SUNDAY SERVICES AT THE SADISTIC CHURCH OF MISTRESS CRISTAL

Have you been a bad, bad boy? Been having impure thoughts? Can't leave your pathetic little worm alone? Then you need to get to your knees and crawl into My Church.

There are no hymns to be sung; but I will find ways to make you hit those high notes. The collection plate collects balls; not money. And kneeling is NOT optional.

My feet are your altar, My strap on is your communion bread and your tears will be the communion wine. The wine will be spilt.

There is no prayer which will ease your suffering. The only God in My church is Me. You'd better believe I will strike down in great vengeance for your sins. I am God and Satan combined. When you enter My Church; you enter the deepest pits of Hell. Confession is the only way you can ever hope to atone for your sins and penance is the only way to receive absolution.

It is through severe retribution that you will be once again returned to the path of complete obedience & submission. For I am God and you must fear Me.

Sinful Sunday services are available EVERY Sunday 12.30pm until 4.30pm. Attendance is via Skype; with webcam and audio. To book; click on the link below:

SINFUL SUNDAY SKYPE SESSION

New Chastity Sentence For Chastity Sub

This is to certify that Chastity Sub will spend 

40 DAYS

in chastity from today:

Friday 13 January 2017.

Proposed release date is:

Wednesday 22 February 2017.

Chastity sub will serve the ENTIRE sentence without parole. Days will be added for unacceptable behaviour. 

Dommes: Do your subs a favour - TALK TO THEM!

Yesterday; I took a very interesting call from a sub who had dabbled in real-time Domination in the past; but was having a real struggle finding the right Domme for him.

This particular sub is very introvert and was having a hard time in the scene. He'd served several Dommes before but had found that they had in the past made assumptions about his particular tastes. This led to various experiences being less than pleasant for him and has in turn; left him very disillusioned about the scene.

One such example was when he explained to a Domme he enjoyed spitting. And so this Domme indulged him - but what she did was spit in his mouth. He didn't enjoy that and in fact found himself in the bathroom after the session, emptying his guts of not only the Domme's spit but everything he'd had for lunch. Said Domme was less than impressed that he'd "had the nerve to throw up in her bathroom."

Was the sub to blame? Absolutely not! It was down to the Domme to learn the boundaries when it came to this particular fetish. He felt fearful of saying "but I don't like to have my mouth spat in" because he was concerned the Domme in question would not want to see him. So instead; he put his trust in her that she would dig deeper and work out that spitting in his mouth was a no-go area.

Second came a session where he'd experienced electrics. And this particular Domme had used electrics in the chest area. While she had indeed asked him if he had any heart problems; he blindly went ahead with the session. It was only afterwards that he learned how dangerous it is to use electrics anywhere near the heart - heart problems or not. Did he tell said Domme about her error? No - he didn't want to offend her.

This has left him in quite a pickle. He  now is interested in seeing a Domme who specialises in mummification, sensory deprivation and dollification. On her questionnaire, she asks; "do you suffer from claustrophobia?" For sub, short answer is "yes" long answer is "yes but only a little." Yet he's concerned again - if he tells said Domme he does suffer from mild claustrophobia, he worries that she won't want to see him. But then if he lies and says he doesn't; then he risks putting them BOTH in a difficult situation.

Needless to say; both of these previous experiences have given his confidence a severe knock-back and now left him fearful of where to take his fetish further. He's still learning about his fetishes. And this is true for many subs who haven't had that much experiences. While they might have an idea of what turns them on; it is highly likely there will be things they've never even thought about which appeal to them. And it's down to a Domme to work that out.

The lesson here is that all the responsibility doesn't fall to the sub. Dommes have to be held to account for responsibility as well. You should NEVER assume what a sub wants. And even if you have discussed his fetishes with him; you should never assume on how far the sub is comfortable in going. And you should NEVER practice unsafe methods. SAFE, SANE CONSENSUAL PLAY - EVERY TIME. To the Domme who did use electrics near sub's heart - you should be ashamed of yourself for failing in basic safety methods.

BDSM and Fetish is not an exact science. Like no two Dommes are the same. neither are no two subs the same. And to that end; Dommes need to be both more approachable and more flexible in their interaction with new subs. Remember; these clients are putting their trust in you - 100%. It is YOUR responsibility to see that they don't come to any harm, be it physically or psychologically and that they get something positive from the session. A bad session will definitely leave more than bad taste in the mouth of a submissive. It may be a business to you, but it should still be fun for both parties. If it's not fun, it's not going to be good.

It also reflects on you as a Domme. Have you dug deep to work out what your sub wants? Have you discussed comfort zones? Have you gotten to know your subs in a preliminary informal chat? Do you think of your sub or do you think of how much money said sub is going to pay you? If it's the latter; then you're in the wrong business.

Of course the multitude of "insta dommes" creeping on to the scene doesn't help. Sadly; many subs fall victim to these scam artists. They pay their money in the hope they will get a positive experience, only to be let down when they realise this "Domme" knows nothing about the scene and knows even less about said sub. Is it any wonder Financial Domination gets such a bad rap when few really know what it entails?

