Saturday 2 April 2016

Domination & Responsibility.

It doesn't matter if you're a real-time or an online Dominatrix. If you are practising the art of BDSM; it comes with an immense amount of responsibility. And that responsibility is about ensuring your slave is always safe. You must always remember; that your slave is putting his trust in you 100%. When they submit to you; they give up complete control and trust that while you will control their life, mind, body and soul; you will also ensure that they will never come to any harm.

This responsibility begins from the word go; not just during a session. It is so very important to do a full health screening of your slave. You need to ensure you have a comprehensive background of your slave's health and well-being. Not doing so risks serious injury to your slave; or worse. This is one of the few things you DO owe your slave.

When I take on a new slave; they have to fill out an application questionnaire. There is no way around this. They provide answers on their likes and dislikes; experience, limits (another VERY important factor!) and of course their health. And you need to ensure you know EVERYTHING. That is why; if a slave should be successful in the process; they are then subjected to an online interview via text chat. I will ask them details of any illness or conditions they have; any surgeries; any history of medical complications; any dietary requirements; and of course; a complete list of any medication they are taking.

Some slaves have actually been quite surprised at Me asking such questions. They have even gone so far as to consider it "intrusive". It is then that I remind them it is for THEIR safety. You must provide some care for your sub - every time you play with them.

Another reason it is important to find out these things is for the BDSM techniques you intend to use. For example; the use of electrics on a slave with a heart condition is asking for trouble. Just like the use of poppers on a slave with heart, lung or blood-pressure problems is also very dangerous. If you have a slave with diabetes; you would definitely not do a forced-intox session involving alcohol - that'll put them at serious risk of a diabetic coma.

So as you can see; there's a lot more to being a Dominatrix than making your slave do naughty things. It's a title you earn - by taking care of your slave - before, during and AFTER session - every single time! 

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