When Kink turns to love....

BDSM, Fetish and dominating men is not all about being commanding and authoritative. While a good percentage of the time; yes that certainly is the case. But sometimes, just sometimes; it's about listening and showing empathy.

Take this afternoon for example when I was logged in to take some BDSM/Fetish calls. I had a very long call with an elderly gentleman who until 15 years ago was in a D/s relationship with his wife. She was his Domme and he was Her sub. They enjoyed many activities together including humiliation and cuckholding. But their favourite activity was trampling and ball-busting. And believe Me; from what he was telling Me, his wife was very very good at it. In fact; he still has some scars from the trampling.

He was telling Me all the ways in which they used to play together and even with the wife's boyfriend. And while I was very much enjoying listening to him; it was bitter-sweet.

They had become a couple in the usual way and were very much vanilla until their honeymoon; when his wife admitted she wanted to kick him and trample him. They indulged and that became part of their married life for the next 49 years. Every day, several times a day they indulged. His wife's friends also indulged for his humiliation. His wife's boyfriend indulged for his humiliation. He became a doormat in the physical sense because he enjoyed his trampling fetish and because he adored his wife. He talked about the agony he had experienced at her feet and her heels and how his balls would ache for days on end. But he spoke about it fondly and clearly idolised his wife; as he told Me how beautiful she was and how he would have crawled over hot coals for her; if it made her happy. He never took a single penny from her; even though she went to work. But he gave her everything because he loved her so much and loved how she was just as keen to explore their mutual love of trampling fetish. She enjoyed giving him a bloody good kick - and he enjoyed receiving a bloody good kick. Neither one of them could get through the day unless they had played together - such was the nature of their kinky relationship.

Sadly; their fun came to an end 15 years go when his wife passed away. And as he talked about how much he missed her and their games; I could hear real heart-break in his voice. He had lost his soul-mate; you could just tell. His life was never the same again. He looked at the scars where she had made her mark on him; and they gave him a modicum of comfort. But he missed her; not just as a wife and life partner; but for her sheer cruelty and dominance and for what she meant to his entire life.

The most poignant part of our conversation was that he still has all her heels. He used to take her out shoe-shopping every weekend so that they could chose a nice destructive pair of heels together. She always picked boots which were steel-toe capped because it would deliver a nice blow to his balls. He installed sponge in the shoes so that she would not hurt her feet when she kicked him. And he still has them - in the wardrobe. And whenever he needs to "indulge" he takes out a pair of her heels; worships them, and presses them against his body to imagine it's her trampling him again. "But it's not the same," he told Me sadly. "It's not her doing it, so it's not the same."

I will admit; I had the biggest lump in My throat whilst talking to this sweet gentleman. I really did feel so sorry for him. Yes; I can be a tough bitch when I want to be, but when you cross the path of somebody who has lost the part which completes him; you would have to have a heart of stone not to be touched by it.

Did this gentleman want to get off? No he didn't. He wanted to talk and lament the loss of his beloved wife and Domme. He wanted to express how much he missed her. He wanted to share his fond memories of her with another. He needed somebody to listen and understand how much he absolutely adored this woman - and everything she did to him. And yes; part of him wanted Me to take the place of his wife - just as a form of escapism from his sad reality. Did I pretend to be his wife for the sake of this call? No. And I told him I wouldn't for the simple fact that I didn't want to encroach or sully the memory of what they had together. I think he appreciated that and he said he finally felt alive again for having spoken to Me. For that 40 minutes; he had been taken on a trip down sweet memory lane and I was so thrilled to have taken that journey with him.

Forget gifts and tributes - when you experience a call like this; no amount of money comes close to the sense of pride you have when you realise that you have at least for a little while; put the light back into somebody's life. This gentleman was an absolute delight to talk to; and I'm sure I'll have many more conversations with him in the future. What he had was his wife was special, really special. It was a beautiful, loving, kinky relationship, which came to a sad end. And so dedicated to her was he; he now just doesn't know what to do with himself. He has lost the meaning to his life. Just for a short while; I was able to bring some of it back. And that really did make My day.

Session review from pain-sub

Pain-sub was really put through is paces today. Here's his report of today's session:

I have just had the most intense pain session I have ever had to endure in my life for Mistress pleasure. It took me to learning to endure a lot more pain for her than I have ever felt before.

 

I arrived at the session wearing my chastity cage as I was instructed to keep on unless Mistress permits otherwise. I was then instructed to remove the cage and then hitting myself with the back of a wooden spoon until I was hard enough for Mistress. Once that was achieved I had to then hit my balls to prepare them for the session ahead. Then I had to do the same to my cock head.

 

I had to attach nipple clamps and then hold the chain in my mouth until the session was over. This made the nipples feel like they were being stretched as far as they could go.

 

Once my cock was hard enough and my balls made tender I then had to rub them all over with sandpaper. This made them extremely tender to the touch to intensify any feeling I would get later.