I don't take any sub at face value. It is important to remember that although in laymen's terms; a session with a Domme is a business transaction, it does indeed go much further. You are starting a professional relationship. And like any relationship, communication and trust is absolutely paramount. How can you engage in any form of relationship if you don't communicate with each other? It's not as simple as getting a sub to tell you what he's into and then taking his money. You have to take off your Domme hat momentarily and put yourself in the shoes of the sub. It's called empathy. Any Domme who refuses to open her mind and think about things from her sub's point of view is doing the scene a great disservice.

But from a sub's point of view; while you should be able to have clear communication with a Domme, in order to establish that D/s relationship, that doesn't mean you have the right to waste her time. Keep communication non-hardcore. DON'T ask for "examples" or "free tasters." Free-loading is not going to convince a Domme that you are the right sub for her. And I believe that is another problem within the scene. It is also the main reason why Dommes feel less inclined to keep the lines of communication open. Time-wasters have taken the piss and Dommes aren't prepared to fall victim to it again.

My subs don't instantly get to jump into a session. Indeed; I expect them to prove themselves first. This is not just to work out if they're going to waste My time or not, but also to see their interaction with Me and indeed My other subs. I find I learn an awful lot more from just observing them. Remember; some subs will actually be quite nervous about saying what they really want, for fear of being judged. They may also be like the sub I spoke to yesterday - very, very shy. They are only human beings at the end of the day. And that's why I observe and learn about them. When both sides have grown comfortable; then it's time to start having a session, but only once I've made sure I know what sub is and isn't comfortable with. 

My advice to any new sub or indeed Domme coming on the scene is this. Learn. Learn about yourself, your sub, your scene, and your practises. Don't instantly wake up and say; "right I'm going to be a Domme!", build a website and expect the subs to come flocking. Work out what you expect from your sub and what your sub can expect from you. BE HUMAN! It's a two-way street. If you're only prepared to go one way - then you're doomed to fail and in turn, you will fail every single sub who finally plucks up the courage to approach you. 

Sinful Sunday - CONFESSION & WORSHIP.

Sinful Sundays are all about confession and worship! You will visit My Church; get to your knees and confess all of your disgusting sins of the week. Clearly you disgusting boys will have many things to get off your chest, and I want to hear every single sordid detail.

Not only will you confess, but you will also beg for My forgiveness. Of course forgiveness doesn't come easy. You must repent for your sins and the only way you can truly repent, is by suffering whatever suitable punishment I choose for you. Such punishment WILL be hard whether it be physical or psychological, but suffer you must! Don't ever think I will be merciful on you. The word "mercy" does not feature in My vocabulary. I will only believe you are truly sorry for your sins when I see evidence of it - and you have a long way to go in order to demonstrate that.

And then after confession and repentance, comes WORSHIP! No of course mortals like you don't get to worship My Superior body. My body is NOT for you. It is a deity which is only for those who are worthy - you aren't and never will be. But My feet are heels are where you will direct your worship - the lowest part of My body for the lowest of the low.

Should I decide you are not even worthy of that little delicacy; then I will find another way for you to worship Me - FINANCIALLY! Every church passes around a collection box, and Mine is no different. The only difference is that Mine is not a "voluntary" collection. If I decide you must pay; then you will pay - no questions asked. What I choose to spend your money on is for Me to know. All you need to be aware of is that My forgiveness comes at a price - physical, psychological and financial. 

There are no "Hail Marys" in My Church. And no, this Goddess does not forgive all. I am not the gentle, loving God you have read about. I'm the God who will not hesitate to unleash My wrath should you displease Me. Remember that!

Book your place in the Sinful Sunday Confessional by sending Me an email at the address below. Sessions are carried out via Skype and audio is included. My Church is open to all sinners - others will be tolerated. Confessional begins at 1pm and ends at 5pm. Start crawling!

mistresscristal@mail.com

Chastity Sub's most intense session yet...

A recently torture session left Chastity Sub with some long-lasting effects. I always like to ensure he knows who's in charge....

"Before Fridays session with Mistress Cristal She had instructed me before it to harvest some nettles in preparation. When I arrived at the session I was in my slave position 1 kneeling naked wearing only my slave collar. It was amazing when the session started to have the honour of hearing Mistresses voice making it fantastic. Mistress asked me how the weeks tease and denial had been going and I informed Her that it had been very frustrating and torturous. Mistress has me on 3 hours a day teasing using a vibrating cock ring, vibrating butt plug and an intense vibrating wand. In the whole 3 hours I am on edge all the time from the vibrations feeling desperate to cum but knowing I am instructed never to cum from it. The vibrations on my cock and ass keep me constantly on edge and with the excitement I am leaking pre cum which I have to collect every drop in a brandy glass. Mistress Cristal asked me about that I had been viewing her clips and pictures. I informed her that I had and how brilliant and fantastic they are. I view them during my teasing which makes the teasing far more frustrating as it makes me more excited and desperate to cum. I would recommend them to anyone as they are fantastic. In some of the clips Mistress Cristal gives instruction on cumming but as I am under orders never to cum without her express permission I can only leak pre cum into the glass at those parts making it even more frustrating seeing Mistress mentioning about cumming but knowing it is not for me. I am still under probation from my chastity sentence until September which means if I cum without Mistress Cristal’s express permission then I will be put back in chastity. Mistress has taught me well that I may now never cum unless she has permitted it personally no matter how desperate and ready I am to. This is all for Mistress Cristal’s pleasure and it is good to see that my torture, frustration and desperation pleases Her a lot.

