Friday, 5 February 2016

TWO HOURS OF INTENSE COCK TEASING!


Three forms of intense vibration for chastity sub - a cock ring, anal plug and wand. He must spend the next 2 hours teasing himself like this. Oh and of course he won't be allowed to cum. He hasn't filled the glass with his pre-cum yet. This is why I do so love chastity, tease and denial! It's so gratifying to leave them in a constant state of permanent frustrated arousal! 

Thursday, 4 February 2016

Panty Boy Turns Sissy...

So Panty Boy had a go at doing My Sissy Humiliation task last week. And because I love to humiliate him; I thought I'd share how he got on....

On receiving Mistress’s orders I scanned the list and identified the things that I had and the things I’d need to get. I didn’t own an anal plug or a dildo so I went to a well-known online adult store and ordered one of each. Beginners ones for my virgin ass of course.
The next thing I did was to shave as Mistress instructed. And I’m not talking just about my chin oh no. Chest, underarms, groin, legs, buttocks and back all had to be rendered hairless. It’s a good job that I’m not a particularly hairy guy because this took forever. I tried clippers, an old electric shaver and finally a disposable razor to get it all done. And when it was I surveyed myself and thought “my arms look a bit hairy now that the rest of me isn’t. Better shave those too”. So off came the arm hair too. Out of the shower and a generous amount of Royal Jelly Cocoa Butter Body Moisturising something or other was applied all over. Smooth and silky.
So the first few days of my task had been taken up with gathering together the few bits I needed and shaving. So I was all set up to do the actual task in the second week before the due date of Thursday 28th.
To cut a long story short my second weeks plans went to hell in a handbasket because a sickness went round the entire family in that week. I told Mistress as soon as I knew that I was going to miss the deadline, and why, and she was very understanding - even giving me an extra day to complete the task. But the stomach bug from hell made that impossible. However by Monday morning everyone was well and back where they all should be so I could finally complete the task. So it was on with my best stockings, thong and bra before trying to apply lipstick for the first time ever. I know what you’re thinking: “Yeah, right!” but this really was my first time at wearing lipstick. Well I made a right Horlicks of it and even reapplying and trying to improve I still looked like everyone’s Granny – when she’s half-cut.


But down to business – the first task was to worship the dildo. Placing the dildo on the floor I assumed the position; on hands and knees, ass in the air and got stuck in. And I’ll tell you what – 30 minutes is a long time! The dildo, of course, gives you no feedback or encouragement just sitting there wobbling like the lump of plastic jelly that it is. So I found that during this task most of my concern was for my knees or back which were starting to play up. And for the photography. Trying to take a picture of yourself giving a blow job to a dildo is not an easy skill let me tell you. But when the 30 minutes was up it was time to get on my back and reach for the lube. Inserting first one, then two lubricated fingers up my ass – or sissy pussy as I must now refer to it I took a few quick pictures as best as I could before putting the camera down and getting stuck in. So to speak. I don’t know how to describe this one – it was weird. Both pleasurable and erotic and at the same time weird and uncomfortable. And I’m not just talking about the position here: flat on my back legs raised, knees bent. Perhaps I should have put my latex gloves on. When the ten minutes were up I lubed and inserted the anal plug and sat on it for 15 minutes whilst I resumed worshipping the dildo. Now worshipping the dildo with lips and tongue – no problem. But throat? No way. I couldn’t do it no matter how I tried the gag reflex was just impossible for me to stop. As soon as the dildo reached towards the back of the tongue bluuuuurg. Not good when you’ve recently been suffering with a vomiting bug.



Swiftly on to the dildo. I removed the butt plug and lubed the dildo and basically sat on it. Not all the way to start off with but I tried some different positions and sitting on it was basically the best. And, again, this was pleasurable. But again there was that something that kept bursting my pleasure bubble. And, eventually, I think I put my finger on what it was that was bothering me. That feeling. It was like I wanted to have a poo. And this was in reverse. Like pooing in reverse – that’s what I felt. And it turned me off every time.


The finale was to be using the magic wand vibrator on my perineum to keep myself on the edge and milk my pre-cum into a glass. I love my new magic wand vibrator that I bought for my previous task so I thought this would do its magic. But after 10 minutes I had produced precisely – nothing. Not one drop; not even close. I couldn’t quite work this out but decided to try again – without the cock cage. So I removed my chastity device and putting that to one side I started again. This time I could get an erection and the vibrator started doing its thing. Soon I was dribbling into the glass and at the end of 10 minutes I had a small amount of pre-cum collected. So down the hatch it went – every last drop Mistress. Cheers!
I hope I have please you with my attempt at this task Mistress and I apologise for its lateness and will send the appropriate late fee by return.
And the cage is back on Mistress.



Monday, 1 February 2016

Dispelling The Myths About Financial Fetish.

Financial Fetish....many claim to practice it..few actually understand it.

Financial fetish is perhaps among the most complex of fetishes; given that the fact that it's primarily psychological. And what you think you know about Financial Fetish probably leans more towards fiction rather than fact.

