing is because I take QUALITY over quantity. I have very high expectations and I expect My slaves to strive hard to meet them. Sadly; only a small percentage will last that distance and that small percentage are among the elite - those of whom are able to prove themselves worthy of My precious attention.

Anybody can type out an email and approach a Dominatrix with the intention of serving Her. But it's the thought and effort which goes into that email and indeed beyond; which makes a HUGE difference between gaining Her attention and finding themselves being ignored. "Surely it's just a case of doing as you're told" is a common misconception among many "would be" submissives. In truth it is far more complex than that. Obeying orders is just one small part of the whole dynamic of a D/s relationship and true servitude comes from within.

So what does make a good slave?

Let's talk about submission as a starting point. The fact is; submission is either given or it isn't. And when it is given; it's given in its entirety. No Dominatrix I know of will take on somebody who is only "a little bit" submissive. You either are or you aren't. And if you fall into the unsure category; then perhaps you're not ready to take the plunge into a D/s relationship until you have established what you really are.

By definition; to "submit" is to surrender all free will and give up control to another. And that control is absolute and extends far beyond the physical sense. The "controlled" should expect to have every single aspect of his life controlled for him - his thought patterns; his priorities, his day to day life; sometimes even his diet, his relationships, his wants and his needs and sometimes even his finances. And it is for this very reason why submission cannot be given at only half-measures. And on both sides of the coin; it is not to be undertaken by those who are only mildly curious. Just as giving up control comes with a certain amount of responsibility; taking control comes with a huge amount of responsibility.

As a Dominatrix; I am totally responsible for My slaves and not just their obedience. I am responsible for their physical, mental and emotional well-being. It is so very important not to lose sight of the fact that they are also human beings, Taking control of a slave is not as simple as say training a new puppy. Human beings by nature are far more complex than that and their psyche is often very very fragile. Respect and trust are the most important aspects of a D/s relationship. The submissive respects and trusts in you to keep them safe from any real harm. And you must respect their boundaries and weaknesses. You must also trust in them to be honest.

A true submissive will always put the needs of his Superiors above his own. Indeed; they understand that their needs are not important. That's not to say that they are robots who will willingly obey every command you give. Submission is more than that. It is a state of mind and will come easily to those who are genuinely submissive.

So from the word go; in that first point of contact with a Dominatrix; and before you even start taping out that application email; you need to ask yourself one very important question. "Why should I be considered?" To put things into perspective; I receive countless applications on a weekly basis. 90% of those applications are ignored. Why? Because they lack standards, care, effort and above all; selflessness. So think about the applications that fail to make the grade and consider why yours should stand out from the rest. What are you going to do to encourage said Dominatrix to actually READ your email? And how do you intend to illicit a positive response from Her? As a hint; "wrITing lYke Dis" is rude and unhelpful and will find itself in the bin....Don't rely on the spell-check either. There is no substitute for proof-reading to ensure good spelling and grammar.

Then comes the actual journey of servitude. Ask yourself this; "do you care more about what you get out of it or what your Mistress gets out of it?" Now this might seem an easy question to answer at first. But look at it again and consider another fact. If Mistress chooses to deny you any pleasure for an indeterminate period of time; will you consider yourself lucky or hard done to? If it's the latter; then servitude is not for you. If you understand that your frustration entertains Her and puts a smile on Her face; then your head is starting to get in the right place. And don't think you can fake your way through this process either. A good Dominatrix can spot that a mile off and it will quickly put a rather abrupt end to your journey.

Are you prepared to do whatever Mistress demands of you? If your answer starts with "yes but only if..." don't even continue that sentence. In fact; don't even continue reading. A true submissive realises that his servitude is not open for negotiation. He doesn't do what Mistress commands because he wants to. He does it because his Mistress is making him. That's not to say that Mistress will totally ignore your limits. These limits or "no go" areas are agreed upon before servitude begins. It is also mutual and...here's that important word again..RESPECTED. Mistress doesn't breach your limits on the understanding that you don't breach Hers. Respect is a two-way street.