 

I then had to rub tabasco sauce all around my balls and all over my cock. I then had to follow this with rubbing tiger balm into the balls and all around the foreskin. This made my balls and cock extremely hot and I could feel them all the time.

 

There was no rest from the pain as I then had to attach 8 bulldog clips to my balls and thread string through them and then 4 to my foreskin and thread some more string through them. The pain from the clips was intense and with them being a lot of them I could feel it all over my balls and cock especially with them being tender and burning hot. The string on the clips on my balls were then used to pull my balls up. I could feel pain all through them as they were lifted high and held up. Then the same was done with the string on the clips on my foreskin. This made the pain of the clips intensify. I then had to repeat this first lifting the string on my balls high then the wooden spoon was used on the back of my balls. This had the double effect of causing pain to the already tender balls and making the pain on the clips higher as they pulled and jiggled due to the spoon hitting the balls. This was then done on my cock by lifting my cock high by the strings and then the spoon was used to hit the back of my cock hard. This again caused pain to the already tender cock and intensified the pain on the clips as they pulled and jiggled.

 

Mistress then decided I needed some exercise so I had a parachute attached to my balls with weights hanging off them. The exercise consisted of 20 squats, 15 lunges with each leg and 15 star jumps. Throughout the exercise I could feel my balls being stretched as the weights swung vigorously around and my nipples were being stretched further due to each movement causing my mouth to go further away from them tugging harder on the chain.

 

However my suffering was not over and I had the parachute removed and replaced by a ball stretcher which pulled my balls away from my cock making them swell out. I had to stand with my legs parted wide and then a big bunch of nettles was then used to repeatedly whip my cock and balls. This torture seemed to last a long time and was the most painful I have felt from nettle torture. I then had to turn around and the nettles were then used to whip my bottom. I have never suffered this before and could feel the itching all over and the whipping seemed to last a long time too. When this was over I was permitted to sit and could feel my bottom really itching all over. The nettle torture was not over though as I then had a handful of the leaves rubbed all over my cock and balls adding a lot more to the irritation and itching.

 

After prolonged suffering I was permitted to cum however this was only allowed by having to kneel on beer bottle tops spread over the floor facing upwards. The pain from kneeling on the bottle tops was so intense and was the worst I have ever felt and distracted from the pleasure of wanking as well as the pain on my nipples from the clamps being tugged hard by my mouth and the pain on my cock and balls from the session. The pleasure was hard to feel due to the intense pain which was being felt more. When I came it was a heavy mixture of pleasure taken over by pain and I was made to cum into a brandy glass.

 

As soon as I was allowed to cum I was instructed to immediately put the chastity cage back on and told it has to remain unless Mistress says otherwise. This made it impossible to do anything to relieve the constant itching from the nettles intensified by the heat of the tabasco sauce and tiger balm. I can constantly feel itching and heat from my cock, balls and bottom. It is very frustrating that a my cock is caged there is nothing I can do to get to it to relieve it and I just feel like I constantly want to scratch it but can not and feel that I will feel this for a long time yet.

 

I had to drink all the cum from the glass after putting the cage back on and Mistress has informed me in the past that when she does allow me to cum I have to consume it all.

 

When I first visited Mistress the goal was to reach a pain level of 10. During this session I reached 40 which shows that through a lot of training I have been taught to suffer more and more which I believe pleases Mistress.

 

After the session my nipples are tender and still feel stretched, my cock and balls are tender, hot, stretched, and itching all over and my bottom is itching all over. To make it worse there is no way I can get to my cock to relieve the pain and intense itching at all.

 

As requested I attach pictures of my nettled thighs and bottom. To add to this Mistress has informed me that my pain and suffering is being shared with whoever she decides to add humiliation.

Pain-sub's diary of frustration..

Pain sub has been keeping a detailed diary of his frustration over the last few days. I'm sure you'll agree that it is HIGHLY entertaining! But if he thinks he's frustrated now; he's going to hate the next few weeks...

After enduring having my cock and balls softened by a wooden spoon, stretched with some exercise with weights attached, sandpapered to make them tender, smothered in tiger balm to heat them up then rubbed with a handful of nettles they were very tender and itchy. I had to put them immediately into a chastity cage. My cock was very irritated and itchy but there was no way I could get to it to relieve it. I was in a lot of discomfort and could not do anything to help it. The chastity device has an unforgiving metal ring to go over and behind the testicles. It is hard to get on and with my balls being tender, heated and nettled it was harder to achieve.

 

The first night was very uncomfortable as I had to endure the cage stopping any access to scratching myself to help the itching. I had to get used to living with the cage on including going to the toilet and wearing it under clothes.

 

When I woke the first morning my cock was trying to get hard in the cage but it was restricted from getting fully hard which was very uncomfortable especially as it was very itchy too.