My cock which now belongs to Mistress Cristal was hard when the session started. Mistress Cristal informed me that Her cock should behave like a court room when a judge enters when I enter a session with Her in that a court room stands to attention when the judge enters and Her cock should always stand to attention in Her presence. Mistress at first was pleased that Her cock was standing to attention but unfortunately was less pleased when it started to droop a little. Mistress informed me that she will teach it a lesson so it learns to always be hard in Her presence. I then had to endure 2 minutes of hard slaps from a wooden spoon making Her cock bounce around from each slap. The head of Her cock was next to endure 2 minutes of hard slaps from the spoon followed by my balls. My balls were still a bit bruised and tender from the last session and felt the pain more this time. Mistress asked me what my pain rating was after this and when I informed her that it was 10 She said it was not good enough and I had to do better so I then had to replace the spoon with a leather belt and Mistress told me that as my balls were already so sore and tender that I was to start with them. I then had to endure 2 minutes of whipping which felt really painful, then whipping the head of the cock for 2 minutes followed by the shaft. When Mistress asked me what the pain rating had gone to I informed her that it was now at 20 and She said it was heading in the right direction but still not good enough.

Mistress then instructed me to put bulldog clips all over my cock and I fitted 20 clips onto it. As they are all over I can only feel biting all over my cock. Mistress then instructed me to put the industrial clamps onto my balls and as they still hadn’t recovered from the last session fully the pain was excruciating and Mistress was very kind to allow me to remove them to allow my balls to recover but she informed me that due to this She would have to focus the attention and torture on Her cock instead.

I had to put the clamps onto my nipples instead. The biting of the clamps is so intense and brings pain straight away. I could feel tears starting from the pain of only feeling biting all over my cock and nipples. I then had to get into slave position 2 which is standing with my hands on my head. Mistress then informed me that it was time for some exercise. I had to start with a minute of jogging on the spot which made my cock bounce up and down forcing all the clips to jiggle and tug and bite harder and the weight of the clamps made them swing up and down making the biting feel so much harsher as they tugged on my nipples. I then had to do 20 squats which made the clips and clamps bounce up and down biting harder and harder. Then I had to do 20 lunges with the left leg and 20 with the right making the clips and clamps swing side to side. This was followed by another minute of jogging on the spot making the clips and clamps bounce harder. Then I had to perform the can can for a minute which feels very humiliating especially when you can see Mistress laughing at the predicament and the bouncing up and down and swinging and kicking of the legs make the clips and clamps bounce all over the place making the biting  and tugging even more excruciating. This was finished with a minute of pogo jumping which as it makes my cock and the clamps on my nipples swing up and down harsh and fast really makes the clips and clamps bite and tug harshly making them feel like they are trying to be tugged away stretching my cock and nipples. The pain is excruciating and really bought tears to my eyes but I could see how much it was pleasing and amusing Mistress adding more humiliation. Mistress informed me that perhaps I should have been wearing a gag in case the screams of pain worried the neighbours and the called the police. Mistress said how humiliating it would be for me to have to explain to the police that the screams were from me torturing myself for the pleasure of Mistress. The pain scale had shot right up to 120.

I then had to get back into slave position 1 and was allowed to remove the clips but the relief was only short lived as Mistress made me get the pin wheel and wheel it all over the cock were the indentations left by the clips were. As my cock had been made so tender from the tugging and biting from the clips it made the pins feel so much sharper as if they were going deep inside bringing more tears to my eyes. This made the pain scale 140. I was then allowed permission to remove the clamps from my nipples which feels as painful as putting them on as the blood rushes to them from having escaped from the harsh confines but once removed it feels so much better than having them on. The relief was short lived as the pin wheel was run all over my nipples into the deep indentations which made the pins feel so much sharper and the pain was more excruciating and bought far more tears to my eyes. The pain scale rose to 180 from this.

A candle was then lit and hot wax dripped all over my cock and nipples. As they were already sore and very tender the wax was made to feel molten hot as it hit. Once the wax had set I then had permission to remove it using the leather belt. To properly remove all the wax the belt has to whip really hard and was far more painful than it was at the beginning of the session as my cock and nipples had been made more sensitive and tender. It took a lot of whipping to remove the wax from the nipples and they had turned very red and I could see the pleasure and amusement it was giving Mistress who informed me that they were looking like 2 stop signs adding to the humiliation. The pain scale had shot up to 200.