And finally; is your selflessness "outside the box"? Are you intuitive in how you can further please your Mistress? Have you paid enough attention to Her to understand how best to please Her? Now this is something which separates the wheat from the chaff. A true submissive has the initiative to go above and beyond not because he wants something out of it; but because he receives real pleasure from the knowledge he has pleased his Mistress. And he comes up with more creative and SELFLESS ways to do this. Everything he does is with his Mistress in mind. And because it's with Mistress is mind; he always seeks Her permission before he does it. Making assumptions is the worst thing a sub and in fact a Domme can do. NEVER ASSUME. Just like every submissive is different; so is every Dominatrix. And we Dommes are VERY unpredictable. We make it our mission to be unpredictable - that's how we keep you chomping at the bit to continue pleasing us. The steps are simple - think, ask and act accordingly. And accept when Mistress says "no". Boys who whine and complain are not submissive. They're needy and they're selfish. I personally don't give the time of day to needy boys. I prefer boys who respect the word "no" as My final answer. Neither should a submissive expect Mistress to back up Her decision with a reason. The answer is simply; "because She has said so."

Just how sadistic is Mistress?

Don't believe I'm really that sadistic? I think chastity sub would whole-heartedly disagree with you! Here's a picture of his balls after today's torturous CBT session. The yellow stuff is strong English mustard - burning hot enough to make his eyes water. This is AFTER some torture with sand paper; the pin wheel, hot wax and of course a good whipping from a leather belt. It's also after he wore toothed clamps to his balls for 20 minutes.

By the time I'd finished with him; he was not only shaking in agony; he was also crying. Yes his eyes were squirting despite the fact that his cock still isn't allowed to squirt - not until at least May anyway.

So in to answer those who wonder just how sadistic I am - take a long hard look at this picture. It could be you if you play your cards right!

What constitutes bad behaviour of a slave?

I was recently asked by a considered slave; about what would constitute bad behaviour worthy of punishment. So rather than just tell him; I've decided to highlight this very good question in a blog post. This should clear up any confusion:

1. Failing to address Mistress in the correct and respectful manner.
2. Conversing with another Domme without the permission of Mistress.
3. Acts of masturbation and other sexual activity without the explicit permission of Mistress.
4. Failure to report to Mistress on a regular basis.
5. Failing to act on the instructions of Mistress.
6. Attempting to top from bottom.
7. Attempting to serve another Domme without the permission of Mistress.
8. Behaving in a less that respectful manner to other considered slaves.
9. Failing to report to any correspondence by Mistress; in a timely manner.
10. Failure to thoroughly complete any assignment as instructed by Mistress.
11. Lying to Mistress.
12. With-holding requested information from Mistress.
13. Sending dick pics without the permission of Mistress.
14. Failing to put the needs of Mistress above anything else.
15. Failing to request permission for "time off" due to work, family or holiday commitments.
16. Failing to submit assignments on time.
17. Failing to attend webcam appointments on time.
18. Failing to send appropriate webcam session/email assignment fees as requested by Mistress.
19. Failing to appear naked on webcam with Mistress; unless otherwise instructed.
20. Failing to update Mistress of any health or welfare issues.

Punishments for breaking the above rules vary from physical or psychological punishments. Of course the ULTIMATE punishment for a badly behaved slave is dismissal. And when you're dismissed; you're dismissed permanently. This means that Mistress will no longer acknowledge your existence....

Domination & Responsibility.

It doesn't matter if you're a real-time or an online Dominatrix. If you are practising the art of BDSM; it comes with an immense amount of responsibility. And that responsibility is about ensuring your slave is always safe. You must always remember; that your slave is putting his trust in you 100%. When they submit to you; they give up complete control and trust that while you will control their life, mind, body and soul; you will also ensure that they will never come to any harm.

This responsibility begins from the word go; not just during a session. It is so very important to do a full health screening of your slave. You need to ensure you have a comprehensive background of your slave's health and well-being. Not doing so risks serious injury to your slave; or worse. This is one of the few things you DO owe your slave.

When I take on a new slave; they have to fill out an application questionnaire. There is no way around this. They provide answers on their likes and dislikes; experience, limits (another VERY important factor!) and of course their health. And you need to ensure you know EVERYTHING. That is why; if a slave should be successful in the process; they are then subjected to an online interview via text chat. I will ask them details of any illness or conditions they have; any surgeries; any history of medical complications; any dietary requirements; and of course; a complete list of any medication they are taking.