 

On the Saturday I asked Mistress if I may have permission to remove the cage and was informed that if I sent in a picture it would be considered. I sent the picture and was later informed that I had to keep the cage on and I had no choice in the matter and to ask could mean I had to keep it on longer. I later read Mistresses website and realised that she had posted the picture on the website. That made me feel more humiliated knowing that anyone can see my predicament and I could do nothing about it. The comments mentioned on the website about the cage being too big added to the humiliation knowing that people could see and laugh at my situation. It was also worrying thinking about the comment about perhaps being made to go swimming in a pair of tiny swimming trunks. The cage feels large, cumbersome and heavy under ordinary clothes so the thought of something small would mean the bulge of the cage would be so obvious which was frightening. 

 

When wearing the cage under my clothes it felt really heavy and I was forever conscious of it and felt that it was noticeable as it felt so big under the clothes. This added to the discomfort of not being able to get to the itching to relieve it.

 

On Tuesday when my new device arrived Mistress made me swap them. The new devise is a bit more comfortable in that there is not an unforgiving ring behind the testicles but it felt that there was less space inside the cage than the first one.

 

Having to watch porn whilst Mistress teased me merciless made the cock grow large inside the cage being squeezed by the rings. The teasing was merciless and when Mistress said how much it excited her it made me even more harder feeling really constricted inside the rings of the cage. Mistress made it obvious that she controlled when I was in chastity or out of it or when I was allowed to be excited and hard and when I was allowed to cum which excited me more. After all the teasing I was squeezed hard into the cage and so excited leaving me frustrated and desperate but unable to do anything about it. As I got dressed for work I had to wait for my cock to go softer before I could go to work which took a while. The new cage felt more comfortable under my clothes but I was constantly aware of it being there and was always careful that it was not obvious to see under the clothes. Whilst I was at work I kept thinking of the teasing and how it pleased Mistress so much. I was feeling desperate and frustrated all day and had to be extremely careful not to get hard again which was humiliating.

 

I am now constantly aware of being in chastity and this makes it more frustrating and makes me feel more desperate to cum.

 

 

But why should I pay for Mistress' time?

So here's a question for you. Let's just say that you need the services of a lawyer. You book an appointment and go and see them to discuss your case. And during this discussion; would you ask said lawyer; "can I just have a free sample of your legal services?" ? No I don't think you would.

So why then is it seemingly okay for you to ask this of a Professional Dominatrix?

When you serve a Dominatrix be it in a real time session or webcam session, you are getting far more than a quick thrill. You're getting an appointment with somebody who is an expert in the field of kink and fetish. A lot of time and effort goes into the session. Props, clothing, equipment, knowledge, expertise...the list continues. You are enjoying a SERVICE! The fact that it's in the adult profession makes absolutely zero difference. Whether it was in the healthcare profession, legal profession or even the automotive profession - you still have to pay.

So you're horny and that's your excuse for wanting it for free. You need to satisfy your sexual appetite. Based on that theory; should it be free for you to satisfy your hunger? It amounts to the same. If you want free sexual pleasure, then go find it. But don't bother trying to get it from a Professional - because a refusal will often offend.

Today, I've been inundated with silly boys who seem to think they are exempt from paying. "I'll pay another day." "Can I just have free preview?" "Wow £2 per minute is a bit steep - I would prefer the real thing." In answer to the last one - you will not find a Professional Dominatrix who will charge £2 per minute for a real-time session - EVER. Good luck with trying to find one!

You get out of serving Me what you put in. I'm certainly not here to demand money because I feel you owe Me one. I'm here to give you an enjoyable kinky experience. But I expect to be paid for My time. Offering to retweet Me in return for a session is going to be ignored. I don't need you to retweet Me. I have spent the best part of 16 years working in marketing and promotion - I can take care of My own advertising thanks! I also have plenty of followers who will retweet Me without expecting something in return....

Those who are prepared to pay for My services are all very pleased with the experience. I give 100% in ALL of My sessions. I take the time to find out what is you need. I listen to your concerns. I respect that you have a life outside of our sessions and protect your privacy. I provide a listening service for those who need to get their kinky fetish concerns off their chest. I provide online companionship to those who need it. I am a Dominatrix who wears a lot of different hats - counsellor, listener, teacher, therapist, confidante. I allow you to tell Me all about your darkest secrets; safe in knowledge that unless otherwise specified; they remain 100% confidential. I allow you to unburden yourself in the majority of cases. I also look after you. I ensure that our play is safe, sane and consensual. I make every effort to ensure that you are not placed in harms way and that there isn't any risk of seriously physical injury or psychological trauma - and that is a LOT of responsibility. Remember that.

Therefore; common courtesy should dictate that it is only right and proper that you should be prepared to pay for not just My time but also a very extensive and complex service. If you feel that you should be exempt then I suggest you move along...because you will also be exempt from My attention.

You say I'm cruel like it's a bad thing...

Today I received a very piteous email from pain-sub...

"Mistress I hope it is okay to email you. I wanted to let you know that the chastity device is giving discomfort as I cannot get to my cock, which is very itchy after the nettles yesterday. Please may I ask if I may have permission to remove it please Mistress?"

