Saturday 11 July 2015

What is it to be "owned"?

The words; "You own me" are banded about a lot by many of the submissives I encounter. But the fact is; few of them actually know what that means. And an even smaller number are ever truly owned by Me.

What is it to be "owned" by a Dominatrix? Simply put it means you become Her property. And not just in title. To be "owned" means you are freely giving all of yourself to Mistress - mind, body and soul. It also means you are freely giving Her your entire life - everything you do and everything you are. That is real ownership.

Real ownership means that from the moment you wake up in the morning until the moment you go to sleep at night - you live your life for Mistress. Mistress is the sole focus of your mind. Every single task you perform is with Mistress in mind. You live for Mistress. You live in accordance with the way Mistress expects. Your entire life revolves around the needs and desires of Mistress. Your needs and desires become obsolete; as does your independent persona. Everything about yourself, as an independent person does not matter. Indeed; they are now extinct. The only thing which matters in your life is your Mistress - your Owner.

In actual fact, very few subs can rightfully consider themselves to be owned by Me. I can count them on one hand. While many of the submissives I speak to would like to be "owned" be Me, only a chosen few are - because I prefer QUALITY over quantity.

Those who do enjoy being owned by Me; understand the responsibility that comes with the territory. They understand that it is far more than just a "title". Titles are just words - a combination of letters in a certain order. Being owned comes from within and they knew they have to strive hard to retain that status. What's more; they enjoy striving hard to retain it. They seek only to please Mistress and make Her proud. They take whatever Mistress throws at them - the good and the bad - and they do this without question or objection. They know that they can only ever be truly happy when they have made Mistress happy. Everything else pales into insignificance. They have only once true purpose in life - to please and to give - all of themselves - completely.

No, it's not about gifts or tributes. This is another common misconception. If you think I'm going to "own" you simply because you have purchased a stack of stuff from My Wishlist then you are very much mistaken. Anybody can do that. Those are just things. And I guarantee your gifts will be remembered long after you are forgotten.

But if you prove to Me, during the course of your servitude that you have what it takes to be considered for ownership; then that's a different matter. It's about the DOING and the BEING - actions and reactions.  It's about demonstrating your own unique qualities and standing out from the rest; and therefore making yourself memorable to Mistress - in a positive light. I remember a lot of so-called "subs" in a negative light - and the few I remember in a positive light are those who now belong to Me.

So you see - it's not simply a case of stating "you own me, Mistress". It is far more complicated that that and takes EFFORT on your part. Anybody can put four little words together. But can you truly appreciate and act on what those four little words mean?

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