Some slaves have actually been quite surprised at Me asking such questions. They have even gone so far as to consider it "intrusive". It is then that I remind them it is for THEIR safety. You must provide some care for your sub - every time you play with them.

Another reason it is important to find out these things is for the BDSM techniques you intend to use. For example; the use of electrics on a slave with a heart condition is asking for trouble. Just like the use of poppers on a slave with heart, lung or blood-pressure problems is also very dangerous. If you have a slave with diabetes; you would definitely not do a forced-intox session involving alcohol - that'll put them at serious risk of a diabetic coma.

So as you can see; there's a lot more to being a Dominatrix than making your slave do naughty things. It's a title you earn - by taking care of your slave - before, during and AFTER session - every single time! 

PantyBoy has days added; but is also rewarded.

So Panty boy is well into his Lent abstinence. Of course; he has slipped up a few times - 5 to be exact. A few times were as a result of forgetting to re-word his auto-tweet. Such a pity it contained the word "me". It didn't go unnoticed. And it meant further days have been added to his chastity sentence.

He's also forgotten himself in his tweets a few times. Tut tut - more days added. So far; his proposed date of release is 3rd April. It would have been 4th April; but he had a day removed as a result of honest behaviour. Having been approached by an insta-domme; he decided to inform Me rather than respond to her. See boys? Honesty is always important - and good behaviour is rewarded!

But let's not forget that there is still plenty of time for more days to be added. I don't doubt that he's already climbing the walls. His next assignment is centred around anal training - that should tighten the thumbscrews a fair bit. How long before he's sobbing, I wonder?

The deliciousness of Nipple Torture.

Nipple torture is such a sweet torture to administer. Particularly if you have a slave who has been fully broken and is powerless to resist. You can use a whole range of clamps designed to cause maximum pain. You can get creative too! I mean; why would you just let the clamps sit there? Of course you're going to have them tugged and twisted. And if they're heavy clamps; then some exercise is needed.

Jogging on the spot is a good one for making those clamps wobble. Pogo-jumping is also good - get's those clamps flying up and down and those nipples burning. Not satisfied with your work? Oh well - extra strength tabasco will ensure the painful experience is drawn out for as long as possible...

The Power of Chastity & Cuckoldry.

I had an interesting and very enjoyable chat yesterday, with a phone slave who's very much into cuckoldry and until recently was serving a Professional Dominatrix in that capacity on a long-term basis.

Unlike many of the "wannabe" cucks I've spoken to in the past; this guy really understood the whole psychology behind the fetish. To him; it wasn't about just watching his Mistress enjoy herself with a Bull. It was about accepting his emasculation and learning to embrace the spiritual and emotional changes which often come with it.

He had spent four and a half months locked in chastity during his time with his Mistress. That in itself was pretty impressive (although I know of one slave who's in chastity for much longer!), but hearing him talk about the psychological experiences of it was fascinating and it proved to Me that his head was definitely in the right place for the fetish.

He talked about how he felt that his mind had been completely opened by being in chastity. He no longer felt the need to assert his masculinity because it had been taken away from him. Instead; he went about his daily life in a selfless manner; learning that the world does not revolve around him or indeed his penis. Rather he was just one person in a big wide world.

It is true that many men place far too much emphasis on what is between their legs. To the unenlightened; the size or even the sheer fact that they have a penis gives them a sense of over-importance. They are selfish and focus on only one thing - their own pleasure. But when you put a slave into chastity and cuckold him at the same time; notice how quickly that changes. Sure; they fight the inevitable at first; but eventually they will learn to accept their fate and they learn that they have taken their pleasure for granted; because they have assumed they have a right to it. The mind shifts from it's sole focus of self-gratification to understanding that their needs are but a tiny fish in a massive ocean.

He talked about how one day; he was approached by a young woman at his local railway station. She was feeling intimidated by a gang of men who had been bothering her on her train journey. She asked him to stay with her until her boyfriend arrived to pick her up from the station. She needed to feel safe. In the past; slave would have told her where to go. It was not his problem. But because of the power of being in chastity; his priorities had shifted. He stayed with the woman for as long as it took until her lift arrived. He felt a responsibility to help this woman.