Perfect! This is exactly the reaction I wanted and exactly the reason why I insisted he went straight into chastity after yesterday's cock torture session. I want him to be in discomfort. I want to imagine him squirming not only in frustration; but also from the sheer fact that he cannot scratch that itch. I want him to be in so much discomfort that he doesn't know what to do with himself.

I also fail to see how he can consider that he has any say in the matter when it comes to chastity. After all; what would be the point in locking away his little cock; if I'm going to allow him to be unlocked at the drop of a hat?

I did lull him into a false sense of security; telling him that if he sent Me a picture of himself in chastity, I would consider his request. I already knew what the answer was going to be, of course. But it was fun to tweet out his little picture along with his pathetic request. Two things were pointed out in response to said tweeted picture. First; it might look like the cock cage is a little big for him. Room for him to grow perhaps? No, he's not really a grower. There really is no danger of him "filling" it.

Second; and most importantly - his whining only serves to add more days and in fact weeks to his length of time in chastity. Like I've said; I LIKE the fact that he's in discomfort. I find it highly amusing and entertaining. I like to imagine that he's out in public; trying in vain to scratch his locked and itchy cock. Why people will be thinking he's got crabs! That adds a little something else to his suffering and adds to My amusement!

Of course I could be REALLY cruel. I could always instruct him to go swimming - dressed in his cock cage and a pair of tiny swimming trunks....

Session Review From Panty Perv.

Thank you for an amazing Skype IM chat this evening Mistress. You made me realise my fetish for woman's panties and how just a glimpse of a thong turns me on. Mistress Cristal made me instantly aroused when she told me she was wearing a tight, sexy thong and she had been all day. She said that she would make me wear them all day over my head, after she had been wearing them all day! If only I could be so lucky, the chance to sniff and lick Mistress' thong! Mistress then allowed me to start masturbating, telling me how she would get me to wank into her panties after she had been wearing them. Obviously Mistress told me this was the closest a worthless panty perv like myself would ever get to tasting her sweet nectar, but this only made me more aroused! After lots of begging, Mistress let me cum on the condition that I cleaned it all up with my tongue. Which I did of course, wishing that it was in Mistress' thong where I could taste her sweet taste as well!

Thank you again Mistress, I hope my tribute is worthy enough of a picture of your sexy thong. 

Your Panty Perv 

Pain-subs suffering...

Ah, there's nothing like a very harsh CBT session on a Friday afternoon! And that's just what I enjoyed with pain-sub today. Not only has he been crawling the walls in frustration; but he's now had his pain threshold pushed even further with some very heavy treatment!

Today his cock and balls were spanked, stretched, tiger-balmed, squeezed, sand-papered and finally nettled. The nettle torture was exquisite. Rather than him tentatively brushing his balls with the nettles; today he was made to grab a nice big handful and rub the nettles all over his cock and balls. Oh those painful little bumps looked lovely! He was in so much pain; he was physically shaking from it, much to My delight!

I did let him cum today. Well he has been in a permanent state of arousal since last Friday. And I have been spending the week teasing him while he collects his pre-cum in a brandy glass. He produced that today. It was of an interesting consistency. It had become watery where it had separated - looked rather like very sour milk actually. I can imagine it tasted no better. Even so; he was made to add to the contents and masturbated until he came into the glass - and he drank the entire contents. His face was screwed up in revulsion at this task; but he understands that he has no choice but to do exactly as he's told.

His chastity device arrived today and after the session; he was immediately locked into it. I want to add an edge to his constant teasing. How terrible it will be for him to be teased until he goes crazy, but not be allowed to get hard. He'll be doing more than climbing the walls by the time I've finished with him!

The chastity device he has is fully metal, and he does struggle somewhat to put it on and take it off. He has seen another one which is metal with leather straps. As tempting as it is to see him in discomfort; I plan for him to be in chastity for a long while - so I don't want him to risk injury. He's ordered the leather one - while he remains in the metal one until it's arrival.

At the end of the session; he did send Me a lovely little email:

"Mistress. As instructed I have put the chastity device back on and attach a picture. It added to the discomfort getting the ring over my stung balls and i can feel my cock itching inside it but can not touch it. I can still taste the week of precum and cum from the glass Mistress."

Oh, I'm going to have so much fun with this boy!

And the teasing continues....

So since our nettle-torture session on Friday; I've been teasing pain-sub continuously and keeping him on edge. He's now learning a whole new level of domination - and learning a very valuable lesson. The lessons is NEVER to take your pleasure for granted. For a start; it's not yours to begin with. Mistress decides when and if you may receive pleasure. Don't ever make the mistake of assuming I will always allow you to cum. I can give you the gift of pleasure and I can also take it away.

Saturday saw Me upload some very sexy clips to My AdultWork profile and I instructed pain-sub to go and watch them while he slowly stroked his cock. He was also instructed to have a brandy glass placed beneath his cock so he could catch the drips as he "drooled." Of course drooling was all he was permitted to do. Cumming was not on the agenda.

