So today I had a Direct Message from a "slave" begging for ownership. Only one problem with that....he is currently owned by another Domme. Or at least he was...
You see; if you are owned, and you seek ownership from another, it is the height of rudeness. It shows that you have zero respect for your Mistress, if you are prepared to cast Her aside because somebody else has caught your eye.
Being owned is NOT about you. You should remember this. A Mistress does not need you - YOU NEED HER! She chooses to own you on the basis of what you can do for her. The moment She agrees to take you under Her control; you forsake all other Dommes and devote yourself entirely to Her.
In a way, Domination is rather like a marriage in this sense. When you're married, you don't go out and find another woman, and marry her. That's bigamy.
And while there is no legal ownership, there is something to be respected in the Domme/sub relationship. If you go around seeking ownership from others, you are not respecting that and you are definitely NOT respecting your Domme.
So I had to do the right thing. I informed this "slave's" owner of his disrespectful activities. I copied her in all his messages, after he told Me he was to meet her this coming Monday. Nope, not any more. She has banished him from her realm, for him never to return.
Slaves who do this scream time-waster to Me. The chances are; he wouldn't have turned up to the agreed session in the first place. He was clearly a "shopper" going from Domme to Domme for his own selfish needs. That is not the way slave should conduct himself.
So My good deed for the day is done - but let it be said that if any other "slaves" attempt this disrespectful behaviour, they too will suddenly find themselves without an owner. I respect etiquette and I WILL inform your Mistress. Make no mistake about that!
You see; if you are owned, and you seek ownership from another, it is the height of rudeness. It shows that you have zero respect for your Mistress, if you are prepared to cast Her aside because somebody else has caught your eye.
Being owned is NOT about you. You should remember this. A Mistress does not need you - YOU NEED HER! She chooses to own you on the basis of what you can do for her. The moment She agrees to take you under Her control; you forsake all other Dommes and devote yourself entirely to Her.
In a way, Domination is rather like a marriage in this sense. When you're married, you don't go out and find another woman, and marry her. That's bigamy.
And while there is no legal ownership, there is something to be respected in the Domme/sub relationship. If you go around seeking ownership from others, you are not respecting that and you are definitely NOT respecting your Domme.
So I had to do the right thing. I informed this "slave's" owner of his disrespectful activities. I copied her in all his messages, after he told Me he was to meet her this coming Monday. Nope, not any more. She has banished him from her realm, for him never to return.
Slaves who do this scream time-waster to Me. The chances are; he wouldn't have turned up to the agreed session in the first place. He was clearly a "shopper" going from Domme to Domme for his own selfish needs. That is not the way slave should conduct himself.
So My good deed for the day is done - but let it be said that if any other "slaves" attempt this disrespectful behaviour, they too will suddenly find themselves without an owner. I respect etiquette and I WILL inform your Mistress. Make no mistake about that!
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