See what had happened here? He no longer saw women as objects for his sexual kicks. Instead; women were to be worshipped and cherished and only once he had pleased them; would they please him - provided of course they felt inclined to do so.

While he watched the Bull fuck his Mistress; he admitted that he felt overwhelmed with jealousy. The Bull in question was black, and very well endowed. His Mistress was white. Slave is black. Yes; there is a status and racial status thing going on here; without wishing to delve into racial humiliation. But in his mind; the Bull was his equal and yet was above him. He had to call the Bull "Master" and beg him to fuck his Mistress. And as he watched Bull enjoy what slave so desperately wanted; he was overcome with a multitude of conflicting emotions - jealousy, excitement, and even humility; such is the psychological power of chastity combined with cuckoldry.

At the end of his time in chastity; his Mistress gave him a choice. He could either fuck Her, or he could please Her by fucking the gorgeous cross-dresser She had with her. He told Me about how this cross-dresser was stunning - and certainly didn't look like a guy in clothes. Mistress had clearly chosen this cross-dresser wisely.  But in giving slave the choice; She emphasised how fucking the cross-dresser would please Her more; yet the choice was slave's and slave's only. A test of loyalty and indeed priorities.

Slave was tempted. He had spent 4 and a half months in chastity and had watched his Mistress repeatedly fucked by a Bull. His cock had seen absolutely no action. But on the other hand; because he had received psychological and emotional clarity during his time in chastity; he knew it was important to please his Mistress and he felt compelled to do that more than anything. So what did he choose? He chose the cross-dresser. And after he had fucked the cross-dress while his Mistress had watched and played with Herself; she told him how proud She was that he had made the decision the please Her rather then please himself. THAT was his reward. Not the physical act of receiving pleasure. No; it was the praise from his Mistress which gave him the most pleasure. He was no longer proud of what was between his legs. Instead he was proud of what he could do to make his Mistress happy.

And that ladies and gentlemen; is what serving a Dominatrix is about. It is the true meaning of absolute servitude; thinking of what will please Mistress but never considering pleasing yourself. This is what you should be aiming for when you take the decision to serve. It should be at the front of your mind at all times. Only then can you truly be worthy of serving.

Chat with Mistress Cristal.

Fancy having a chat with Mistress Cristal?

Most days I am online and will often engage in instant messenger/text chats with My servants.

Not only do I use Skype for webcam bookings; but it also available for those who wish to have a text chat with Me. This is very useful for newbies who are getting their feet wet and aren't quite ready to take the next step into showing their face on webcam. It is also useful for those who's personal circumstances make it difficult for them to have webcam or voice chat sessions

Throughout these chats you can tell Mistress a little about your fetishes, kinks and experiences as well learning more about Mistress. Learning is good - it means that throughout your servitude you will get it right every time. Remember; it is VERY important to always strive hard to please Mistress.

The only way to enjoy a chat with Me in this way and have Me on your contact list is to pay a small tribute of £10 via online Gift Card from Amazon.co.uk 

This is the ONLY way to receive My chat ID. I don't do freebies and I only entertain those who are serious about serving Me. There are no alternative methods to chat with Me.

I do this because My time is precious and is not there to be taken for granted or monopolised by those who think they can receive a limitless amount of attention for free. As a Professional Dominatrix; I don't give out My time or attention freely and I'm certainly not here to serve your needs. My time is about ME and you here to serve ME. 

You should also be aware that I don't entertain free-loaders; attention seekers and fake submissives.  My time is ONLY for those who are serious and honest about their intentions to serve. Those with the sole intention of stealing My time and using Me, should not approach - you will be disappointed. I am not about to divert My time and energy from My true servants to your selfish whims.