Having mastered that torturous task; he came back to report on his progress and admitted that he'd probably never felt so frustrated in his life. Of course I've lulled him into a false sense of security. He's about to learn that his level of frustration can and will be increased...

On Monday he came into direct IM for some more teasing - still I hadn't allowed him to cum at this point. Instead I felt it was needed for him to be teased some more. So I had him put on one of his favourite porn DVDs while he was chatting to Me. He chose a vanilla kind and got himself comfortable for a nice leisurely wank before work. Of course I had other ideas. So instead of him pulling himself off; he was forced to describe in detail what was happening on the DVD - including the lingerie the model was wearing, exactly what she was going to herself, how her pussy looked - what he'd like to do with her. All this while he continued to slowly stroke his cock without cumming. This time he was even more frustrated and fighting hard not to cum. He knew that he didn't have any choice but to take the level of teasing I have inflicted on him. But the fact that all his senses were being stimulated at the same time; meant that his horniness leapt to new levels and still he was begging for more permission to have his release.

Did I let him? Of course not! Instead I found it much more fun to send him to work in a permanent state of arousal. I wonder if he managed to concentrate on his job? I'm sure I'll be sharing his report with you all, soon! Mean while he has just over a centimetre of pre-cum collected in his brandy glass. He won't be allowed to cum until the glass is full - and I mean FULL. Yes, that's going to take a fair while...but the best things come to those who wait! 

IMPORTANT SCHEDULE CHANGES.

Unfortunately; Mistress has succumbed to a summer cold and looks and feels absolutely dreadful. I had hoped it was hay fever, but sadly not. This means I will be unable to offer cam to cam bookings until I'm better.

Instead; I will be offering text chat bookings and one-way cam bookings (your cam) bookings at a reduced rate as follows:

Text chat bookings via Skype (minimum 10 mins) - £0.50 per min

One way cam bookings via Skype (minimum 10 mins) - £1 per min

I will not be offering cam to cam bookings until Friday.

There is also a change to My schedule this week. I will be available for text chat and one way cam this week as follows:

MONDAY 12PM UNTIL 5PM AND 7.30PM UNTIL 10PM.

TUESDAY 7.30PM UNTIL 10PM.

WEDNESDAY 7.30PM UNTIL 10PM.

THURSDAY - NOT AVAILABLE.

FRIDAY - CAM BOOKINGS 1PM UNTIL 5PM. TEXT CHAT & ONE WAY CAM - 7.30PM UNTIL 10PM.

SATURDAY CAM BOOKINGS - 1PM UNTIL 5PM. TEXT CHAT AND ONE WAY CAM - 7.30PM UNTIL 10PM.

SUNDAY - NOT AVAILABLE.

To book an online session with Me during these times; you may email Me at the address below:

mistresscristal@mail.com

Weekly pics

Here's a look back at this week's pics....the more "private" ones are available in My AdultWork Private Gallery:

www.adultwork.com/TheCristalDomme 

Pain-sub suffers the nettles and is rewarded!

Well I think we can safely say that pain-sub has suffered far greater than he has every suffered before. Our session at 3pm this afternoon was definitely very entertaining. I knew he was nervous about it - and with just cause - because today was his first nettle-torture session. And after 4 weeks of not being able to cum; he was more than eager to please.

Pain-sub arrived to the cam session on time - which is always good. I like My slaves to be prompt and will ensure late slaves are punished. Pain-sub was naked as always (another thing slaves have to be when they arrive ready for a session) and straight away showed Me the lovely bunch of stinging nettles he had manage to harvest. Oh yes; I'd be saving those for the "finale".

He was hard, but not hard enough by My standards. I like him to remain hard throughout the session and the slightest sign of his dicklet going soft warrants a punishment. Because I know it can go soft very easily (humiliated yet, pain-sub?) I had him slap his cock, his helmet and his balls with the back of the wooden spoon - he spent about a minute delivering quick hard slaps to each section as I watched with amused enjoyment.

Next came the bulldog clips; which he used on his foreskin and balls - 4 in a circle on his foreskin - 4 on his balls. Once they were attached; the suit hanger came into play - and he attached the clips to his nipples. I could instantly see they were pulling on those tender nipples; but I wanted to see how much more they could take. So I instructed him to yank the hanger up towards the ceiling. It was at that point those clips REALLY began to tug on his already very sore nipples.

I wanted to build him up to take the nettles at the end of the session; so I gradually increased his torture as the session progressed. After letting the hanger fall, with the clips still attached to his nipples; I had him rub a generous amount of tabasco sauce into his cock and balls. Straight away he complained they were hot and that this was causing him a great deal of pain. But in a CBT session with Me; one can never suffer too much pain - My sadistic appetite can never be satisfied! So to ensure he really felt the burn; I had him vigorously rub his cock and his balls with some rough sand paper. That certain brought tears to his eyes!