There was no relief from the pain and torture yet as Mistress Cristal instructed me to grab a handful of nettles and rub them over every inch of Her cock. As Mistress had informed me that due to the recent hot weather this had made the nettles more vicious. The stinging from the nettles was agony and I knew I would be feeling it for a very long time. Following this I then had to paint a generous amount of wasabi paste onto my nipples which were very sore and tender which made the wasabi feel far hotter and my nipples felt like they were in a furnace. The pain scale had gone up to 300 as all I could feel was stinging and pain in my cock and heat and pain on my nipples.

Mistress asked me how horny I was and I begged for Her permission to be allowed to wank and cum. Mistress gave me permission but only with wearing the spiked cock sheath. The wanking was by no means pleasurable as it made the spikes dig in deep all around my cock making the stinging worse as well. So as I was wanking all I could feel was scratching, stinging and pain in my cock rather than pleasure at the same time also feeling pain and heat on my nipples. It has been a month since I had permission for a pleasurable wank as they have all been wearing the spiked cock sheath and this was the most painful and uncomfortable due to stinging and heat being added to the scratching pins. Despite all the pain and discomfort I felt ready to cum and begged Mistress for permission to cum as I know I am only allowed to if She says I can no matter how desperate I am to. Mistress gave Her permission for me to cum into the glass with the pre cum which despite all the pain and discomfort I was in was very intense. Mistress then instructed me to drink all my cum and pre cum and I thanked her for allowing me to drink and clean up all my mess. The taste of a glass of cum and pre cum is not the best but I know that all my mess must always be consumed to clean it up and Mistress has informed me that she will teach it for it to become my favourite tipple. All the pain, discomfort and humiliation is to please Mistress Cristal and it is good to know that it pleases and amuses Her and I know I have to obey any instruction, no matter what it is or how painful or uncomfortable or humiliating it is, without question to please Her.

This was the most intense session I have endured for Mistress Cristal and She informed me that She intends to toughen me up by pushing me further for Her pleasure which sounds very daunting. I will be feeling the effects from this session for many days. Mistress Cristal has also increased my tease and denial to 3 and a half hours each day which will be far more torturous and frustrating to endure."

And since this session; I have decided that 3 and a half hours is not enough...he now must tease for 4 hours. This is what happens when you inform a sadist that the extra half hour is torturous....

What is Forced Intoxication?

Forced intoxication is the art of having a slave become intoxicated via various substances and then exploiting his intoxication by various humiliating and degrading means. It is something I regularly explore with submissives and often; I like to couple this with some intense humiliation and anal play.

Intoxication is usually via poppers (alkyl nitrites) but can also be via alcohol; the former being the most popular. Other substances can be used; but I generally stick to the above. Of course I don't engage in play with any illegal substances - that's for idiots.

In the case of poppers; slave is instructed to sniff under My direction. Alternatively; vapour (not the liquid itself) can be collected on two slim tampons and inserted into the nostrils to deliver a constant supply of vapour; meaning slave is intoxicated quicker and over a prolonged period of time. The effect is that the user experiences a "high" and this can enhance sexual pleasure. It can also aid relaxation of the anal sphincter which is particularly useful in anal play. Poppers have been known to provide longer and more intense orgasms and heighten sexual pleasure. Many subs have indeed reported stronger erections when using poppers.

Poppers are a liquid substance stored in a small bottle and contain a group of chemicals known as alkyl nitrites. Specifically; alkly nitrates include butyl nitrite, isopropyl nitrite and amyl nitrites. They work by dilating the blood vessels and allowing more blood to get to the heart. They are sniffed from the bottle or via something dipped into the tip of the bottle. In the past; they were used medically to treat angina (chest pain caused by reduced blood flow to the heart) and came in small capsules which were popped open and sniffed - hence the term "poppers." They are not controlled by the Misuse of Drugs act 1971. Possession of poppers is legal in the UK; but may not be so in other countries. You should check the laws of your country before using.

The use of poppers is very popular among My submissives but it is certainly not without it's risks. Poppers should NEVER be used in the case of somebody with heart, lung or blood pressure problems as this can be fatal. That is why I will always check the health history of any sub who wishes to explore this for the first time. In addition; it is important that poppers do not come into direct contact with the skin; as this can cause painful chemical burns; particularly underneath the nostrils. Any spillage on the skin should be immediately be washed off with soap and water. You should also avoid using poppers if you are taking any erectile medicines such as viagra; as they can cause a sharp drop in blood pressure. And absolutely NEVER mix poppers with alcohol as this may lead to unconsciousness and even death through choking on vomit.

Alcohol is generally a safer method of intoxication and this can be coupled with humiliating drinking games. I also like to have a slave use a straw to consume the alcohol as this reduces oxygen intake, thus creating a vacuum. In addition; people generally drink faster when drinking through a straw so ingest larger quantities of alcohol in a shorter period of time; meaning they become intoxicated faster.

Again; this method is not without it's risks and it is important that the submissive has a lining on their stomach before exploring. Spirits should NEVER be mixed to avoid the danger of alcohol poisoning. The trick of forced intoxication is to enable a sub to relax and become compliant; NOT to have them completely intoxicated to the point of passing out. In short; tipsy is good - paralytic is not.