First and foremost; Financial Fetish is primarily about power. It is perhaps one of the most extensive forms of slave control. The fact that it involves money is irrelevant. The financial aspect it secondary to the mechanics of the fetish. It is the complete power exchange which makes the fetish so very exciting to those who desire to explore it.

It is for this reason; it is imperative to research the fetish as fully as possible. And this is the advice I give to newbie slaves and Dommes alike. One cannot simply wake up one morning and decide they are going to be a Financial Dominatrix. Just like one cannot wake up one morning and decide to be a financial slave. The fetish requires you to have an extensive knowledge of all the facets of it before you even begin to practice it.

Perhaps the most common misconception about Financial Fetish is that Dommes can use bratty and abusive language to encourage slaves to give them money. Incorrect. You cannot force a slave to become your financial slave; particularly if they have never explored the fetish before. There has to be a desire and understanding on both sides. That is how you build trust in the relationship. If there isn't an amount of trust on either side; then that professional relationship is doomed to failure. Neither are you exercising the power you have over your financial slave. As I've stated before; the fetish is very much psychological. The key to Financial Fetish is having the power to make your slave WANT to hand over his money. A good Financial Dominatrix should never need to resort to demanding cash. If you have managed to stoke the fires of desire within your slave; it will be offered freely.

That said; there is nothing wrong with reiterating the control you have over your slave. Garnishing their salary is common practice; provided slave is agreeable. Provided you have begun the groundwork of establishing trust; your slave will happily submit with details of his finances so that you can work out a monthly budget. But don't get greedy unless you're a rinser. Like all forms of domination; respect is still of the highest importance. You're not going to bankrupt your slave (unless that is what he wants). You're going work with him to establish a realistic tribute budget.

And this is where the psychology of the fetish comes in. You are controlling various aspects of your slave's life; not just his finances. You're deciding what sacrifices he should make in order to make you happy. Wants and needs are important. He wants to go out on the piss with his mates next Friday; but he needs to make sure he has enough to meet his submissive obligations. And if he's a genuine financial slave; he'll happily cancel his plans for a night on the town - because being shown you're controlling this area of his life is very exciting to him. And while he's sat at home; instead of in the local pub; he'll be working himself up into an erotic frenzy simply because you have demonstrated the power you have over him. And it is this which will keep him coming back for more...

This is but a small example of the very nature of the fetish and it is up to you to research it further. The complexities of it are far too many to put in a simple blog entry. Many Financial Mistresses spend years learning the fetish to ensure they are fully knowledgeable. It is not something one can learn in a few hours.

But once you've done your research; it's time for you to put what you have learned into practice. Market yourself; but market yourself wisely. How you conduct yourself in your advertising reflects how well you know your stuff. And it's very easy to get it 100% wrong.

"Pay me because I deserve it, fag boy! Your #FinancialGoddess demands your cash!"

Incorrect. This is a tweet from somebody who is not only clueless about the fetish; but demonstrates how she is money orientated. As I've explained previously; Financial Fetish is NOT just about money. It's about power and having the power to make your slave WANT to tribute you. And if you are indeed motivated by money; and believe the ridiculous myth that it's "easy money" - Financial Fetish definitely isn't for you.

"Does Financial Domination put you in a quiver? Find out more about the ULTIMATE form of control!" 

Now this is a good example of how to market your services. You're talking about it from slave's point of view. You're showing that you understand how Financial Fetish makes a financial slave really feel. You're also showing that you understand about the fetish. You've done your homework - and because you've done your homework; you're more likely to gain interest.

So what happens once you've gained the interest of a financial slave? Well this is good advice for both Dommes and subs alike.

Most experienced Financial Mistresses will expect a tribute up front. This is not a sign of greed. Nor it is a sign that they are "fake"  (although this is an accusation some have experienced.)

As a genuine financial slave; the onus is on you to prove first; how much you understand the fetish and secondly; how you propose to go forward. And think carefully when you make your initial tribute. How much you spend will often determine whether or not you will receive a response to your application. Again; this is not a signal that Mistress is greedy. It is what separates the true financial slaves from the players.

Players are those who a) don't know about the fetish b)seek to waste the time of Mistress and c) do not have the correct mind-set to explore the fetish. An experienced Mistress will spot a player very quickly - even before they have sent tribute. Players will often make ridiculous suggestions of what they can afford - and in reality won't send a penny. Secondly; on the rare occasions they do send tribute; they will expect something in return - that isn't Financial Fetish. The fact that you are enjoying the power Mistress has over you; is the very essence of the fetish.

In addition; players are attracted to those who practice the fetish but in reality know nothing about it. In other words "instadommes". Yes; those girls how use foul language and demand money. Those who tweet intimate pictures in return for money. Players love these because they know full well they can lead them a merry dance. They exploit the girls' ignorance and lack of knowledge; turning their time-wasting behaviour into a fetish all on it's own.

Those girls who have been burned by players will often tweet about them "avoid @fredbloggs - #timewaster!" Yep - you've just given said player what he wants - attention and acknowledgement. He knows he's gotten to you and has achieved exactly what he set out to do.

I personally can spot a player before they've realised it - they never get a response. And I won't reward them with undeserved attention.