Finally the moment both us had been waiting for; arrived. It was time for the nettles. He picked them up and spread his legs wide before brushing them against his already sore balls. Straight away I could see lots of red angry bumps appear on his ball sack as the nettles did their delicious work. His squirming was almost hypnotic as he writhed in agony. Of course, he had to do the same with his cock, so he was soon brushing the nettles against that. More red stinging bumps on his shaft and helmet - more squirming and writhing. He was certainly suffering well! And I was definitely enjoying the show!

Finally I allowed him to cum. Well it has been 4 weeks and he did do very well in today's session. Plus he's got the constant itching to look forward to over the next couple of days - yes I really am that evil! He came within only a few strokes and came very hard indeed - splashing his load into a brandy glass before drinking the contents. One very satisfied and relieved pain-sub. But his relief is very short-lived. His next task is to purchase as chastity device...and I'll be teasing him for a further few weeks while he's wearing it - oh that's going to be so much fun!

Torturous Teasing!

I love a good session of teasing and edging a slave; and the recent session I've had really has broken My previous record!

For the past 3 weeks; I have denied pain slave the opportunity to cum. I know he's climbing the walls and I know his cock and balls are extra sensitive - which is just perfect because we have a pain-training session later this afternoon. But while he's been waiting for today; he has been chatting with Me frequently via AdultWork DirectIM and of course I've taken the opportunity to keep him permanently aroused and on edge.

He's had to endure 3 hours of watching porn whilst teasing the end of his cock until it drools like a thirsty dog. He's also been instructed how to tease himself whilst talking with Me via DirectIM and I've enjoyed the power of denying him. His balls aren't just blue. They're close to exploding with spectacular effects. But still he does not get to cum. That little spot just above his pee hole has been throbbing away, and each time he's gotten more and more frustrated. Yesterday; he reached the crying stage. He would have to cum or he'd go crazy - well I guess he will have to go crazy because he's still denied.

So that's now 4 weeks being on edge. That's 4 delicious weeks of being frustrated. 4 weeks of permanent arousal until he can barely think straight. 4 weeks of having his pleasure completely controlled.

How has he managed to go this long? Well that's because he doesn't have any choice. He is My slave and so he has to do what I desire. He knows the consequences of disappointing Me. If he chooses to satisfy his urges he will disappoint Me. And if he disappoints Me; I will send him away. I will not want to see him. He is too addicted to Me to even contemplate that - so his delicious torture will continue until I decide the time is right for him to unleash his orgasm.

Speaking of torture; of course because he's so aroused his cock and balls will feel the pain I mean to inflict on him. In fact they will feel it more than they have ever felt it before. This is good news for Me because another task he has had to endure is gathering stinging nettles for his next session. Nettle season is another reason why I love summer - bring on the lovely hours of nettle-torture - which is exactly what pain-slave will be experiencing this afternoon.

The beauty of nettle-torture is that the effects are long-lasting. Of course there is the initial sting. But as the sting begins to heal, the sting site starts to itch. It's rather like a chicken-pox. That itch is so insistent that you just HAVE to scratch - no matter where you are. Of course; if he scratches; everybody will be assuming he has pubic lice - so we have some extra humiliation thrown in just for good measure!

Will I let pain-slave cum this afternoon after receiving his nettle-torture? Perhaps. Although I'll admit it is rather tempting to see how much longer he can last - while he's addicted to Me, I'm addicted to keeping him thirsty! 

Introducing the Sissy Academy!

Calling all sissy-sluts, sissyboys, pantysubs, and sissy-faggots! I new have a new website which is dedicated to you! 

The Sissy Academy is an on-line Academy designed for sissies like you who need to explore their girly side! You will be able to enjoy sessions with Me on webcam via Skype, AdultWork and Cass Cams and coming soon will be a dedicated Sissy Academy NiteFlirt line!

Not only that; but sissy email tasks will also be available for those who are not yet ready to take the plunge into LIVE sissy training.

Also on The Sissy Academy is the Sissy Gallery which is a place for you all to have your slutty, girly pictures posted. Feel free to dress up in your prettiest out fit and send Me your pictures for posting. The world needs to see your humiliation!

So what are you waiting for? Put on your heels and strut across there by clicking on the link below!

THE SISSY ACADEMY

How to apply to serve Me.

Everyday, I open My inbox to lots of email applications from subs wanting to serve Me on-line. And if I'm completely honest; only a few will actually capture My interest. Only a handful will be worthy of a response; with the rest being swept into the trash can - where they remain.

When you apply to serve Me, you have only ONE chance to create a good impression. And I'm not talking about showering Me with tributes. That does not show Me you genuinely wish to serve. If your email shows Me you simply don't have what it takes to serve Me; you will not be able to buy My attention. And of course I will refuse your tribute; because you are not worthy of Me. Money talks - but for Me; what you can DO; talks louder.