The beauty of forced intoxication is that once a slave is sufficiently relaxed; they will often let down their guard and are therefore more pliable. You will find they will do things that under normal circumstances; would mortify them. Alcohol and indeed any form of intoxication gives a person that false sense of confidence. They feel they are superhuman and free from any responsibility their actions may cause. Judgement is somewhat impaired; meaning you are 100% responsible for the submissive and their welfare. Forced intoxication sessions are intense and it is important that you don't take that level of responsibility lightly.

That said; it doesn't mean you can't have a bit of fun during the session. I have been known to have a sub dress up as a sissy and take a walk to the shops to purchase feminine products - and shoot video in the process. Of maybe; I'll have them make a video confession of their kinkiest, darkest secrets. The results of that are very entertaining; especially when they view said video in the cold light of day - after I've shared it online of course... The list is endless. Fully compliant under the influence; they will obey every single humiliating command because they feel they are invincible...until the effects of intoxication wear off.

That's when the real squirming begins. The horrifying realisation that yes you do did actually do something deeply embarrassing AND it has been shared on the internet for all to see. Or maybe the throbbing sting of your anus is testament to the fact that FINALLY; you did take that huge dildo you've been struggling with AND you enjoyed it! Or maybe it's the financial reality. You were so off your face; you just kept those tributes coming...and your bank account is now looking less than healthy.

That's the thing about forced intoxication. It's very much a psychological fetish; just like many fetishes are. And it's the ULTIMATE form of giving up control; given that you're so high or drunk you don't care about the consequences - until you're sober. Nevertheless; the effects are long-lasting both for sub and Mistress as long as it's done safely. Hours of entertainment for Me...hours of squirming for sub...

What makes a true submissive?

As I've mentioned before; the reason I only have a handful of owned submissives under My wing is because I take QUALITY over quantity. I have very high expectations and I expect My slaves to strive hard to meet them. Sadly; only a small percentage will last that distance and that small percentage are among the elite - those of whom are able to prove themselves worthy of My precious attention.

Anybody can type out an email and approach a Dominatrix with the intention of serving Her. But it's the thought and effort which goes into that email and indeed beyond; which makes a HUGE difference between gaining Her attention and finding themselves being ignored. "Surely it's just a case of doing as you're told" is a common misconception among many "would be" submissives. In truth it is far more complex than that. Obeying orders is just one small part of the whole dynamic of a D/s relationship and true servitude comes from within.

So what does make a good slave?

Let's talk about submission as a starting point. The fact is; submission is either given or it isn't. And when it is given; it's given in its entirety. No Dominatrix I know of will take on somebody who is only "a little bit" submissive. You either are or you aren't. And if you fall into the unsure category; then perhaps you're not ready to take the plunge into a D/s relationship until you have established what you really are.

By definition; to "submit" is to surrender all free will and give up control to another. And that control is absolute and extends far beyond the physical sense. The "controlled" should expect to have every single aspect of his life controlled for him - his thought patterns; his priorities, his day to day life; sometimes even his diet, his relationships, his wants and his needs and sometimes even his finances. And it is for this very reason why submission cannot be given at only half-measures. And on both sides of the coin; it is not to be undertaken by those who are only mildly curious. Just as giving up control comes with a certain amount of responsibility; taking control comes with a huge amount of responsibility.

As a Dominatrix; I am totally responsible for My slaves and not just their obedience. I am responsible for their physical, mental and emotional well-being. It is so very important not to lose sight of the fact that they are also human beings, Taking control of a slave is not as simple as say training a new puppy. Human beings by nature are far more complex than that and their psyche is often very very fragile. Respect and trust are the most important aspects of a D/s relationship. The submissive respects and trusts in you to keep them safe from any real harm. And you must respect their boundaries and weaknesses. You must also trust in them to be honest.

A true submissive will always put the needs of his Superiors above his own. Indeed; they understand that their needs are not important. That's not to say that they are robots who will willingly obey every command you give. Submission is more than that. It is a state of mind and will come easily to those who are genuinely submissive.

So from the word go; in that first point of contact with a Dominatrix; and before you even start taping out that application email; you need to ask yourself one very important question. "Why should I be considered?" To put things into perspective; I receive countless applications on a weekly basis. 90% of those applications are ignored. Why? Because they lack standards, care, effort and above all; selflessness. So think about the applications that fail to make the grade and consider why yours should stand out from the rest. What are you going to do to encourage said Dominatrix to actually READ your email? And how do you intend to illicit a positive response from Her? As a hint; "wrITing lYke Dis" is rude and unhelpful and will find itself in the bin....Don't rely on the spell-check either. There is no substitute for proof-reading to ensure good spelling and grammar.

Then comes the actual journey of servitude. Ask yourself this; "do you care more about what you get out of it or what your Mistress gets out of it?" Now this might seem an easy question to answer at first. But look at it again and consider another fact. If Mistress chooses to deny you any pleasure for an indeterminate period of time; will you consider yourself lucky or hard done to? If it's the latter; then servitude is not for you. If you understand that your frustration entertains Her and puts a smile on Her face; then your head is starting to get in the right place. And don't think you can fake your way through this process either. A good Dominatrix can spot that a mile off and it will quickly put a rather abrupt end to your journey.