So how to tribute? Again; this demonstrates the importance of doing your homework. Most will set out exactly how they expect tribute. That means you respect those methods. You don't quibble about it and ask if they take other methods. Power and control is not about negotiation. And by demanding another tribute method; you're already attempting to control the relationship. Remember; it's always on Mistress' terms. Your needs and desires will be acknowledge should it be deemed necessary.

For the record; it is NEVER a good idea to offer Paypal as a method of tribute. Paypal do not accept payments for adult services - and you will quickly find your Paypal account permanently limited and all your money gone. Neither should you consider bank transfer until you have gotten to know your slave very well. And even then; you should exercise caution. Gift vouchers and NiteFlirt tributes are My recommendations.

So what happens after initial tribute?

Provided you have pleased Mistress with your initial tribute; She will contact you. Perhaps She may conduct an online interview with you to gauge just how extensive your knowledge of the fetish is. Or She may even send you a budget sheet for you to complete. I personally like to go down the "interview" route - and establish a rapport with said slave before working out a monthly budget. This will also help to deal with any fears or misconceptions from either of you - as well as establishing mutual trust. It's also a good idea to establish if slave would like things like verbal abuse to be part of the process.

Once the budget is worked out - REALISTICALLY; exploration begins. Slave will make his monthly tribute to Mistress without being asked. A good Financial Mistress should not need to remind him - nor should She have to demand it. It comes naturally - a part of slave's life. And of course if slave should happen to forget his obligations; he readily accepts financial penalties - again paying them without being asked. He will also ensure Mistress is aware of any "treats" he has planned for himself - a holiday, season ticket to his favourite football team - and as part of the control; Mistress will decide if he may have those treats. If She feels he doesn't deserve them; he goes without - and enjoys going without with the fully knowledge he's made that sacrifice to please Mistress. He will pay close attention to the needs of Mistress - make regular visits to any wishlists and look at how he can please Her with a gift. If Mistress sends him a picture of said received gift; he sees it as a bonus. But the fact he's sent it; will have him drooling; particularly if he's scraped together the last of his monthly wage in order to fund it. He sees the gift as an investment - but not in financial sense - it's an investment which continues to show the power his Mistress has over him - and how that power is now part of his physical being - as natural as breathing in and out.



THAT; ladies and gentlemen - is Financial Fetish!




Sunday, 31 January 2016

FETISHES EXPLORED.

I'm often asked about the kind of fetishes I enjoy and explore with My slaves. The fact is; there are too many to mention in a tweet. Far too many. And there is a fetish for anything and everything. But as a guide; here is a list of fetish I offer in My online sessions:

COCK & BALL TORTURE
NIPPLE TORTURE
FOOT FETISH
FINANCIAL FETISH
SPANKING
WHIPPING
CANING
SLEEP DEPRIVATION
CHASTITY TRAINING 
BONDAGE
BEHAVIOUR MODIFICATION
GAINING (FATTENING UP A SLAVE)
HAIR FETISH
NAIL FETISH
SHOE FETISH
STOCKING FETISH (BOOKED 24 HOURS IN ADVANCE)
TIGHT/PANTYHOSE FETISH (BOOKED 24 HOURS IN ADVANCE)
INTOXICATION FETISH
SENSORY DEPRIVATION
EDGING FETISH
HUMILIATION
SMALL PENIS HUMILIATION
TEASE & DENIAL
CASTRATION FETISH (FANTASY ONLY)
PENECTOMY (FANTASY ONLY)
FORCED BI
FORCED TRANSSEXUALISM
SISSY TRAINING
DILDO TRAINING
STRAPON TRAINING
STRAPON WORSHIP
BOOT WORSHIP
WELLY BOOT FETISH (BOOK 24 HOURS IN ADVANCE)
BALLOON POPPING FETISH (BOOK 24 HOURS IN ADVANCE)
SPLOSHING
GIANTESS FETISH
GODDESS WORSHIP
CLOTHED ASS WORSHIP
BREAST WORSHIP (SUBJECT TO TRIBUTE)
BREAST TEASING (SUBJECT TO TRIBUTE
LATEX FETISH (BOOK 24 HOURS IN ADVANCE)
WATER FETISH
HEEL FETISH
VAPING FETISH
IGNORE FETISH
TONGUE FETISH
ARMPIT FETISH
CRUSHING FETISH
TOTAL POWER EXCHANGE
FEMALE SUPREMACY
LIPSTICK FETISH
HAIR-CUTTING FETISH
OBJECTUM SEXUALITY
FAGGOT HUMILIATION
KIDNAP FETISH
INTERROGATION FETISH
LATEX GLOVE FETISH
MEDICAL FETISH
TOILET FETISH (WATERSPORTS ONLY)
BURPING FETISH
ANAL TRAINING
SNEEZING FETISH
STICKY-TAPE FETISH
SOCK FETISH
SLIPPER FETISH
TRAINERS FETISH
ADULT BABY FETISH (NONE SEXUAL)

Broadly speaking; I will explore anything which is legal and doesn't have the "ick" factor. So that means I don't do anything to do with blood, vomit and excrement. 

Your fetish not on the list? Get in touch to make enquiries.

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