You should treat your application to serve like you are applying for a job - but with much more ass kissing. That said; you should not come across as obsequious because I can and will see through that. I'd much rather you be honest about your intentions rather than telling Me what you think I want to hear. Honesty is the best policy where I'm concerned and you should always be honest - even if being honest means you have to talk about your weaknesses as well as your strengths. That at least shows Me that you are human - and are not perfect. And while I expect you to dance to My tune; serving Me is a personal thing - so you should at least allow your personality to come through in your application.

Now let's go back to when you write a written application for a job. You wouldn't just write; "Need a job! Employ me!" So when you email Me with; "I'm a slave! Please own me!" it equates to the same. It tells me absolutely nothing. It doesn't tell Me about you, about your experience, about your aspirations, about your strengths and weaknesses. What it does tell Me though; is with that simple and ineffective sentence; you can't be bothered. And if you can't be bothered to put some effort into your application; then I fail to see how you will be bothered to put effort into your servitude.

So what should you put in your application to serve? Well it isn't actually that difficult, even for the novice. Like I said; treat it as an application for employment. Create a good impression - be informative and honest. Kiss ass but don't go over the top. Sell yourself - that at the end of the day; that is what you are doing - you are selling yourself to Me. But you have to work at it if you want Me to "buy". And because I'm a firm but fair Mistress; below I have included a few tips for you to follow:

• Always start your application email in a RESPECTFUL manner. "Hi hun" is NOT the way. "Dear Mistress" is a good start.
• Introduce yourself correctly - give your name, your age, your background, your marital status. Tell Me a little about yourself - but don't go overboard. I don't want to read an application which is the length of a bible.
• Talk about any experience you have had - good or bad. Talk about how long ago you had these experiences. How did these experiences make you feel?
• Talk about what you can offer in terms of servitude - but do this from MY point of view - not yours. If you start talking about how you have a massive dick and you can satisfy Me then I'm going to stop reading. You're serving your own needs - and will continue to do so. And those who only seek to serve their own needs will not be serving Mine.
• Talk about your kinks and fetishes - what makes you tick? What fetishes do you enjoy the most? What fetishes are you curious about and want to explore? 
• At the same time; talk about your limits - things you are NOT into. I receive so many emails with the words "I'll do anything you say!" I guarantee you won't. Those who say this fall into several categories a) again they can't be bothered b) again they're thinking with their dicks and what's in it for them, c) they know nothing about fetish or BDSM and are painfully showing their ignorance on the matter.
• Talk about your strengths and weaknesses - what area of servitude do you excel at and what area do you feel needs more work?
• Talk about how your servitude fits in with your lifestyle. Does your significant other know about this side of your personality? Do you require your servitude to be completely private or are you happy for your slave journey to be published on My website? Do you need total discretion? Remember, if anonymity is needed then it shall be given. I will ALWAYS respect that. But if you are quite the exhibitionist; then of course I will respect that too! :-)
• How do you wish to serve? Do you wish to serve via text, email, phone or webcam? How often are you able to serve? 
• Do you have any toys or equipment to use in our on-line sessions? Do you have any lingerie or fetish clothing? What items do you have? Are you prepared to acquire more?
•  DON'T MAKE DEMANDS. A slave never demands something. The words "I want" will get you nothing. However the words "I would like" I will consider.
• Finally and MOST IMPORTANTLY; understand that while I will help you in your journey of exploring your kinky side; I will not be sexually interactive with you. A common misconception among the unenlightened is that Mistress will have sex with Her slaves - cyber or otherwise. No, that doesn't happen - ever. No Professional Dominatrix I know of has sex with Her servants. And that is why you will never see full nudity from a Professional Mistress. The whole agenda is that Mistress' body is out of bounds for you - because you are unworthy of it. But that doesn't mean She can't tease you. Of course She can tell you about the intimate areas of Her body - because She knows it will tease you into a frenzy - but She will NEVER show them to you - because those areas are not for you. And She will enjoy reminding you of this important fact. Understand and respect that, and realise that these are the dynamics of a Domme/sub relationship. 

So now that I've very kindly given you the "tools" to begin; the rest is up to you. I'm certainly not going to tell you exactly what to write in your application - because I'm not going to do the hard work for you. And let's be clear on this; serving Me IS hard work because I have very high expectations. And it is for that reason I am very selective when it comes to choosing who is worthy of My attention. But with the hard work comes the reward - praise and approval from Mistress and pride in the fact that you have pleased Her. While it's true - pleasure from satisfying your selfish needs is nice - it's not long lasting. Pride in your efforts is - and will shine through far longer than the after-glow of a self-induced orgasm!

Ready to try and gain My interest? Then apply to serve Me by emailing Me at the address below:

mistresscristal@mail.com

Masturbation Monday & The Topless Fetish Wank!

You kinky boys are in for a treat today - a treat you won't want to miss! Today sees the return of Masturbation Monday - a day where you are ALLOWED to masturbate, but only with My instruction. But don't forget; IF I let you cum, you will expected to lick up your mess. That is not open for negotiation; no matter what your preference.