How to receive access to My private Skype ID:

Simply send a tribute of £10 to mistresscristal@mail.com from Amazon.co.uk. You can purchase gift cards via the link below:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B006AUF6X0/gcrnsts?ie=UTF8&qid=1428864784&ref_=sr_1_1&s=gift-cards&sr=1-1

Once you have sent tribute for My Skype ID you should send Me an email to:

mistresscristal@mail.com

Isn't that easy? Just 3 minutes of work to show you have a genuine desire to serve Me. It couldn't be any more simple! If however you have a multitude of excuses as to why you feel you cannot afford just £10 to prove you wish to serve, then you're not serious. And I have no interest in those who are not serious. But if you genuinely do wish to serve then £10 is a small price to pay for the honour of My attention.

Deadly Nightshade & Deadly Mistress....

The Deadly Nightshade is also known as "Atropa Belladonna" and is one of the most toxic plants found in the Eastern Hemisphere.

The name "atropa" is derived from the Greek Goddess Atropos - one of the three Greek fates or destinies who would determine the course of a man's life by weaving threads that would symbolize his birth, the events in his life and finally his death. 

The name "belladonna" is Italian; meaning "beautiful lady".

It is both beautiful and deadly. The berries look particularly attractive and are sweet in taste - tempting but toxic. Consumption of two to five berries by adults is probably lethal. The most toxic part of the plant is the root, but eating a single leave of Atropa Belladonna can be fatal to an adult.

No dear readers; this is not a biology lesson. This is what is known as "symbolism". You see; like the Deadly Nightshade I too am toxic. And like the Deadly Nightshade I am beautiful. I am a Goddess and a "belladonna" and just as tempting as those sweet, but deadly berries.

The difference is; you DON'T get taste. ALL parts of Me are toxic - particularly My imagination. My eyes are hypnotic which means I will pull you in and easily lead you to give up complete control. And once you're under My spell; there is no escape. You will transfixed by the commands leaving My beautiful lips and will be compelled to obey. 

While My toxicity is not fatal; it certainly isn't something to be taken lightly. I have the power. ALL of the power. Don't be so sure that you can guess My next move. Like Atropa Belladonna; My toxicity has unpredictable effects. I can pull you in, captivate you, render you completely helpless then leave you to stew in your own frustrating juices. Or maybe I'll give you what you crave? Just don't forget; I call the shots - and you are a slave to My desires - not your own. 

Like Atropos; I will also weave the threads of your destiny. And while I'm weaving those threads, you will continue to fall deeper and deeper under My spell. Like the fish to the juicy worm, you'll be hooked ready for Me to reel you in. You will then know there is only one destiny for you - to OBEY. And why will you obey? Because you will learn to fear the extent of My toxicity....

Hooked already? Then prove to Me that you are worthy of My attention. Apply now and tell Me WHAT you can do to please and amuse. But take care in your application; My toxicity doesn't have an antidote....

mistresscristal@mail.com

Locked Up For Lent!

After an unfortunate mishap; slave k had to be temporary "free" from chastity for a few days. You see that's what happens when you have your cage too tight - it can chafe. Mind you, it didn't help that during his locked up period, I had him watch porn for an hour each day....What can I say? My cruel streak must come out to play and frequently.

But, I'm pleased to announce he's now fully healed and back to being caged. For how long? I haven't decided yet....although I have to say that keeping him locked until Easter is VERY tempting....

NEW SLAVE RELISHES HIS ROLE

I think My new slave is enjoying being owned. Look how eager to please he is!

WORTHLESS SLUT IS PUNISHED FOR HIS CRIMES.

So one of yesterday's Skype sessions was very entertaining! One of My sluts contacted Me to say he needed a cam session so he could confess his bad behaviour and beg for punishment.

And on acceptance of his request, he appeared on cam, looking meek and very sorry for himself, ready to make his confession. "Mistress," he began. "I have been chatting with cam girls, and I have been less that pleasant to them."

"Go on," I prompted, whilst delighting in watching him squirm.

"Well Mistress," he continued. "I have been having thoughts about what I'd like to do with them. I'd like to spank them, and be rough with them. Fuck them roughly and call them names."

"And do you think that behaviour is acceptable to a lowly slave like yourself?" I asked.

"No Mistress," came the reply. "And that is why I beg you to punish Me."

Well who am I to resist?

"You have forgotten your place, slave." I told him. "You have had ideas above your station. You need to be reminded that Women are your Superiors and as such, you will treat them with the utmost respect. You are in no position to make such disgusting demands of them, to treat them with such contempt."