Are you prepared to do whatever Mistress demands of you? If your answer starts with "yes but only if..." don't even continue that sentence. In fact; don't even continue reading. A true submissive realises that his servitude is not open for negotiation. He doesn't do what Mistress commands because he wants to. He does it because his Mistress is making him. That's not to say that Mistress will totally ignore your limits. These limits or "no go" areas are agreed upon before servitude begins. It is also mutual and...here's that important word again..RESPECTED. Mistress doesn't breach your limits on the understanding that you don't breach Hers. Respect is a two-way street.

And finally; is your selflessness "outside the box"? Are you intuitive in how you can further please your Mistress? Have you paid enough attention to Her to understand how best to please Her? Now this is something which separates the wheat from the chaff. A true submissive has the initiative to go above and beyond not because he wants something out of it; but because he receives real pleasure from the knowledge he has pleased his Mistress. And he comes up with more creative and SELFLESS ways to do this. Everything he does is with his Mistress in mind. And because it's with Mistress is mind; he always seeks Her permission before he does it. Making assumptions is the worst thing a sub and in fact a Domme can do. NEVER ASSUME. Just like every submissive is different; so is every Dominatrix. And we Dommes are VERY unpredictable. We make it our mission to be unpredictable - that's how we keep you chomping at the bit to continue pleasing us. The steps are simple - think, ask and act accordingly. And accept when Mistress says "no". Boys who whine and complain are not submissive. They're needy and they're selfish. I personally don't give the time of day to needy boys. I prefer boys who respect the word "no" as My final answer. Neither should a submissive expect Mistress to back up Her decision with a reason. The answer is simply; "because She has said so."

Domination & Responsibility.

It doesn't matter if you're a real-time or an online Dominatrix. If you are practising the art of BDSM; it comes with an immense amount of responsibility. And that responsibility is about ensuring your slave is always safe. You must always remember; that your slave is putting his trust in you 100%. When they submit to you; they give up complete control and trust that while you will control their life, mind, body and soul; you will also ensure that they will never come to any harm.

This responsibility begins from the word go; not just during a session. It is so very important to do a full health screening of your slave. You need to ensure you have a comprehensive background of your slave's health and well-being. Not doing so risks serious injury to your slave; or worse. This is one of the few things you DO owe your slave.

When I take on a new slave; they have to fill out an application questionnaire. There is no way around this. They provide answers on their likes and dislikes; experience, limits (another VERY important factor!) and of course their health. And you need to ensure you know EVERYTHING. That is why; if a slave should be successful in the process; they are then subjected to an online interview via text chat. I will ask them details of any illness or conditions they have; any surgeries; any history of medical complications; any dietary requirements; and of course; a complete list of any medication they are taking.

Some slaves have actually been quite surprised at Me asking such questions. They have even gone so far as to consider it "intrusive". It is then that I remind them it is for THEIR safety. You must provide some care for your sub - every time you play with them.

Another reason it is important to find out these things is for the BDSM techniques you intend to use. For example; the use of electrics on a slave with a heart condition is asking for trouble. Just like the use of poppers on a slave with heart, lung or blood-pressure problems is also very dangerous. If you have a slave with diabetes; you would definitely not do a forced-intox session involving alcohol - that'll put them at serious risk of a diabetic coma.

So as you can see; there's a lot more to being a Dominatrix than making your slave do naughty things. It's a title you earn - by taking care of your slave - before, during and AFTER session - every single time! 

Back in the saddle!

You will be pleased to know that after a birthday and an eye infection; Mistress is now back in the saddle and operating at full throttle. My cough has cleared and My eye is back to it's normal beautiful self. This means that I am more than ready to remind you of who wears the trousers - little hint - it isn't you.

I will be back on webcam today from 1pm and taking skype bookings right up until 5pm. I shall also be opening My Niteflirt lines for those of you who crave some phone domination. I shall also be reviewing a few completed email assignments over the next few days. Let's hope for your sake; they make the grade....severe punishments are in order for those which don't!

UPDATE: MONDAY 4 JANUARY

Due to unforeseen circumstances; I will be offering instant messenger, Direct IM (AdultWork), one way cam and kik session only today. I hope to be back on cam as normal from Thursday.

Prices for these sessions are as follows:

Instant Messenger - £0.50 per min

One way cam (your cam) - £0.75 per min

Kik - £5 for 10 mins 

Direct IM - available via My AdultWork Profile

For Instant Messenger, one way and Kik, minimum booking length is 10 mins. Sessions are available via email request to;

mistresscristal@mail.com 

Chastity Sub Is Back Where He Belongs.

After being allowed to cum on Christmas Day; Chastity Sub is now back where he belongs - locked tightly in his cage.

I might let him cum again on My birthday - that'll be mid-March - assuming I feeling generous that is! 

