Thursday, 24 April 2014

Learning To Let Go.

It may surprise many of My readers to know that I am actually a very spiritual person, who is in touch with the psyche, the rhythms of the universe, the vibrations and whole essence of what makes us, well...us!

And even though I have been hurt and betrayed very badly, I still turn to spirituality for healing.

For the last 5 years, I have been practising Buddhism and in particular, chanting. Funnily enough, I discovered the philosophy whilst in deep emotional pain, and it was through chanting every day that I found the strength to change the course of My life. And I'm doing it all over again.

After somebody does a real number on you and betrays your trust, it is often very easy to give up and say "right that's it. Everybody can now back the hell off!" but I won't do that. Because despite My persona, the truth is I do try to see the good in everybody.

When somebody does you wrong, all too often, not only do we blame the person, but we also blame ourselves. We ask why we didn't trust our instincts. How could we have been so foolish? Why didn't we listen to the advice of others? It is only natural that we would do this. But what good is it really going to do? You can't undo it by asking yourself these questions over and over again. There is no such thing as a time-machine. Yes, you made a bad call - it's part of life. But the key to success is to learn from it, forgive yourself and move on.

I know only too well, that I am often far too hard on Myself. I am My own worst critic, the sometimes you have to just tell yourself that everything happens for a reason. It does, and I've seen that more times that I care to remember.

So yes, it's true - I'm still hurting, but I'm hurting less each day. And with strength, good karma and with My philosophical beliefs, the pain I'm experiencing right now will soon be a memory. I am confident of that.

There is a saying in Buddhism, which is absolutely true: "Holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die." What that means is you can be angry as much as you like - it's not going to change anything, except leave you bitter. Learn to let go, love yourself, forgive yourself, forgive the person who hurt you (if not physically certainly mentally) and take the path to wisdom, peace and happiness. And this I am learning. :-)


Wednesday, 23 April 2014

COMING SOON - A Design Service For You!

Following the demise of Professor Profile, I am working hard to set up a completely new design service from scratch.

This will be something completely different, but will offer much more including marketing packages to help you to market your cam business effectively.

Features of this will include the following:


  • Full design service including pre-designed templates and custom design.
  • More design options including flash, html, css, bb code and html5.
  • Design service will be offered across the popular cam sites including NiteFlirt, My Girl Fund, My Free Cams, and Chaturbate. More sites to be added as needed.
  • Web design service including blogs, member sites, streaming sites and pay to view sites.
  • Help for the corporate side of the Adult Industry - so I can help adult sites as well!
  • A full marketing package - including seo of your profile/website, help with effective social media marketing so you can help your business to grow!
  • Graphic Design service - banners, buttons, flyers, video editing, animations and more.
The beauty of this is you will be dealing with a woman in the industry, somebody you can trust, who can deliver exactly what you need. Not only do I have 12 years working in the adult industry, but I have 16 years experience of being in business, and 16 years experience of promotion and marketing. 

But I need you help in order to help you. Remember, I am catering this business with YOU in mind. I want to be able to deliver exactly what you need. So please, don't be afraid to email any suggestions of what would make YOUR life easier when it comes to your cam business. I am open to all suggestions, so I can tailor this to suit you.

Please feel free to get in touch at mistresscristal@mail.com :-)

Monday, 21 April 2014

Getting My House In Order

After having a pretty horrendous weekend (and finally seeing the true colours of some unscrupulous people), I am taking some time off to restart.

My partnership with Professor Profile is officially over, but I will be looking to offer similar service soon, with even more features. This is something I will be researching.

In the meantime, I will not be available for bookings for a few days. But when I come back, I will taking Myself off into a new direction, which will benefit Dommes, camgirls and subs alike! ;-)