As previously discussed; Jerk Off Instruction/Guided Masturbation is available in a variety of different ways. All those new to instruction, will start off on a very basic level. Those who have served before; will be given the opportunity to enjoy advanced instruction which will incorporate male g-spot massage, prostate massage and milking! Want to experience the cum of your life? Then I will help you to discover that! Be prepared for the most earth-shattering orgasm you have ever had - one that will make your toes curl and your eyes cross - you won't forget your session in a hurry! Bring lube and some of your favourite toys and let the good strokes roll!

I will be LIVE on AdultWork for some Jerk Off Instruction/Guided Masturbation from 1pm today. You can either session with Me in Direct Cam or in a Pre-Booked webcam session. More details are available via the link below:

http://www.adultwork.com/ViewProfile.asp?UserID=468210

Alternatively, you can enjoy a session with Me via Skype for £1.50 per minute (minimum booking length 10 minutes) Tribute is payable via Amazon UK Gift Card only. To book, you may email Me at the address below. Bookings will be taken from 1pm.

mistresscristal@mail.com

Tonight; however sees the return of something I know you boys have been craving - the Fetish Wank! Yes, from 7.30pm until late; you will be able to enjoy worshipping My gorgeous 38 DD boobs while you wank your maggot. If you're REALLY good; I might even oil them up for you. But you have to be REALLY REALLY good for Me to consider that! I'll be getting the norks out; jiggling them, stroking them and using them to tease you good - it won't be long before you're panting like a dog - I guarantee it!

The Fetish wank will be available on Cass Cams ONLY, and you can chat with Me there from just 66p per minute. You can also chat with Me for FREE, but you won't get to see "the boys". You have to pay for that!

You can come and see Me at Cass Cams tonight via the link below. Of course if you're getting rather over-excited, I have a few vids on there for you to choose one - that should tide you over!

www.casscams.com/TheCristalDomme

Look What You Missed!

Miss Me on webcam today? Silly boy! Look at what you could have seen!

Don't miss Me tomorrow! I'll be on-line from 1pm!

mistresscristal@mail.com

Come Feed My Sadistic Appetite!

To ask Me if I'm Sadistic is like asking the Pope if he's Catholic. The fact is; I'm Sadistic by nature. I love to see My slaves writhe and squirm in pain while they beg for mercy. I get off on seeing them tremble in agony. Hearing their pathetic cries & whimpers makes Me wet and it is a fact that I will NEVER get enough of pushing their pain threshold. The more they suffer; the more I enjoy it.

I have several pain-sluts under My control and each one is an absolute delight to train. Pain slut 1, who's heavily into cock and ball torture; takes whatever I decide to throw at him. What started out as light CBT has now stepped over into harsh CBT - and I'm certainly not stopping there. The more he can take, the more I will give. He knows full well that My sadistic creativity knows no bounds. He also knows that the only way to make Me happy is for him to suffer - so he's always eager to please.

The best thing about being a Sadist is the fact that I'm constantly thinking up new ways to torture My sluts. How wonderful it is that simple household objects can be turned into instruments of torture. I can have a lot of fun with a suit hanger. Metal bottle caps - they can be fun too. Tabasco ice cubes...hmmmm, the things I can do with those!

Foodstuffs are great too - chillies, ginger, vinegar - oh My days! Already I'm falling into a Sadistic frenzy!

Let's not forget the non-physical sadism as well. Humiliation can be just as torturous. Oh how hilarious it is to see a grown man, dress as a little girl, and recite nursery rhymes on webcam - and that's just for starters. There are many ways in which I can enjoy humiliating you; each one more cringe-worthy than the last!

So what is My favourite form of Sadistic torture? Well I absolutely love torturing tiny cocks and pathetic balls. Indeed; your cock wasn't made for fucking - despite what you may think. It was designed for Me to torture it. It is the only use I have for that pathetic flap of skin. The only reason I show an interest in your cock is because I'm thinking of all the ways I can make it suffer. And THAT is the only way your cock will ever give Me pleasure; the ONLY way.

I offer Cock & Ball Torture sessions via webcam every Saturday. Sessions are conducted on a variety of different levels depending on your pain threshold. But as a rough guide; here is what you will need for each level:

MILD CBT:

String

Wooden Spoon

Tooth paste

MODERATE CBT:

Pegs/Clothes pins

String

Wooden Spoon

Candle

Leather Belt

Deep Heat

HARSH CBT:

Bulldog clips

String

Tabasco sauce

Chillies - chopped

Ginger - Chopped

Wooden Spoon

Suit hanger

Candle

Leather belt

Cotton Buds/Cue Tips

Tiger Balm

Sand Paper

Stinging Nettles

Pin Wheel

Think you can handle My Sadistic nature? Then you are invited to get in touch and tell Me all the ways you wish to suffer for Me. If you capture My interest; I'll respond. If however; I feel you're a wimp who will crumble at the slightest blow; I'll be ignoring you. I only entertain those with a real thirst for being a masochist!

mistresscristal@mail.com