Foot Lovers Paradise - Skype Foot Worship Sessions.

You will find My feet and My toes impossible to resist. I'm very proud of them and I always like to keep them in tip top condition. My toe nails are always brightly pained and set off My silver toe rings to perfection. And how wonderful it would be to feel My soft toes being pushed into your mouth?

Whether it be via a private booking or via AdultWork; I always conduct My foot worship sessions via Skype. This is because the session is done entirely POV - meaning you are "placed" exactly where you should be - at My feet. 

My feet are at the lowest part of My body - and it is because of that; I encourage foot worship. A lowly slave should always be prepared to worship the lowest part of My body. It is all he is good for.

But don't ever imagine that I will give you this little treat without some effort on your part. Worshipping My Superior claws is both an honour and a privilege and you should always remember that. And because it's an honour and a privilege; you must never take it for granted. Beg Me well; and I will consider allowing you to drool over My pretty little toes. Worship them well; and it won't just be your mouth drooling over them! What would you do to have the opportunity of your cum soaking between My glorious digits? I know your little winky is already throbbing and twitching at the mere thought of it....

I absolutely LOVE foot worship. I adore the thought of a hot, wet, subservient tongue sliding in and out of My toe gaps and along My soft, sexy soles. It really is the most exquisite feeling. Even better is the feeling of total power it gives Me; to see you crouched down; adoring My feet and begging for the pleasure they are more than capable of giving you. Of course before you get that pleasure; you have to earn it...

So are you ready to earn it? Are you ready to give it your all to be at the total control of My Superior feet? Are you ready to lose yourself in their heavenly scent? Come and show Me. Book to worship them via Skype by sending Me at email at the address below. Tell Me why you deserve this honour and I will consider your request. And if you please Me; you'll enjoy seeing My feet at your eye-level on webcam. You'll enjoy being hypnotised by them as you fall deeper and deeper into submission - and learn that your place really is at My feet.

mistresscristal@mail.com

AVAILABILITY WEEK COMMENCING 30 NOVEMBER

I will be available for webcam bookings via Skype on the following days and times. These times are subject to change. To be notified of any such changes; you should follow Me on twitter: +mistress cristal 

MONDAY 30 NOVEMBER - 1PM UNTIL 5PM

TUESDAY 1 DECEMBER - NOT AVAILABLE

WEDNESDAY 2 DECEMBER - NOT AVAILABLE

THURSDAY 3 DECEMBER - 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

FRIDAY 4 DECEMBER - 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

SATURDAY 5 DECEMBER 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

SUNDAY 6 DECEMBER - 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

To book a Skype webcam session; simply email Me at the address below to request:

mistresscristal@mail.com

Black Friday Cam Event!

***OFFER EXTENDED UNTIL MONDAY****

It's Black Friday - and to celebrate; I have a nice little deal for you!

Today only; you may enjoy Skype sessions at the reduced price of £1 per minute. This is valid from 1pm until 5pm so don't let the grass grow! 

Skype sessions include cam to cam and audio; with a minimum booking length of 10 minutes. Bookings are payable via Amazon.co.uk Gift Card ONLY.

Want to experience strict domination at the hands of your Sadistic Domme?

Send your booking request NOW to:

mistresscristal@mail.com

WEBCAM AVAILABILITY WEEK COMMENCING 23 NOVEMBER.

I will be available for webcam sessions via Skype next week, on the following days and times.

MONDAY 23 NOVEMBER - 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

THURSDAY 26 NOVEMBER - 1PM UNTIL 4.45PM.

FRIDAY 27 NOVEMBER - 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

SATURDAY 28 NOVEMBER - 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

SUNDAY 29 NOVEMBER - 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

To book a webcam session during these times, you may email Me at the address below; stating the length of time you wish to book for and what you desire to explore in the session.

mistresscristal@mail.com

When should he cum? YOU DECIDE!

As you can see, chastity sub still hasn't completely filled the WHOLE GLASS with pre-cum. This is over a month of teasing folks! And remember; until he fills the WHOLE GLASS he's not allowed to cum. So here's a little poll for your amusement and his added humiliation.

When do you think he'll be allowed to cum?

Create your own user feedback survey

Cam Time Update.

To say life has been rather stressful in the last fortnight is putting it mildly. This is what happens when your personal life has to be put first - your kinky life takes a back seat.

For the last couple of weeks; I've had a family member very ill and in fact has been in hospital. This family member is still very ill, and although he's now home; the nature of his condition means he should still be in hospital - yet due to NHS cutbacks he is having to suffer and wait for much-needed treatment.

This has unfortunately; has been reflected in My lack of camming time. I have had to nurse him as well as kick some NHS arse for their serious short-comings in his level of care. And as he's not at all well at the moment; he is My priority. As much as I love keeping you boys in line - I also have a private life. And sometimes that life has to receive 100% of My attention - this is one of those times.

But I am just as frustrated as you are that I am unable to appear on cam. In fact; I am DESPERATE to get back to normal. I actually miss you pathetic souls who brighten up My day.