"Yes Mistress," he said, lowering his head in shame.

"So you will suffer greatly for forgetting you role in life." I continued. "And since your confession was so detailed, I have decided that your punishment will fit your crime."

The first thing I had him do was turn away from Me, get on all fours and spank his bottom. "This is what you wanted to do to those ladies, isn't it slave?" I taunted while he was delivering mighty spanks to his quivering cheeks. "You wanted to do this. It's about time you got a taste of your own medicine." During the spanking, his webcam was moving, and his bottom was getting further and further out of view. That would not do at all. So, he was made to adjust his webcam properly and given a further 10 spanks for that. Before long, that once pale bottom was bright red and smarting, thoroughly sore and thoroughly punished.

After he had received his spanking, I made him turn around and face Me, placing his hands on his head. "Were you rude to these ladies?" I asked him. "Did you call them names?" "Yes Mistress," he admitted solemnly. "Then you will tell Me the names you called them," I demanded of him.

The first name he came out with was the word "slut". "Slave will tell Mistress that he is a slut." He repeated this, whilst confessing the rest of the names he had used. "Tell Mistress you are a cum bucket," was My next demand. He was made to become each and every word he has used, whilst he flushed and squirmed with shame.

"Now you mentioned that you wanted to fuck these ladies," I accused. "In where did you want to fuck them?"

"In their bottoms, Mistress," he admitted.

"Well then you shall receive the same," I informed him.

He was made to get on all fours again, and lube up his ass. Starting with two fingers, I had him fuck himself hard and rough, just the way he had wanted to fuck those ladies. "Now three fingers!" I ordered. "I want you to really feel the treatment you wanted to inflict on another." Sure enough, three fingers disappeared up his ass, and he was moaning in both pleasure and pain. "I'm so tight Mistress," he gasped. "It's starting to hurt a little." "Good!" I sneered. "Because you need to feel what they would have felt! Now moan like a little bitch for Me. That is what you are."

Sure enough he complied, gasping and squealing to My delight. "I'm such a whore Mistress," he squealed. "Oh yeah, fuck my whore hole harder! I need it so hard Mistress. I need to be a dirty little slut for you!" He fucked himself so good until I permitted him to stop, making him turn around and place his hands on his head again.

"Did you want to squirt your load on their faces?" I asked. "Yes Mistress," was the now very meek reply. "Then you will experience the same," I told him.

So, he got on his back, rolling his knees over his head, and placing his feet on the wall. As he masturbated hard, I had him tell Me WHY he should never forget his place. "I am a worthless slave, Mistress", he gasped. "I need to remember My place. My pathetic flap of skin is not worthy of any Woman. I will treat Women with respect at all times, because I am inferior to them. I will worship Women rather than abuse them. It is only I who deserves to be abused."

He came hard, sticking out his tongue, to taste his filth; ensuring he swallowed every last drop.

"Now turn around, hands on your head and face Me." I told him, to which he complied.

"You will remember this punishment," I instructed. "You will remember your place. Because if you don't, it will not be your fingers fucking you. It will be the biggest dildo you have ever seen. And I shall enjoy watching you ram it up yourself - after you have rammed it down your throat. Do you understand?"

"Yes Mistress," he responded.

"Then be gone" I told him. "I don't want to see that kind of behaviour from a disgusting little maggot again."

Slave was well and truly punished - and after receiving a taste of his own medicine, would not forget his place again.

Wanker Gets Indirect Standing Ovation.

I had to laugh during a cam session today. One of My regular slaves decided to book a "Heads or Tails" session with Me via Skype and unbeknown to him, would be applauded.

You see, in My temporary home, I actually live opposite a church. And this very afternoon, there was an wedding going on. So, half-way through the session, the Bride and Groom exited the church along with their guests. Slave did wonder what all the laughing and cheering was about, so I explained to him what was going on.

So Heads or Tails began and at first, the game of chance was against him - he had to wait a whole three tosses of the coin before he was allowed to masturbate - highly frustrating. Well that's the nature of Heads or Tails - and one of the reasons why I enjoy playing it!

