Monday 16 February 2015

A Message For The "FinDommes"....

In the last week or so; Twitter has been full of what I can only describe as silly little girls who want to play at being Mistress. I say "play" because in reality they don't have a clue about what being a Dominatrix entails and they certainly don't have a clue about what being a Financial Dominatrix entails.

I'm talking about these 18/19 year old "wannabes" who think because they have a wishlist, a paypal account and a webcam; that automatically allows them to claim the title of "Findomme". It doesn't. And this post is dedicated to you "wannabe" Dommes - those who think they are the bee knees when it comes to Financial Domination, when really you're just an embarrassment.

The fact that you display your lack of knowledge about the fetish speaks volumes. Time and time again I see the same old tweets; the "fuck you pay me" tweets, the "fucking pay me you faggot loser". You know nothing about these subs you are tweeting to. You don't even know if they enjoy being verbally abused. Yet off you go with the nasty mouth and expect it all on a plate. It doesn't work like that. They tribute you because they adore you, worship you even. You give them a reason to worship you. In fact, if they do worship and adore you, they'll send tributes without you even asking.

There there's the "I spoil back" brigade." Financial Fetish is NOT about giving a financial sub something in return. If you're expecting money in return for sending him pics of your clout; you're just being a whore. Granted - that will make some men feel a throbbing in their dicks - but forget about them "serving" you long-term. They'll look at said pictures, whack one out and that's it. They'll then move on to the next silly girl who is promising naked pics for tributes. And the fact that they only give tributes in return for some wank material suggests they aren't submissive at all - they're thinking only about their own needs, not yours. But then you silly instadommes aren't intelligent enough to realise this...

And now for the real barrel-scraping lot. Yes, you know who are you. You are the "Dommes" who I've seen actually BEGGING subs. I've seen you send unsolicited tweets to men; BEGGING them to send you tributes. NO, NO NO! Since when does a Dominant beg a submissive? A Domme does not come across as desperate. She comes across as aloof. She makes it known that she does not NEED tributes. In fact, the very fact that she accepts a tribute from a sub is enough. She is in a small way acknowledging the existence of the sub. But she doesn't need to. I have in fact sent back tributes - telling slave that I have no use for him with a "Like yourself; your money is not wanted" email. Never have I begged a slave for a tribute. They either give it or they don't. If they do give it, they get My acknowledgement - and that is all they get. Sending a tribute does not give them any right to other things. It just means that just for a moment, they have received My attention - which is taken away as quickly as it is given.

I don't write this to be bitchy; although there is an element of Me making it clear to you that your behaviour is not welcome in the world of BDSM - something else you clearly know little about. I write this because it is the genuine subs who suffer. I have seen way too many who have been conned - by a cute 19 year old "Findomme" who turns out to be a hairy-arsed bloke. And in turn, it's the Genuine Dommes who also suffer - the Women who have learned their art, who have perfected it, who know it inside and out and have practised it for many years. These women have the RIGHT to call themselves Dommes - they've earned it! But they have their entire art tarnished by subs who have been burned by a fake. Some unenlightened subs tar us with the same brush - because their first experience was not a pleasant one. What gives you the right to do that?

And of course when I ask you silly girls this question; I get a tweet full of abuse "bitch, you're fat an ugly, mind your own business." Yeah...real mature. No Genuine Domme I know of (and I know many) speaks like that. They certainly don't resort to play-ground insults because if they do; they risk their reputation and dignity. But then you don't know about that one either do you? The school of carrying yourself in a dignified manner - that went out of the window when you sent your first gynae pic to a "finsub".

Oh, and the HUGE give away on your profile is the fact that you take Paypal. Yeah...good luck with that one. Will you be so high and mighty when you lose ALL of money due to your Paypal account being limited? Paypal don't allow adult transactions - and Genuine Dommes know this - that's why they don't use it. Unlike you; they've done their research.

And to the silly girl who claims she has $33k in her Paypal account - keep dreaming! No way would PayPal allow that - you would have to have a business account - with a business entity number...but I guess when you thought the world of "Financial Domination" was easy money; you didn't think about that...or that many of the subs you're insulting can smell your bullshit before you do.

In short; go back to playing with your dolls until you grow up - and leave the REAL Financial Domination to the experts! 

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