At the moment; I am unable to give a definitive picture as to when I'm going to be available on webcam. But I will give a "hopeful" picture as and when circumstances permit. That said; present circumstances dictate that camming times are subject to change and at a moments notice. But where possible; I will let you all know.

As it stands at the moment; I will be back on webcam this coming Saturday. I will then be back to normal cam hours until 23 September - when I will not be available at all. This is when said family member has a surgical procedure to help his condition. I will have a clear picture of what is going to happen, afterwards.

I would like to thank My loyal subs/fans who have been very understanding at this difficult time. Your support has been greatly appreciated. And for those who have stomped their feet because they can't get their own way - might I suggest you kindly disappear up your own arse? I don't do brats.

AVAILABILITY WEEK COMMENCING 31 AUGUST.

Due to family difficulties, I am changing My cam times this week. I will be available at the following days and times.

MONDAY 31 AUGUST - 12.30PM UNTIL 5PM.

TUESDAY 1 SEPTEMBER - NOT AVAILABLE.

WEDNESDAY 2 SEPTEMBER - 12.30PM UNTIL 5PM

THURSDAY 3 SEPTEMBER - NOT AVAILABLE.

FRIDAY 4 SEPTEMBER - 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

SATURDAY 5 SEPTEMBER - 1PM UNTIL 5PM.

SUNDAY 6 SEPTEMBER 1PM UNTIL 5PM

Note: These times may change but I will endeavour to post on My website if such a change occurs.

Chastity sub is forced to tease....

The best part of putting a sub into chastity is the relentless teasing you inflict on them - and the fact that they have no choice but to endure it.

Armed with his hitachi wand, vibrator and cum-catcher; chastity sub is forced to tease himself for My enjoyment...

And of course I'm not going to let this go by without a cruel twist. He has to continue the teasing until his "leakage" reaches the first marker on the glass...

He's now entering the 3rd week of being in chastity for a month. Of course when the month is up; I might let him cum. Or I could be extra cruel - and continue teasing him until his "leakage" reaches the second marker...how long do you reckon that will take? ;-)

Kinks, Fetishes & Limits - READ & LEARN!

It is a fact that I am regularly asked about the kind of kinks and fetishes I cater for. So in order to answer this question for you; here is a comprehensive list of My kinks AND My hard limits. For your information; hard limits are things I will not discuss/explore under ANY circumstances. You will respect this or you will be dismissed from My world.

KINKS & FETISHES.

SISSY TRAINING

DILDO TRAINING

CORPORAL PUNISHMENT

FOOT WORSHIP

HEEL WORSHIP

FORCED INTOXICATION

CROSS-DRESSING

FORCED FEMINISATION

FORCED BI

COCK & BALL TORTURE

NIPPLE TORTURE

TEASE & DENIAL

FETISH EXPLORATION

DOMINATION ROLE-PLAY

BONDAGE

JERK OFF INSTRUCTION

EDGE PLAY

MUMMIFICATION

JUDICIAL FETISH & PUNISHMENTS

WAX PLAY

HUMILIATION

PUBLIC HUMILIATION

VERBAL ABUSE

SMALL PENIS HUMILIATION

CHASTITY

CUCKOLDRY EXPLORATION

PVC FETISH

LEATHER FETISH

NYLON FETISH 

LATEX FETISH

NAIL FETISH

HAIR FETISH

LIPSTICK FETISH

SLEEP DEPRIVATION

SCHOOL PUNISHMENTS

GAINING FETISH

FINANCIAL FETISH & DOMINATION

FINANCIAL BLACKMAIL FETISH & DOMINATION

CUM EATING INSTRUCTION

CUM IN MOUTH INSTRUCTION

STRAP ON TRAINING/PEGGING

SISSY PIMPING 

BALL BUSTING

SLAVE TRAINING

OBJECTIFICATION

ORGASM DENIAL

RUINED ORGASMS

GODDESS WORSHIP

FORCED EXHIBITIONISM

MEDICAL FETISH

PET TRAINING

IGNORE FETISH

BOOT WORSHIP

HEEL WORSHIP

BREAST WORSHIP

ASS WORSHIP

FEMALE SUPREMACY

ASS PLAY & TRAINING

WATER SPORTS (YOURS)

ADULT BABY (NON SEXUAL)

HARD LIMITS:

SCAT/HARD SPORTS

NON-CONSENT

ANYTHING INVOLVING CHILDREN AND THOSE UNDER 18.

ANYTHING INVOLVING ANIMALS

ANYTHING INVOLVING ILLEGAL DRUGS

BLOOD/PERIOD PLAY

BREATHE PLAY

NEEDLE PLAY

RACE PLAY

RELIGION PLAY

NECROPHILIA

VOMIT SPORTS

FULL NUDITY OF MISTRESS

INCEST

INTIMATE BODY WORSHIP

CUTTING/SCARRING

KNIFE PLAY

The onus is on YOU to ensure that you are fully aware of My kinks and limits BEFORE you approach. That said however; if you wish discuss something which is not on the list; then you are permitted to email Me to enquire. 

MISTRESSCRISTAL@MAIL.COM