When his luck finally began to turn around, he was masturbating harder and faster, struggling to hold back, until the tenth and deciding toss. And it was on his side; the coin landing on "heads". I ordered him to cum, and honestly, it couldn't have happened at a better time. The moment his little dicklet began to spurt; the wedding party across the street began to cheer - an obvious sign that confetti was being thrown at the happy couple.

"You're getting cheers and applause, slave!" I joked as he came hard and it was rather fun to see his face scrunched up in pleasure and humour at the same time. Talk about perfect timing! 

Power Does Not Bare All....

A genuine submissive knows and understands why Mistress doesn't get naked. He respects this and has a full understanding of what it means.

And yet for some "submissives" (I used the term very loosely here), the penny still hasn't dropped...

There are good reasons why Mistress doesn't bare Her flesh to Her subs; and it has nothing to do with being prude or feeling that I have a need to hide Myself away.

The fact is, Mistress is like the crown jewels; you can see them, but you can't touch them. And you can't get in close. The jewels are shielded by tough glass. You want it - but you can't have it.

The same goes for My body. While I wear revealing outfits, which give a sense of what is underneath; what you really want remains covered - and it always will. Mistress is above you; She is powerful, and She doesn't need to bare Her flesh to prove that power. Her power comes from the mind; the biggest erogenous zone in the human body.

From a submissive point of view; when we are naked, we are showing our vulnerabilities. Our bodies are on display - we have absolutely nothing to hide. Have you ever had a dream where you are naked in public? Remember the shame of that? That is what it is like for a submissive. Secondly, being naked when your Owner is fully clothed is very erotic to somebody with a submissive nature. It reinforces the power, and the status of the Owner. Mistress remains covered up, while Her slave is stripped of any "protection". It reinforces a slave's vulnerability, thus rendering him completely powerless and at the will of another. It heightens the sense that he has given up control to his Owner. When Mistress instructs you to peel away your clothes, this is actually a metaphor - She also wants you to peel away the layers that cover your soul. She is telling you to give yourself to Her completely, shielding nothing away from Her eyes.

In My time, I have seem a few "Dommes" getting naked and even playing with themselves for the entertainment of their Slaves. That again doesn't happen in My sessions. Why would I want to share My sexuality with somebody under My command? Why would I be naked and masturbating, thus bringing Myself down to the level of My slave? If both slave and Myself are naked and mutually masturbating, then we are equal. But in a Domme/sub relationship, there is no equality - one is the Controller whilst the other is controlled.

During My Ass Worship sessions, I still remain clothed. Yes, if I feel the slave is worthy; I will strip down to My thong - but that is it. What slave really wants remains covered by a tiny piece of material. I know exactly what he wants - he wants to see what he truly wishes to worship. But by denying him of that, I am adding to the excitement. He has to IMAGINE what it would be like to see it - using his mind to add to his excitement. He knows that Mistress teasing him but denying him at the same time. I can make him beg for it - but I will never give in. This always leaves slave wanting more.

To Me; dominating My slaves is not about sexual gratification - and I hate to burst the bubble for the un-enlightened subs out there, but sex as far as I'm concerned, doesn't come into it. Yes, I may get excited when watching a slave ride a dildo for Me. But to Me, as far as slave is concerned; it is a psychological power-trip. Slave is doing as he's told. I'm demonstrating My power and control over him. He knows he has to do whatever I tell him, and he does it. It's that I enjoy most of all - the fact that I am in full control of another.

I have boys who say they want to fuck Me. A true submissive knows first an foremost NEVER to say such a ridiculous thing. Why would Mistress fuck somebody who is not Her equal? Why would Mistress give Herself to Her slave, and satisfy his own selfish needs? Remember; serving a Dominatrix is not about you. It is about the Dominatrix. If you're not worthy of being Mistress' equal - you can bet your life you'll NEVER be worthy of sharing something so intimate as having sex with Her.

The Domme/sub relationship is always very complex. Two people entering into an agreement; both having different agendas. Mistress has Her agenda - to make you submit and obey. Slave has his agenda - to receive the sexual gratification he craves. But very quickly that agenda is forgotten, and he serves to the agenda of his Mistress. Only when he has thoroughly pleased Mistress will his agenda be remember....